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RE: creampie desires - 3/30/2005 11:28:47 PM   
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I have a question that is along the same lines but a bit different. Is it safe to use whip cream or cake icing or something like that in the nether region of the female? I am asking this, as I would like to do a cream pie but one that is well sweet. I want to make sure this will not cause a yeast infection or other interaction.

I know plenty of adult shops sell all sorts of sweet things like this but I have always wondered exactly where not to put it.

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RE: creampie desires - 3/30/2005 11:29:50 PM   
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Nice spanking BeachMystress,
I didn't like the picture either, but the rest of the post was kool to read/imagine. M

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RE: creampie desires - 3/30/2005 11:32:03 PM   
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Is it safe to use whip cream or cake icing or something like that in the nether region of the female? I am asking this, as I would like to do a cream pie but one that is well sweet. I want to make sure this will not cause a yeast infection or other interaction.

It's fun, and I suppose it has been done, but not especially safe... I would never allow something full of sugar there, because of yeast infection thing. M

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RE: creampie desires - 3/30/2005 11:53:22 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sf-Sub

I have a question that is along the same lines but a bit different. Is it safe to use whip cream or cake icing or something like that in the nether region of the female? I am asking this, as I would like to do a cream pie but one that is well sweet. I want to make sure this will not cause a yeast infection or other interaction.

I know plenty of adult shops sell all sorts of sweet things like this but I have always wondered exactly where not to put it.


I'm with BlkTallFullfig on this. Sugared stuff is a bad idea inside of the vagina. I've used it topically without problems, but anytime anything gets inside.. ow :-(

Also, something you've probably not thought of.. whipped cream will degrade latex condoms. Other things you might not have thought to avoid.. hand lotion, ice cream, butter and sun tan oil. Since all of those have an oil base, they may damage latex. Avoid anything as a lube or sex aide that contains oil as an ingredient if you're using latex gloves or condoms.

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RE: creampie desires - 3/31/2005 12:57:25 AM   
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sugary things in the vagina are a recipee for some seriously nasty yeast infections! I would NOT stick anything sugary in ass or vagina.

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RE: creampie desires - 3/31/2005 2:03:57 AM   
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Thank you all for the replies. Consensus no sugar on the vagina.

What about other things? Are their other messy but fun things to play with that are vagina friendly?

What about Listerine, or toothpaste or something / anything?

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RE: creampie desires - 3/31/2005 2:06:55 PM   
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Those are fine to your partner's tolerance. I also use those breath strips, ice breakers and altoids. The heating lubes are a nice thing to try.

Some other things you can try if you're adventurous are icy hot or the like. Be careful with those, as they are not removable quickly. I know people who have had reactions such as blistering to those types of things on sensitive tissues.

Some online "Domme" once told one of my ex subs to put some Tabasco on the head of his penis. The sub said he actually safeworded himself. LOL. While that sounds funny, the amount of pain you can cause yourself is staggering. Be careful with things when you can't remedy them easily.


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RE: creampie desires - 3/31/2005 3:55:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ... You're looking for a way to try bisexuality without it being "your" fault. I am so sick and tired of "subs" who want to use women to...


I'd just like to take a moment to take extreme exception to this comment...

My last Domme has made it clear to me in multitudinous ways that "everything is (my) fault", and frankly, having finally found something I'm good at, I'm taken aback that someone would usurp my only valid skill.


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RE: creampie desires - 3/31/2005 4:48:56 PM   
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You're looking for a way to try bisexuality without it being "your" fault. I am so sick and tired of "subs" who want to use women to legitimize their homosexual experimentation.



While I would not argue that this is often the case, I would argue that it is always the case. Many cucks are humiliation sluts. It doesn't have anything to do with being bisexual or bi curious, in fact their humiliation at being 'forced' to perform bi or cuckolding acts would seem to indicate that they are NOT bi (or gay). I tend to think the curiousity is more about the humiliation aspect.

For many cucks this is about humiliation and the experience that they get from feeling humiliated. In some cases it has more to do with the reassurance they think they'll get later (speaks to need for intimacy), but across the board generalizations are usually off the mark at least in some part.

It's a common misconception that all people looking to be 'forced' just can't deal with their own bi curiousity. The fact is that just isn't as common a reason as some would think.


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RE: creampie desires - 4/1/2005 12:34:27 AM   
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I wouldn't use icy hot, at least not with any frequency. It works by damaging nerve endings; thus, alieviating pain. Granted there aren't too many nerves in the vagina, but if I managed to get icy hot on my clit.........Could be a sad story. Not something I'm interested in trying.

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RE: creampie desires - 4/1/2005 4:46:44 AM   
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quote:

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You're looking for a way to try bisexuality without it being "your" fault. I am so sick and tired of "subs" who want to use women to legitimize their homosexual experimentation.



While I would not argue that this is often the case, I would argue that it is always the case. Many cucks are humiliation sluts. It doesn't have anything to do with being bisexual or bi curious, in fact their humiliation at being 'forced' to perform bi or cuckolding acts would seem to indicate that they are NOT bi (or gay). I tend to think the curiousity is more about the humiliation aspect.

For many cucks this is about humiliation and the experience that they get from feeling humiliated. In some cases it has more to do with the reassurance they think they'll get later (speaks to need for intimacy), but across the board generalizations are usually off the mark at least in some part.

It's a common misconception that all people looking to be 'forced' just can't deal with their own bi curiousity. The fact is that just isn't as common a reason as some would think.



Couldn't have said it better m'sef.

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RE: creampie desires - 4/2/2005 5:55:10 AM   
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I didn't read this from the very beginning so I hope this has not been covered already. I have always wanted a man to cum inside me, and then lick it out and kiss me, sharing it. Of course, safety rules so only with a long-time partner, but it does sound absolutely yummy. I have found that it is a rare man who will taste his own cum, but the guys sure like for the females to swallow. (laughs)

No offense to any guys that like it on these boards...





Mistress Kiss...this is a very hot thought...while i've cleaned myself out of a partner, i never remember kissing Her and 'sharing' it with Her afterwards...thanks for that thought.

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RE: creampie desires - 4/2/2005 4:52:01 PM   
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I wouldn't use icy hot, at least not with any frequency. It works by damaging nerve endings; thus, alieviating pain. Granted there aren't too many nerves in the vagina, but if I managed to get icy hot on my clit.........Could be a sad story. Not something I'm interested in trying.



I'd like to know where you got your information that it works by damaging nerve endings? Menthol and methyl salicylate are the ingredients in icy hot that are used for pain relief. Considering most of us ingest large quantities of that substance (it's the main part of peppermint) around Christmas time and throughout the year, I have a bit of trouble with your claim.

Menthol and methyl salicylate have powerful analgesic (pain-killing) properties, which are mediated, in part, through activation of kappa-opioid receptors, which help block pain signal transmission. This does not damage the receptors.

As I mentioned, some people can have a skin reaction to it.. IE, rash, irritation and blistering.

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RE: creampie desires - 4/6/2005 1:09:31 AM   
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ok..this is an old post..but hey i missed it the first time around. i certainly love the discussion as i find this service one of the most intimate. Yes saftey is an issue and it is not for the casual encounter, but once saftey is established i think that this service shows that even after he has orgasmed and his needs are met, it symbolically shows that her needs are paramount....oh and it cleans up that nasty mess so she doesn't have to :)

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RE: creampie desires - 4/6/2005 4:39:24 PM   
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>>While I would not argue that this is often the case, I would argue that it is always the case. Many cucks are humiliation sluts. It doesn't have anything to do with being bisexual or bi curious, in fact their humiliation at being 'forced' to perform bi or cuckolding acts would seem to indicate that they are NOT bi (or gay). I tend to think the curiousity is more about the humiliation aspect.<<

I also agree, this is exactly my desire. Being exposed and forced to watch my Mistress flaunting her sexuality, and enjoying acts that are only reserved for her lovers, (or mostly) while I must remain chaste, and service her after. It's humiliation, and driving the man deeper into submission to her Freedom and Power and Control.

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RE: creampie desires - 4/6/2005 5:16:54 PM   
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i understand where your motivation comes from and there was part of that i once found titilating, my submission has come around to this from a different angle. i want my Mistress/Dominant to have the best of everything and that includes other lovers and other pleasures, i desire no barriers to her seeking and enjoying herself. I love nothing more than seeing my Mistress cum. I cannot think of a more blissful moment.
It is in that moment I find my greatest pleasure.

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RE: creampie desires - 4/6/2005 6:48:51 PM   
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It doesn't have anything to do with being bisexual or bi curious, in fact their humiliation at being 'forced' to perform bi or cuckolding acts would seem to indicate that they are NOT bi (or gay).
It's humiliation, and driving the man deeper into submission to her Freedom and Power and Control. Tony

I understand and admire the man who'd submit to anything for his Lady/Goddess.
Sometimes however, It most definitely is that he is unable to deal with gay desires, so wants to be forced that way (I have already chat with/met more than I'd like who are this way unfortunately)... Otherwise I think this level of submission is absolutely awesome... If it comes at her whim/request/need, not at yours. M

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RE: creampie desires - 4/6/2005 7:25:40 PM   
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Sometimes however, It most definitely is that he is unable to deal with gay desires, so wants to be forced that way (I have already chat with/met more than I'd like who are this way unfortunately)


Therein lies the premise of my handle.
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I'd be interested to know more about your chat/live meetings with these type of men, and what happened. Off Message board may be more appropriate.

Although almost off topic, it is indeed unfortunate, for open communication about true desires are so important.

What we (me) as a male sub are

1- "Willing" to do to please our Mistress (or in reality, see, know and feel she is being pleased and fullfilled) openly

2- "Willing" to do but do not want to, but are open to being "Forced" to, to please

3- "Surrendering" totally to our Mistresses best judgement, wherein the feeling of "not wanting to" almost diddapears, and we Surrender into being driven into deeper and deeper adporation and submission to our loving, caring, Goddess to whom we defer all final and better judgement to.

Theoretical of course, for I am a newbie, yet also realistis, and very, very calm and peaceful to feel.

Hope my late night Jibberish made sense, love those Newport Mansions, TBF, I was married in Portsmouth (and divorced in Charleston SC:):).

Tony



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RE: creampie desires - 4/6/2005 8:54:36 PM   
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I'd be interested to know more about your chat/live meetings with these type of men, and what happened.

The short answer to what happened is they aren't with me, because I don't have a degree to provide psychotherapy and am not so charitable to disregard my need for a man who prefers women in favor of a man who prefers men.
quote:

Hope my late night Jibberish made sense, love those Newport Mansions, TBF, I was married in Portsmouth (and divorced in Charleston SC:):). Tony

Yes you made sense... Good communication is important, but I seem to attract people who want to communicate things to me they're unwilling to communicate with their families (mommies or wives); I must have that kind of face, that promotes confessions from sinners... Or they take me for a complete fool since I am a relative novice; I suspect it's the ladder since I read threads on liars and cheats so often.
Gee Tony, I hope your moving to South Carolina didn't contribute to the demise of your union..... Just kidding, am thinking that Portsmouth and SC are night and day... Yes, I hear the Mansions are beautiful, I've never visited or really wanted to.
Ive never been further south than VA, so cannot say I would know the difference between SC and Portsmouth, RI... Well, I skipped all the states in between, and have been to FL a couple of times. M

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RE: creampie desires - 4/7/2005 6:56:56 AM   
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I agree. This would only be enjoyable in a confined relationship. The biggest enjoyment out of this for me would be only if the domme really enjoys it.

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