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GirlWithInk -> RE: Now what (1/21/2007 8:26:49 PM)
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Seems to me the first step would be to talk with the one you're involved with now, before you start looking for someone else. Suggest going out to some neutral turf - go get coffee, do dinner, whatever, just go somewhere public enough that neither of you will be tempted to yell and get overdramatic easily, and explain to her that while you're glad to wear her collar, you need to satisfy your own dominant urges too, and that you want her help and encouragement with this. Perhaps she'll have suggestions as to where you might start looking, perhaps she'll confess to some desire on her own part to switch, perhaps she'll tell you that you'll have to look on your own because she doesn't want to know about it, perhaps she'll flat out tell you no... but then you'll know for sure where she stands and she will know that it's important to you.
If you aren't comfortable bringing it up with her, perhaps you should re-evaulate the relationship you have with her rather than trying to find someone else to add to the mix.
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