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question about big booty sex professional women/streetw... - 1/16/2007 3:31:21 PM

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Hi there. I'll attempt to avoid being crass with this one but it's not a delicate topic.

As you can tell from my username, right now I crave the female ass, for Greek/Anal. I'll be visiting a non USA location where professional sex services are legal (both in brothels and and on the street; street is semi legal but no-one arrests the women or johns there; other issues to deal with).

Although I have never employed a sex pro before, at this time, for anal, I'm considering it, since the women that turn me on are generally (in this area) are either married/single mums, or frankly, "in the game". The ones on the street generally have the ass type I need with no strings attached, so this option has become attractive.

I would like some suggestions as to how to approach such professionals in a way that will be reassuring and comfortable to them, since I will be asking for doggystyle greek (with condom and lube of course), basically what to say in order to make the initial process easier for both parties.

I'd also like to know what is the safest protocol for myself in regards to not getting rumbled or being recognized by others later as I'll be staying in the city for a while and wish to avoid embarrassment. Is having a hotel room ready and nearby the best course of action, for example? Should I be in a taxi when looking, or is being on foot on the street realtively safe?

All replies appreciated.

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RE: question about big booty sex professional women/str... - 1/16/2007 3:37:46 PM

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If you want regulation ass, go to a brothel. They offer security and stability, not to mention experience, which should be taken advantage of.

If you prefer more privacy, go to an escorts website and make some calls to independents.

Be honest at all times- say it's your first time, say you're interested in greek. Since this is quite a specialty and not something most girls will do with a first time guy, again brothels will be your best bet.

If you are polite, and accept all of their terms, then it should be fine. Whether a brothel or independent- make sure you spell out exactly what you have in mind in terms of location, time, positions and more. Do you want an hour or two? Multiple orgasms if possible? Do you want to be able to orgasm while fucking them?

Be polite and mature at all stages, NEVER attempt to persuade them to make exceptions for you or change their rates or standards.

Again, if you go to a brothel and are polite, they should take good care of you.

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RE: question about big booty sex professional women/str... - 1/16/2007 3:49:03 PM

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Well, it would be helpful to know the country.

But generally, there aint that much to black mail you about in most countries. they dont have the same hangups as we do. That being said....

Anything you discuss wouldn't be the first time they heard it. Be honest and up front, no surprises. They are going to treat it as a business transaction, especially Germany if that is it, and you may have to pay them alot extra to act like they are not reading the newspaper.

If they won't agree, ask them if they can point out a couple who would....they swap stories like cabdrivers. Don't get really gookie dressed up, wear business casual, no bling and for fucks sake dont carry a couple thousand in bills.

They probably have very good relations with cops where you are going, and beefing with crepo, you don't wanna be an average motherfucker, they use saps.

Ron

added: and for fucks sake, don't be at all pissed up when you go there to do your thing. Not a good situation....you get a number and you get watched very closely.

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RE: question about big booty sex professional women/str... - 1/16/2007 4:52:02 PM

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thank you both for the sage advice. Luckily I would prefer the professional to act as if she was reading a newspaper or doing a crossword than "faking" anything, as than turns me right off. I would rather see a women yawn than hear "oh baby you're so big" or any of the lines that make porn "sad". The reality is aprt of the appeal; no illusions about what is being traded, unlike most nilla (and more than a few) kink relationships.

Seems brothels are the best bet (they are liscensed and legal where I am going). The only problem is that generally the kind of woman I am looking for is not hired by brothels. From what I gather the shape/age of the woman I'd want is generally turned down in lieu of younger/slimmer applicants (this is also a problem with escorts, at least the ones I've seen online). Understandable since the bulk of customers want slim and under 30, while for myself that is a "no thanks".

without meaning to be crass, a perfect example of what I'd pay for but cannot seem to find in dating would be the "bbw" Jamie Monroe, seen on this link:

http://www.xxxyp.com/freebbw/bustygalleriescom/05biglady281f/sc_sheshugelqwcj.htm

another would be

http://www.bestplumpers.com/bbw61107sz/bbwlink74.html

I have not seen women built like this in escort pages or in brothels, but I have seen them on the street, which is why I asked.

bearing that in mind, does this mean that I'd have to do something I could not care less about first, like oral or vaginal? This seems to defeat the purpose as oral and vag are easily enough received in a nilla relationship and that's why one would go to a pro for greek anyway.

Thank you both again.

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RE: question about big booty sex professional women/str... - 1/16/2007 5:28:01 PM

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Nope, Zoftig women are available, and you can do whatever, they want money, not a blowjob.... If you cannot find what you look for, ask the lady in the store, she would know somebody, and don't forget to tip the lady who put you on to it.

Ron

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RE: question about big booty sex professional women/str... - 1/16/2007 6:00:02 PM

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thank you. what is a decent $ for a tip for the lady at the front?

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RE: question about big booty sex professional women/str... - 1/16/2007 6:02:36 PM

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what country?

but a 20 i would think, unless she knows exactly in which case it is worth a 40, and you tell her tomorrow when you come you want that girls big sister.

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RE: question about big booty sex professional women/str... - 1/16/2007 6:51:06 PM

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Ron... how educated you are....

lol

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RE: question about big booty sex professional women/str... - 1/16/2007 7:04:15 PM

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I have an educated taste in whisky, women and bills of fare, though I've not had an opportunity to exercise it much lately.....

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RE: question about big booty sex professional women/str... - 1/16/2007 7:11:23 PM

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Excuse me, oh learned ones, but the advice being given is nearly worthless without some context -- like which country? What will work in Thailand will get you a cold shoulder in the Philippines, and thrown in jail in the Netherlands. If the OP doesn't have the cojones to tell us where he's going, why bother with him?

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RE: question about big booty sex professional women/str... - 1/16/2007 10:48:07 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: reamer

Hi there. I'll attempt to avoid being crass with this one but it's not a delicate topic.

As you can tell from my username, right now I crave the female ass, for Greek/Anal. I'll be visiting a non USA location where professional sex services are legal (both in brothels and and on the street; street is semi legal but no-one arrests the women or johns there; other issues to deal with).

Although I have never employed a sex pro before, at this time, for anal, I'm considering it, since the women that turn me on are generally (in this area) are either married/single mums, or frankly, "in the game". The ones on the street generally have the ass type I need with no strings attached, so this option has become attractive.

I would like some suggestions as to how to approach such professionals in a way that will be reassuring and comfortable to them, since I will be asking for doggystyle greek (with condom and lube of course), basically what to say in order to make the initial process easier for both parties.

I'd also like to know what is the safest protocol for myself in regards to not getting rumbled or being recognized by others later as I'll be staying in the city for a while and wish to avoid embarrassment. Is having a hotel room ready and nearby the best course of action, for example? Should I be in a taxi when looking, or is being on foot on the street realtively safe?

All replies appreciated.

ROFL... im sorry what? Not being judgementle but the way you put it made me laugh. How do you approach a hoe? My suggestion... find a girl who likes anal and have a relationship instead of approaching a hoe. LOL I like anal. [ Random and off topic ] But uhh if you're going to... go to the brothel. I live in a state where its legal and trust me, the brothel is very professional about keeping their clients happy and embarassment free.

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RE: question about big booty sex professional women/str... - 1/17/2007 4:50:31 PM

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"If the OP doesn't have the cojones to tell us where he's going, why bother with him?"

because maybe they bothered to look at the emotional tone of the OP's post (unlike you) and maybe they wanted to be helpful rather than be a prick (unlike you).

"ROFL... im sorry what? Not being judgementle but the way you put it made me laugh. How do you approach a hoe? My suggestion... find a girl who likes anal and have a relationship instead of approaching a hoe. LOL I like anal. [ Random and off topic ] But uhh if you're going to... go to the brothel. I live in a state where its legal and trust me, the brothel is very professional about keeping their clients happy and embarassment free. "

That depends on many things, like region (especially local). Also, meaning no offense and I'm sure you don't fall into the following category, but many women that claim to love anal that one could have a relationship with have a shitload (pun intended) of emotional/psychological baggage attached. So if paying in headaches and drama queen bullshit were to equal dollar amounts, many times a guy can - in a relationship as you suggest and endorse - end up paying $6000 per week per 5 or so assfucks in "why the hell am I putting up with this psych nutbag bullshit" dollars versus paying $200 or so per assfuck with a woman of the night without having constant e-mails, pressure, text messages, etc.

That's why many men go to pros. They might pay something, but in terms of day to day lack of excess bullshit stress, they pay FAR less.

And I think that you did not look at the links the OP provided and looked at the women he stated clearly he was after. It seems likely they have had children, and frankly that changes any relationship dynamic a LOT.

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RE: question about big booty sex professional women/str... - 1/17/2007 5:21:31 PM

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quote:

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thank you. what is a decent $ for a tip for the lady at the front?

Wouldnt you be tipping her rear?

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RE: question about big booty sex professional women/str... - 1/17/2007 5:24:01 PM

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That depends on many things, like region (especially local). Also, meaning no offense and I'm sure you don't fall into the following category, but many women that claim to love anal that one could have a relationship with have a shitload (pun intended) of emotional/psychological baggage attached. So if paying in headaches and drama queen bullshit were to equal dollar amounts, many times a guy can - in a relationship as you suggest and endorse - end up paying $6000 per week per 5 or so assfucks in "why the hell am I putting up with this psych nutbag bullshit" dollars versus paying $200 or so per assfuck with a woman of the night without having constant e-mails, pressure, text messages, etc.

I beg to diff! My relationship is pretty stress free and happy.We game together on the weekends, watch a movie once in a while. Im to young to have a serious relationship. And anyway.... dont you think hooker bills will build up?

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RE: question about big booty sex professional women/str... - 1/17/2007 5:58:16 PM

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"I beg to diff! My relationship is pretty stress free and happy.We game together on the weekends, watch a movie once in a while. Im to young to have a serious relationship. And anyway.... dont you think hooker bills will build up?"

Yes but you are the female in the relationship (according to your profile). Stress free for YOU. That does not mean it is stress free for the guy whom fucks your ass. Even if you ask him and he says "yes honey, no stress here". Maybe it is stress free, but we cannot know that. I'm betting it is, but that is YOU, not myself or the OP. If it was stress free for him he'd likely not be posting/asking the question.

As for bills, I dunno, but out of curiousity I checked some rates (no idea if they apply to what the OP is talking about). Found one woman who'll do anal for less than $200 per hour session whom might be the bodytype the OP was referrencing, again dunno. Add $60 for a hotel room, that's $260 for an hour of anal, at once a week, and since you stated you get together with someone on w/ends that's what I'm looking at RE "bugdet".

A girlfriend/lover into anal who wants to be taken out more than twice a week for dinner/drinks/clubs can add up easily to twice that, barring those, for people over mid 20's in age, life gets expensive, the cost of emotional upkeep in a relationship to have anal being allowed by a woman can end up being more than a pro, per week, and again sometimes for men the "stress dollars" are equal or more expensive than "real dollars".

I mean, your profile says you are 18, the OP seems to be going for someone well over twice your age. Those women are different in terms of what they've been through and what a guy might have to goo through just to be inside her anus once a week. Plus the OP - as a John - does not have to spend time/effort in foreplay, sweet talk, banter, other crap he might not give a shit about, to get that anus. I'll bet this is something that feeds into the equation for him.

Also, with a relationship, if it goes wrong, a woman over 25 can be VERY problematic, whereas a pro will not have that risk. It comes down to the mindset of "do you drive with or without insurance, what is the potential cost of a head on collision where even if you are not at fault the attorney can make the jury decide that you are? How much do you pay out THEN?".

So for my frame of referrence, my POV, the weekly add up of paying a woman whom knows jack all about the guy actually seems CHEAPER.
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RE: question about big booty sex professional women/str... - 1/17/2007 7:25:33 PM

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Umm....what exactly is "Greek"?

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RE: question about big booty sex professional women/str... - 1/17/2007 7:28:01 PM

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"Greek" has been a slang term for anal intercourse for over 50 years. Very common in the porn industry and erotica.

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RE: question about big booty sex professional women/str... - 1/17/2007 9:44:15 PM

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What puzzles me about this thread is that it seems there is an overwhelming need to butt-fuck somebody whether he/she/it wants to be done that way.

Where the hell is Romance these days?

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RE: question about big booty sex professional women/str... - 1/17/2007 9:57:28 PM

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What puzzles me about this thread is that it seems there is an overwhelming need to butt-fuck somebody whether he/she/it wants to be done that way.

Where the hell is Romance these days?

Sinergy

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RE: question about big booty sex professional women/str... - 1/17/2007 9:58:12 PM

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That's why many men go to pros. They might pay something, but in terms of day to day lack of excess bullshit stress, they pay FAR less.

That reminds me of a movie I saw once.. I can't remember the name of it but I think there were mobsters or something in it? Maybe it was Four Brothers? I dunno. Anyway, one of the characters said something that kinda stuck with me. "You don't pay a whore for sex. You pay her to leave afterwards."

Seems appropriate here. *shrug*

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