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JerseyKrissi72 -> Loss For Words (1/22/2007 2:13:27 PM)
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I have been spending alot of time on "myspace" working on finding friends from my past, etc etc..I have been searching for my late Master's children (he had two daughters) since he passed away..I came across his daughter Rachel on my space, she is 18 yrs old and living in Florida...I wasn't sure how much information she was given about her father and was stunned to find out NOONE TOLD HER[:@] Her (paternal) grandmother never contacted her and even had her phone number and she lost contact with her mother due to issues of abuse, neglect, etc...I felt so horrible being the one to have to tell her...she wanted details...that brought back alot of pain...All I could do was assure her that even though she and her father had a falling out he loved her so much, carried her pic in his wallet everywhere he went...We were having financial problems and there was alot of stress so he did say some angry words to her and visa-versa but often times in life we do that...
She just couldn't believe how someone so healthy and strong could die so suddenly..I assured her that he was loved, I did plan to marry him and my children carry a hole in their hearts for him...She called me and we chatted on the phone for about an hour, I wish I was closer to comfort her as I cannot imagine how she must be feeling right now...His mother was such a selfish woman--regardless to how you feel about someone, they have a right to know what happened to their father...
It's most definately been a difficult day--- I am going out later for a few drinks that are well deserved..sorry to rant on, but I had to get this off my chest..thanks.
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