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RE: Begging - 1/9/2007 6:03:34 PM

justinasamerk

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in my experience there are two types of begging.
1-begging for something you want
2-begging for something you need
(ok..iknow wants vs needs debate)

When i have begged Sir for something i wanted, its usually a playful type and he has the power to grant it or say no. If he grants it...OH thank you Sir, playfully kiss his feet, and give him all that he wishes. It gives him the power of yes and no, and gives a girl the feeling that sometimes he can say no..and will...
The second is a more deeper routed form of begging. Its truly begging with your soul, and all you have, its getting to the bottom of humility and begging for a need. In these times i have found that tears will flow from my eyes,and i break down into a sob. If denied due to miscommunication of how strong these feelings are within, it can cause a meltdown.....its these moments that makes a girl completely vulnerable, and it shows that she is truly His.....

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RE: Begging - 1/10/2007 8:26:09 AM

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i've had Doms tell me to beg and i'm always at a loss for words. Only one Dom helped me out by having me repeat phrases so that i would know what He was looking for. i speak more through body language and facial expressions than through words. One Dom understood this about me. He would tease me by having me keep my mouth closed while He left His cock sitting on my lips. i would look up at Him with pleading eyes and He would say "No, not yet" in a forceful tone. This sent shivers down my back.

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RE: Begging - 1/10/2007 8:30:27 AM

SusanofO

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I love begging and tend to become, at times, a somewhat almost incoherent beggar. I tend to use the phrase "please, oh please, please" over and over. And the word "please" in general, a lot. That might sound a little one-note, but it expresses for me very well just how I feel on a gut-level when I am in "begging" mode. So far, so good.

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RE: Begging - 1/10/2007 8:56:34 AM

Zsuzsanna

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Thanks for all the replies everyone! You have given me SO much to think about.

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RE: Begging - 1/10/2007 10:53:35 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: subsnow

He would tease me by having me keep my mouth closed while He left His cock sitting on my lips. i would look up at Him with pleading eyes and He would say "No, not yet" in a forceful tone. This sent shivers down my back.

oh now that sounds very hot.

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RE: Begging - 1/10/2007 11:27:16 PM

KnightofMists

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ORIGINAL: Zsuzsanna

Does anyone have advice on begging? I have never begged for someone who truely enjoys it. I am mystified as to what to say. How do I beg properly? IS there a proper way to beg?

There is no proper way.. there is only a way that convey's personal enjoyment to the specific people involved.

As a suggestion... if you wish to please your dominant in begging.... you need to ask him. Also, understand that begging is generally and emotional trip than it is a physical trip. If you are begging.. looking into yourself and allow the emotions to come out in expressing your desire to have that which your being asked to beg for.... I would also add.. that one can roleplay begging for something that you don't want.... but only begging for something that you truly believe you want will convey the depth of emotions to the Dominant/Top... in otherwords.. believe you want that which you are begging for... believe it with all your desires and passions. and then plead for it.

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RE: Begging - 1/11/2007 4:38:37 AM

Donnalee

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Subsnow said: i've had Doms tell me to beg and i'm always at a loss for words. Only one Dom helped me out by having me repeat phrases so that i would know what He was looking for. i speak more through body language and facial expressions than through words. One Dom understood this about me. He would tease me by having me keep my mouth closed while He left His cock sitting on my lips. i would look up at Him with pleading eyes and He would say "No, not yet" in a forceful tone. This sent shivers down my back.

Oh, my! That sent shivers down my back! Good one.

Having to come up with words can throw me out of my headspace also....seems to be from a different part of my brain that I'm vacating at the time.

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RE: Begging - 4/30/2007 6:28:25 PM

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...and begging forgiveness shows how powerful it is

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RE: Begging - 4/30/2007 6:46:28 PM

MasterSohun

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i only make her beg when the situation during play warrants a time for the slave to say whats onher mind,i will tell her to say whats on her mind,aka beg,i will make her say it loud so she understands her submission and how she gets what she wants,now,i may choose to deny her for a time,and thats when she gets really worked up.there are NO hard and fast rules here,it is an indidivual play experience bttween the top and the slave!

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RE: Begging - 4/30/2007 7:59:31 PM

temptressofsouls

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ORIGINAL: subsnow

i've had Doms tell me to beg and i'm always at a loss for words. Only one Dom helped me out by having me repeat phrases so that i would know what He was looking for. i speak more through body language and facial expressions than through words. One Dom understood this about me. He would tease me by having me keep my mouth closed while He left His cock sitting on my lips. i would look up at Him with pleading eyes and He would say "No, not yet" in a forceful tone. This sent shivers down my back.

Oh mannnn, that sent shivers down MY spine. Yummy.

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RE: Begging - 4/30/2007 8:17:53 PM

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OP,

The fact that you are a perfectionist and uncomfortable with begging is probably one of the reasons he wants you to beg...besides that it probably turns him on immensely. I love begging and had a sub once who also loved to beg, so that was a nice fit. His simple pleading, "please, please, please" did wonders for me, I gotta admit it. This is a tough area for you and unless he has an exact form he wants you to follow, perhaps you should not worry too much about doing it right and allow yourself to just "beg" through the discomfort. Keeping in mind always it is for his pleasure (and also for your growth and expansion).

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RE: Begging - 4/30/2007 8:19:42 PM

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Begging. ~smiling~ Both my Master and my former Dom LOVED begging. So I practiced. I practiced in front of a mirror to make sure my expression was neither bored or sarcastic, and then I practiced verbally. I practiced until I heard it and then I practiced some more until I felt it. It's not something we're used to doing. It's like ice skating - the more you use this blossoming talent, the better you get at it. And if it's something he wants, even more reason to be good at it.

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RE: Begging - 4/30/2007 9:17:19 PM

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When forced to beg, I often have the impulse to turn my nose up at what I've been asked to beg for, even if it's something I want. The idea of having to beg for it is off putting, but then I get this "oh shit" kinda panicked moment where in my head I hear myself saying "if you don't beg for this' you may never be given it again' and at that moment, even if I truely do not want to beg, I beg, and I beg well because this mantra starts repeating itself telling me that I may never get to_______ if I don't beg. The more I beg the more the mantra replays itself untill I find myself lost in the begging and it's sincere...almost this panicked pleading more then a begging, and in those moments all embarrassment to having to beg is gone, and I'm left with only this true wanting for whatever it was I was told to beg for..

Hope that makes sense
~dancer

I agree with this totally that is how I feel most of the time.

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RE: Begging - 5/3/2007 1:22:49 PM

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"oh, Daddy, I want your (insert adjectives such as big, fat, hard, masterful, and throbbing) cock deep inside my (insert adjectives such as wet, wanton, unworthy) pussy/mouth/ass soooo bad... please, Daddy, please let me have it NOW..."

Give Daddy some room to say no so you can keep begging. If he has a specific interest, you can bet he'll let you know.

Most effective beg ever--"Daddy, you know only you have had my dirty bottom, but I greased it up for you and I need it sooo bad now..."

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