MysticFireTopaz -> RE: Descibe "high maintenance" (1/11/2007 6:49:52 PM)
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ORIGINAL: pahunkboy Ild like to get an idea what others think it is,,, Well, high maintenance describes a vanilla female friend who would like to be a much closer friend than she is, but it's not going to happen. I had to set some serious boundaries with her. She began calling me for anything and everything, like when her computer monitor went out, she lost the address of a restaurant, broke a fingernail, was spoken to unkindly by her boyfriend, needed to know where to get her hair done, etc., etc., etc. She would love call here at least once a day and keep me on the phone for hours, but that is not something I need in my life. She volunteered to "help" me with a project I was working on, and it took ten times longer than if I had done it myself! She belongs to one of the same metaphysical organizantions that I do and I basically ended up telling her we could be friends while at the meetings, but DON'T CALL ME, I'LL CALL YOU. And of course, I never call her! She's gotten the hint. Lady Topaz
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