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ModeratorEleven -> RE: Vanilla cone (4/15/2008 7:25:06 AM)
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ORIGINAL: FatDomDaddy
I'll put this to you Mod 11...Why is Vanilla used as a pejorative in the first place?
It isn't used as such by us. It's the users who take unnecessary offense at the term at whom you should be directing that question.
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I think the cone is a great icon for the first 100 or so posts but to make it a dunce cap later???
You're missing the point, but I think you just want to argue for the sake of arguing.
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And I will add, the push by this community to use the word vanilla to indicate not only dull, boring, unworthy and beneath contempt but also as something not just to be avoided but too be purged, shunned and mocked is one of the great failings of BDSM
I think you're reading a wee bit too much into this.
XI
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