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RE: About the facesitting. - 3/1/2005 3:09:02 PM   
LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: MsLisa

I have a couple of questions about the Queening bench if y'all don't mind. Does the domme straddle the padded arms and the submissives head goes into the sling? If so, how does this allow breath play?


Having never tried it with a Queening bench, I'm not sure how it would work. I know that simply straddling a boy's face works very well.

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RE: About the facesitting. - 3/1/2005 3:23:45 PM   
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I always liked the idea of something called a "Hood Panty" for enforced cunnilingus.

Id love to have a dominant use one on me!!

Check it out....scroll to bottom of the page.


http://www.xtratalk.com/lingerie/satique.html


"Even before her order came in the mail, Mistress Sophie was working her magic with her bad boys at the mere idea of the Hood Panty. It’s a women’s panty with an attached hood made of nylon. The hood has an opening for a naughty boy’s mouth, in just the right spot. A ribbon ties around the neck to keep you there. Ah, but would you want to be anywhere else!


Too awesome for words.

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RE: About the facesitting. - 3/1/2005 6:26:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MaitresseEden

For me it isn't about the breath control aspect of it, it is about my pleasure. While I enjoy hommage with the tongue, to be honest, face sitting, is not the most comfortable position for me enjoy that kind of worship. Since, body worship is about "my" pleasure, I much prefer other positions for both vaginal and ass worship.

Ms. Eden


I agree, but this is a different situation, in a facesitting, I like to feel the full weight of the Mistress as she sit on a way or another on my face and offcourse, the breath control.
But what you say is nice too MaitresseEden, what I like is to feel a pressure, that could be just a little one... like when she put a hand or two, firmly or gently behind my head, I do a better job like this.

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RE: About the facesitting. - 3/1/2005 6:36:53 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Sissyslave71

I always liked the idea of something called a "Hood Panty" for enforced cunnilingus.

Id love to have a dominant use one on me!!

Check it out....scroll to bottom of the page.


http://www.xtratalk.com/lingerie/satique.html


"Even before her order came in the mail, Mistress Sophie was working her magic with her bad boys at the mere idea of the Hood Panty. It’s a women’s panty with an attached hood made of nylon. The hood has an opening for a naughty boy’s mouth, in just the right spot. A ribbon ties around the neck to keep you there. Ah, but would you want to be anywhere else!


Too awesome for words.


I like that alot, thank you for the link Sissyslave71!

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RE: About the facesitting. - 3/4/2005 10:52:08 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MaitresseEden

For me it isn't about the breath control aspect of it, it is about my pleasure. While I enjoy hommage with the tongue, to be honest, face sitting, is not the most comfortable position for me enjoy that kind of worship. Since, body worship is about "my" pleasure, I much prefer other positions for both vaginal and ass worship.

Ms. Eden


I agree, but this is a different situation, in a facesitting, I like to feel the full weight of the Mistress as she sit on a way or another on my face and offcourse, the breath control.
But what you say is nice too MaitresseEden, what I like is to feel a pressure, that could be just a little one... like when she put a hand or two, firmly or gently behind my head, I do a better job like this.
Borak
Yes--This is what I do best, and have had the most experience at. But I haven't yet met someone with a Queening seat. The chalange for me as I see it is to see to the Mstrs's pleasure as She sees fit. This is also one of the most sensual experiences; so I've been told and have experienced. I am curious about breath control, and would like to know about other's experiences.I would also greatly appreciate any ideas from Mstrs's who enjoy this type of devotion. And, I would also appreciate any ideas I could employ to help minimise cramping of a Mstrss's legs during an extended play period? Pressure Points etc? I've used masage, and pressure bilaterally at L-5-S1 which is not helpful to everyone.

< Message edited by ProScatman -- 3/5/2005 3:45:48 AM >


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RE: About the facesitting. - 3/4/2005 11:25:16 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Sissyslave71

I always liked the idea of something called a "Hood Panty" for enforced cunnilingus.

Id love to have a dominant use one on me!!

Check it out....scroll to bottom of the page.


http://www.xtratalk.com/lingerie/satique.html


"Even before her order came in the mail, Mistress Sophie was working her magic with her bad boys at the mere idea of the Hood Panty. It’s a women’s panty with an attached hood made of nylon. The hood has an opening for a naughty boy’s mouth, in just the right spot. A ribbon ties around the neck to keep you there. Ah, but would you want to be anywhere else!


Too awesome for words.


something that I have run across that is somewhat similar in principal is the pussy collar - that's what I'm looking forward to having ... http://www.akashaweb.com/pussy.htm

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RE: About the facesitting. - 3/5/2005 4:03:07 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsLisa

I have a couple of questions about the Queening bench if y'all don't mind. Does the domme straddle the padded arms and the submissives head goes into the sling? If so, how does this allow breath play?


Having never tried it with a Queening bench, I'm not sure how it would work. I know that simply straddling a boy's face works very well.

- LA


Yes--This is what works best, and have had the most experience at. But I haven't yet met someone with a Queening seat. The chalange for me as I see it is to see to the Mstrs's pleasure as She sees fit. This is also one of the most sensual experiences; so I've been told and have experienced. I am curious about breath control, and would like to know about other's experiences. I would also greatly appreciate any ideas from Mstrs's who enjoy this type of devotion. And, I would also appreciate any ideas I could employ to help minimise cramping of a Mstrss's legs during an extended play period? Pressure Points etc? I've used masage, and pressure bilaterally at L-5-S1 which is not helpful to everyone.

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RE: About the facesitting. - 3/5/2005 4:13:10 AM   
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What I think about the difference of the term queening and the term facesitting.

Queening is an act of pure domination and submission. The term "queening" implies the use of a face as a trone, wether for oral sex or just facesitting and smothering, and also implies the woman is dominant_a queen.

Facesitting may just be done for purposes of oral sex or fetishtic pleasure, but does not necessarily imply any dominant-submitive dynamic between the participants. So facesitting regardless of why it's done, but queening means it is done as an act of domination and submission.

What do you think?...

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RE: About the facesitting. - 3/5/2005 4:38:59 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Borek

What I think about the difference of the term queening and the term facesitting.

Queening is an act of pure domination and submission. The term "queening" implies the use of a face as a trone, wether for oral sex or just facesitting and smothering, and also implies the woman is dominant_a queen.

Facesitting may just be done for purposes of oral sex or fetishtic pleasure, but does not necessarily imply any dominant-submitive dynamic between the participants. So facesitting regardless of why it's done, but queening means it is done as an act of domination and submission.

What do you think?...

I think you are correct! In fact they are the same act, but the name given implies the nature of the participants.

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RE: About the facesitting. - 3/5/2005 4:44:49 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Borek

What I think about the difference of the term queening and the term facesitting.

Queening is an act of pure domination and submission. The term "queening" implies the use of a face as a trone, wether for oral sex or just facesitting and smothering, and also implies the woman is dominant_a queen.

Facesitting may just be done for purposes of oral sex or fetishtic pleasure, but does not necessarily imply any dominant-submitive dynamic between the participants. So facesitting regardless of why it's done, but queening means it is done as an act of domination and submission.

What do you think?...

I also believe it can be part of Objectifaction as well; being other parts of the body are used as a chair, couch etc.

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RE: About the facesitting. - 3/5/2005 5:12:36 AM   
Borek


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ORIGINAL: ProScatman


I also believe it can be part of Objectifaction as well; being other parts of the body are used as a chair, couch etc.


Yes, I agree... and I think there is alot of possibilities in both of them.
just to give another example for each.
Facesitting is fun, that can be use in a wrestling's game, the woman do not have to be nude, she can wear what she want, panties, jean etc.
In queening, you can have something more extreme like to be the sanitary towel for the Queen.


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RE: About the facesitting. - 3/5/2005 9:41:11 AM   
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Another aspect of it is sensuality. Those who like to face sit are looking to either get a rimjob, or vaginal service--as in the servatude of a slave. Often, after a while and muscles begin to cramp the Top will lay face down on the bed to have the rimjob completed, or on the back oral service vaginally. This is because of the uncomfortableness of long time maintainance of one position.
On the sensual side of things, I believe Queening is the most sensual of the two. Depending on how far things go, and the closeness of Dom'me and slave or sub, a most sensual scene may develope. Another reason for this is Erroginous Zones Depending on the person anal Erroginous Zones are abundant, or simply there. Also, some women seem to be more "exposed" vaginally when sitting on someone's face, and can have multi orgasms with the right partner. It all depends on the desires, skills, and closeness of those involved to determine the pleasure threshhold.

I feel it wouldn't be right to not mention that in Queening, a good slave or sub will will be doing their utmost to satisfy their Mstrs! A good slave will also know her/his Mstrs's erroginous zones like the palm of their own hand, because this form of dedication to one's Mstrs has the potential to be intense! I'm hopeing I have made some sense to you.

< Message edited by ProScatman -- 3/5/2005 10:59:45 AM >


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RE: About the facesitting. - 3/5/2005 10:34:49 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Sissyslave71

I always liked the idea of something called a "Hood Panty" for enforced cunnilingus.

Id love to have a dominant use one on me!!

Check it out....scroll to bottom of the page.


http://www.xtratalk.com/lingerie/satique.html

How perfect! I've seen these done with straps before, but this is the first I've seen done this way. *adds to personal book marks* Thank you for an awesome link!

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RE: About the facesitting. - 3/5/2005 10:49:07 AM   
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something that I have run across that is somewhat similar in principal is the pussy collar - that's what I'm looking forward to having ... http://www.akashaweb.com/pussy.htm



I know exactly where you can get one of those. I bought one for a dominant once.


http://www.cy-worldwide.com/dominationguide/productcart/pc/viewPrd336.asp

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RE: About the facesitting. - 3/5/2005 10:51:52 AM   
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How perfect! I've seen these done with straps before, but this is the first I've seen done this way. *adds to personal book marks* Thank you for an awesome link!


I wholeheartedly agree.

I can imagine my dominant coming home.....undoing her trousers only to have a hood put over my head attached to her panties!!!

HEAVEN!!!

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RE: About the facesitting. - 3/5/2005 10:45:08 PM   
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I know where to get them too, but thanks We just can't afford any toys at the moment - I spent 2 weeks out of work, and we are saving up to buy a house.

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RE: About the facesitting. - 4/24/2005 1:40:50 AM   
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Goodness gracious,
i have never heard of either Queening or facesitting, but i do like the way You All think

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RE: About the facesitting. - 4/24/2005 12:29:29 PM   
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Why does it have to be a domme?

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ORIGINAL: BeachMystress

Queening is the same thing as face sitting. Both of those can involve anal or vaginal worship at the Domme's direction.


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RE: About the facesitting. - 4/24/2005 12:44:28 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster
Why does it have to be a domme?
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ORIGINAL: BeachMystress
Queening is the same thing as face sitting. Both of those can involve anal or vaginal worship at the Domme's direction.

LOL, Hey LordMaster, you want to be Queened?
I would think the name suggests it's a woman thing...
You'll have to come up with your own good name for yah know... M

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RE: About the facesitting. - 4/24/2005 12:50:22 PM   
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Just call it eatin' mango. If it tastes good, doms eat it too.

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