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RE: Am I being unreasonable? - 4/17/2005 10:53:43 PM

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I'd be pissed. She led you on and then dropped you without warning. I would have walked up to her and said innocently "oh, I thought you couldn't make it, that's why I came on my own instead of coming with you like we had originally planned" and then turned and walked off to let her explain it to whoever was with her ... but then again, I'm a bitch and I hate to see people being walked on, be it me or someone else.

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I'm a bit confused here, but if you are saying that because someone is a slave that they deserve to be treated like that, or that they should expect to be treated like that, or that they should have to put up with being treated like then, then ... um ... yeah, that's bullshit. A human is a human and deserves to be treated as such, and should expect to be treated as such until a contract or other agreement stating otherwise has been made and signed/confirmed/agreed to.

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RE: Am I being unreasonable? - 4/17/2005 11:33:18 PM

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I'd be pissed. She led you on and then dropped you without warning. I would have walked up to her and said innocently "oh, I thought you couldn't make it, that's why I came on my own instead of coming with you like we had originally planned" and then turned and walked off to let her explain it to whoever was with her ... but then again, I'm a bitch and I hate to see people being walked on, be it me or someone else.

slave

I'm a bit confused here, but if you are saying that because someone is a slave that they deserve to be treated like that, or that they should expect to be treated like that, or that they should have to put up with being treated like then, then ... um ... yeah, that's bullshit. A human is a human and deserves to be treated as such, and should expect to be treated as such until a contract or other agreement stating otherwise has been made and signed/confirmed/agreed to.

Tech note: i think that you have us confused. I am neglected....Jenna was stood-up....

if she was serving in the place of a slave she had no rights to attend the party. however if there were a nilla relationship then.....

for me.............
She already had a slave under numbered contract. But still it is a M/s relationship i am not allowed to bother her is any manner. such is a nature of the beast......

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RE: Am I being unreasonable? - 4/18/2005 1:02:36 AM

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I thought, because of how you quoted (because my reply was to her, not to you) that your reply was towards her situation as well. I do know who had which situation.

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RE: Am I being unreasonable? - 4/18/2005 7:11:44 PM

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SweetDommes,
I take it............You think what She did was inconsiderate. I was very hurt by the situation. We have just been in the "getting to know each other" phase. I felt what She did was wrong. Thanks for validating that for me. Actions like this is truly something I shouldn't have to put up with, even as a submissive. I am a very strong person, and will not be a door mat for anyone. I just always like to verify my thoughts with others, to make sure they aren't way off base.
Thanks!!!!!!!!!

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RE: Am I being unreasonable? - 4/18/2005 7:33:12 PM

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No problem ... and I totally understand you being hurt. She was incredibly inconsiderate and rude - that kind of behavior is inexcusable.

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