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Selfbondage/intensity. - 1/14/2007 11:04:44 PM

Termyn8or

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Strange, at the very least. I got quite a start earlier. I did a selbondage thing, of course with the planned excape, but things were not quite what they seem.

With a key in ice and on a string, there is a release, but with locking cuffs, what if the string does not reach the other side ? This just happened to me.

I broke the string of course to get my other hand out, but what if it would've been on a chain ? Three point restraint until discovery. Not a pretty picture.

Just thought I would throw out a general warning, be careful. Now I will go back in.

Happy night.

T

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RE: Selfbondage/intensity. - 1/15/2007 3:49:56 AM

onestandingstill

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I personally think self bondage with no one home is not safe.
I also personally feel playing with myself instead of waiting to share the power exchanged when I play with someone else is way different and does not appeal to me or satisfy me.
Even in things like masturbation I feel very different if I'm alone or not.
Playing with myself to me just makes me feel pitiful and desperate.
Mind you I do not feel this way about others doing things by themselves to themselves.
It's just how I feel toward myself.
It does not fill in the void I feel of interacting with another in the energy of that union.
It just does not satisfy or fulfill me at all.
Instead it just makes me more hungry for the interaction I'm missing.
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RE: Selfbondage/intensity. - 1/17/2007 9:47:21 PM

Termyn8or

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"It does not fill in the void I feel of interacting with another in the energy of that union. "

Exactly. But what does that mean ? It means instead of a key oin ice you know (hopefully) will eventually be in your hand, you are stuck until another person decides to release you.

I did a couple more sessions since the last post, I have refined it.

It is still no substitute for a real human. Never will be. It is akin to methadone for a heroin addict, nothing but a stopgap measure. Think I'll go work on my profile or my journal, I can imagine just not having that key there, her in possesion of it, teasing me with it.

Maybe I'll go do that.

T

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