HouseOfDragon
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Joined: 5/5/2004 Status: offline
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What I was referring to when I said titles was UNLESS someone has a Masters Degree or a sub or slave the term Master does not really apply. Mistress is referred to as the head of a Household or as someone’s lover outside of marriage or a Mistress of a sub or slave. So what I am saying is that everyone that is new to the Lifestyle and does not fit one of these definitions has not earned this Title or the respect that has gone with it. When referring to a slave or sub those are not Titles that was addressing the misuse of the word slave as a title. A slave is one who is owned by another in some form or fashion. sub I must say has been used correctly as it is an abbreviation or prefix. As for common courtesy I will give that but in the form of Mr., Ms. or Mrs. and with Sir or Ma’am when talking with them directly depending on the persons age and the level of respect I have for them. as to the question of my quote it had been stated several different ways by my Father it doesn’t matter the meaning is still the same. "Respect is EARNED not Demanded". I guess, even though it sounded a bit old fashioned, I need to give him more credit for being a pretty smart old guy. He raised us to give common courtesy to A/all, but that respect was earned and this was drilled into our heads from a young age. Sometimes, I may slip up and omg call someone “whiners”, because they obviously, just slapped a title on their name, then complain about not getting the proper respect. OOPS’s my bad lol If it doesn’t apply, please do not take offence. ~smiles~ I was raised if your not a part of the solution your a part of the problem. This is all I will say on that I spoke out of frustration as so many seem to do freely on here I didn’t attack one person in particular for stating their opinion I just stated mine. To address another part, my Family is behind the BDSM Resort. To be blunt it came a lot from them, so eh, maybe I am wrong, maybe I am not, I shall see. If it was about the finances I would charge the prices OWK does, that’s a no brainer. lol What I am setting out to do is to provide a very nice place that is Lifestyle friendly for those who feel they cant afford $139 to $700 plus a night but maybe I am asking the wrong people lol the other difference I was asking for others opinions I wasn’t just jumping off head first lol If I do this and it fails in the first year it means I didn’t do enough homework on the subject plain and simple while I may respect your opinion it doesn’t mean that either you or I are right or wrong. Okay next, I was given the name, Ms A, by my mother. I asked her why and she said it was Ms Attitude imagine that lol I have had a slave girl for the past three years. she is currently in another state for awhile but that doesn’t mean she stops being mine. I may also be adding another girl within the next 2 months after a lot of negotiations however when the name Mistress is used it is used by what is Mine if not it becomes just another word. Ms A is what my co-workers call me it is what my family calls me. it is simply courtesy nothing more. Sorry to disappoint haha no great revelation there lol okay I have read back over and seen where you ask, if what I am offering is prostitution. rofl your real funny sorry what fantasy books have you been reading again? First, ummm last I checked, a pro sub, or a pro Domme is NOT prostitution. If it is in your book hey that’s your opinion second I do not plan on providing subs or slaves for ANYONE but I do plan on providing an atmosphere that is safe and friendly for them to meet. I will have Dominants, who are proficient and respected in their communities, providing both Dominants and submissives, with Instruction within the Lifestyle. i.e. different areas of play such as fire play, knife play, violet wand, proper flogging techniques etc. Anyway on to the many other replies thank you all kindly and I will take these all into account any input does go to furthering the plan. I may not agree with all, but it does help to see things from another POV. Ms A, HoD "In Keeping with the Old School that means respect is Earned not Demanded"~
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