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pahunkboy -> Disrespect! (1/22/2007 11:28:35 AM)
Last night- I got a HUGE lecture from my brother. I have had it with my family- and when I move- I doubt I will produce a forwarding address!! I am backed into the corner. I resent what he said. Almost every member of my family has me upset. I could scream. Signed, "the looser"

OedipusRexIt -> RE: Disrespect! (1/22/2007 11:32:16 AM)
Dont' give them the address! Revel in who you are! Family always lay their own issues at members' doorsteps, so ignore them! Really, the hell with them. You'll be better off. It'll be ok

JerseyKrissi72 -> RE: Disrespect! (1/22/2007 1:08:33 PM)
I know exactly what you mean! I hadn't spoken to my family in 9 years when we finally began to talk again, NOW I remember why it's been 9 years....[&:] I'm done with my family and focus on my children now..May you find much happiness and don't let your family bring you down

SlaveAkasha -> RE: Disrespect! (1/22/2007 1:27:25 PM)
It's the same with me.. I have concluded it's best to get the toxic people out of my life.. I will stick to friends since I can pick them and I wouldn't pick most of my relatives if I had the choice. Keep your head up... and vanish.. I did it, it's sort of fun. Kasha

bearincuffs -> RE: Disrespect! (1/22/2007 1:36:13 PM)
Been there and still going through that even at my young age of 46 lol. My thoughts say to figure out and do what is right for You. When my family starts to rehash the same tired issues from long ago, I just keep reminding myself to be "True to Myself" Plus it also helps to keep both a physical and emtional distance from them! I know they will never understand me being who I am, let alone them finding out that I am my Master's property! I know the only person I have to be accountable to is Master

RobertCloud -> RE: Disrespect! (1/22/2007 2:27:33 PM)
My problem does not lie with my family, thankfully... It lies with the one that is my soon to be ex..... of course.... that makes sense..... but even before she harps on me about the lifestyle, she goes on about me being an author and how that I am a horrible person for writing the book I wrote. She calls me a monster because I refuse to give her permission to commit suicide or to do stupid things like to go outside in her nightgown when it is below zero outside.... yes, she is mentally ill... but that is not the reason we are heading for the divorce, the reason we are heading there is that she is abusive with her ranting and raving and her manipulations... But that is another long story, and actually she was the one to finally decide she wanted the divorce because I wrote my book... I am waiting to see the judge's face when she brings that up as her reason for asking for a divorce. That my career as an author is her reason for seeking a divorce.

goodlittlegirl28 -> RE: Disrespect! (1/22/2007 8:40:34 PM)
i think we all have issues with family from time to time. i know i have come close to writing them off and going my own way more than once. only i know if someone needed me i'd turn right back around. i think perhaps in those times when it is tough, when they piss you off to high hell, all you can do is trust yourself. try to be fair and see all sides, and think before you speak. memories are long, and once it's out there you can't get it back. doesn't mean you should bite your tongue, just try to be the rational person in the room. when all is said and done, you'll feel better.

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