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RE: Asking for what you need - 1/15/2007 2:50:01 PM

MaryT

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I hate to sound like a simpleton, but you could just start fondling his cock ...

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RE: Asking for what you need - 1/16/2007 1:28:12 PM

littleone35

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What works for me is i say Master do you want to go into the bedroom. We not might go to the bedroom but he knows what i want.

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RE: Asking for what you need - 1/16/2007 1:58:35 PM

slavejali

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Master doesn't like me to initiate anything in regards to sex or play. It was a hard thing for me to deal with initially, I can't count how many times I cried myself to sleep. Everyone is different.

So whatever works for your Master is fine.

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RE: Asking for what you need - 1/16/2007 2:20:04 PM

goodpet

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Don't worry so much about topping from the bottom as long as you are able to stop or back off when he says to without having your feelings hurt or feeling rejected.

my Owner is cute and sexy and talented and i am pretty much horny all the time when i am next to Him. So i do what comes naturally to me and my feelings... but all He has to say is "Enough girl", and i make a little sigh and say, "yes Sir" and back off what ever i was doing. and i don't take it personally or as a rejection.

Knowing that all He has to say is enough and i will back off without any drama or issues, frees us both up to be ourselves. i know He will let me know His wishes and He knows i won't make any issue.

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