I need some ideas fro creative online disciplines. As Y/you all know, My pet moved away, yet she has indicated to desire for Me to remain her Dom. I told her the rules that she would have to follow before that can happen and all seems well. I continue to talk to her on the phone as well.
So.. When she doesn't behave. Can A/anybody give Me any ideas for online disciplines? I haven't done an online D/s relationship before so ANYTHING would be more than helpful.
Well there is the school of thought that if she disobeys then you end the relationship.
I think it depends on what she's being disciplined to do- did she fail to do her homework one night? Did she go out of her financial budget? Do you have a lot of arbitrary rules that don't deal with real life issues?
Ask yourself another question- how do you reward her? Punishment is just the other side of the coin of reward.
For a specific online punishment, I used to have a sub type out lines, making each letter a different color so he couldn't cut and paste. Most of the time, however, I would have him send me a detailed email explaining why he wasn't able to carry out a specific task I had assigned. He often punished himself mentally more than anything I could have done physically.
Well, I'm just looking for a list of ideas that P/people use. Anything at all. I have only come across one situation, but seeing as how it was the first time W/we had attempted such a thing over the internet I told her it was bad, and not to let it happen again or else be disciplined. The next time, the problem was resolved perfectly and I thus told her so.
I never thought of a list of rewards. That wouldn't be a bad idea either.