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the lifestyle while pregnant - 1/24/2007 3:22:43 AM   
ShadowLord2


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Greetings All

I  hope that members here can help ... recently when i was in town i saw an unknown pregnant woman .. and that got me thinking on how pregnancy is handled by members of this site (and the lifestyle).....

i wondered the following

1) what tasks did masters / doms & switches gave pregnant subs / slaves (while the sub or slave is pregnant)
2) what pregnant mistresses had their subs do to please them (if u feel like sharing)
3) what type of punishments where given by masters / doms to their pregnant subs / slaves
4)your time in the lifestyle while pregnant


thanks in advance

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RE: the lifestyle while pregnant - 1/24/2007 6:06:28 AM   
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Putting on 5 1/2 stone, my hair falling out, my skin being extremely dry, not being able to get in and out of the bath on my own and constantly needing to pee was punishment enough thanks.

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RE: the lifestyle while pregnant - 1/24/2007 7:16:11 AM   
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quote:

1) what tasks did masters / doms & switches gave pregnant subs / slaves (while the sub or slave is pregnant)
2) what pregnant mistresses had their subs do to please them (if u feel like sharing)
3) what type of punishments where given by masters / doms to their pregnant subs / slaves
4)your time in the lifestyle while pregnant


1) the normal ones.  i'm only 5 months pregnant so i can still handle the majority of things. 

3) Em, this past weekend i was put in the corner for about 2 hours because i was acting like an ass.  Other then that, he is not up for punishing me.

4) not sure what you are asking.  But he makes ALOT more allowances for me because i'm pregnant.  He does his best to make sure i'm doing "ok".  Calls me several times through out the day to check in to make sure i AM doing ok.  But then my first few months of pregnancy were really fricken hard and i wasnt doing okay.  He's just plainly alot more lenient and doesnt expect as much as he used to from me.  Generally he is happy if i am feeling physically fine, emotionally fine, and can do some chores through out the day.  Yet if one of those waivers (like i sleep all day) he doesnt make a fuss about it.  i have "small" rules and even if those waiver he doesnt make a fuss about it unless to mention it and then as i blubber about why it waivered he just "hmmm hms" me.  After about 30 or so "hmmmm hm's" i cant help but crack up laughing. 

All he pretty much cares about is that i am doing good.  Everything else comes in second. 

He even let me weed his lawn this weekend while i know he thought i was completely nuts for doing so. 


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RE: the lifestyle while pregnant - 1/24/2007 8:50:57 AM   
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http://www.collarchat.com/m_596148/mpage_1/key_pregnant/tm.htm#596148
what happens if I get pregnant?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_521892/mpage_1/key_pregnant/tm.htm#521892
how does pregnancy effect your place in the lifestyle?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_51846/mpage_1/key_pregnant/tm.htm#51846
pregnancy and bdsm?



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RE: the lifestyle while pregnant - 1/24/2007 11:07:58 AM   
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1) what tasks did masters / doms & switches gave pregnant subs / slaves (while the sub or slave is pregnant)


This would depend so very much on the pregnancy and how the female was taking it.  Some have no issues and do aerobic classes up til labor begins, others are on bed-rest from 4 months on and all other variations of lesser sorts.  Assuming a fairly average pregnancy as most my friends have had, the majority of her duties would be the same... fetching, carrying (load weight adjusted), cleaning, sitting and kneeling as I felt fit and worked for the shape her body was in, etc. 

If anything, *additional* rules and tasks would be given... such as adherence to an optimally healthy diet, getting a specific amount of fitting exercise daily, reading literature and attending classes for a variety of info on pregnancy, childbirth options, and childcare, etc. that would benefit her health, mental welfare and the potential health of her child.

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2) what pregnant mistresses had their subs do to please them (if u feel like sharing)


This will never apply to me, but I'll play along with what-ifs.  Foot and back rubs would be more emphasized.  Maintaining a pillow to my liking of fullness to help me in later months to rest on my side comfortably at night to sleep.  Setting out my vitamins and escorting me to what classes I wished to attend.  Learning child CPR along with me.  Those are a few...

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3) what type of punishments where given by masters / doms to their pregnant subs / slaves


Sitting, kneeling or standing in ways that would be a stress of boredom or discomfort (without risk of actual harm).  Eating healthy foods that they do not enjoy at all.  Listening to music that annoys them terribly.  Whatever would be fitting for their personality and wouldn't risk the pregnancy.

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RE: the lifestyle while pregnant - 1/25/2007 2:30:47 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

http://www.collarchat.com/m_596148/mpage_1/key_pregnant/tm.htm#596148
what happens if I get pregnant?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_521892/mpage_1/key_pregnant/tm.htm#521892
how does pregnancy effect your place in the lifestyle?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_51846/mpage_1/key_pregnant/tm.htm#51846
pregnancy and bdsm?




Thanks for these Links Lucky Albatross

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RE: the lifestyle while pregnant - 1/25/2007 2:33:25 AM   
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ORIGINAL: missturbation

Putting on 5 1/2 stone, my hair falling out, my skin being extremely dry, not being able to get in and out of the bath on my own and constantly needing to pee was punishment enough thanks.


yes that would be punishment enough

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RE: the lifestyle while pregnant - 1/25/2007 2:53:18 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Devilslilsister

quote:

1) what tasks did masters / doms & switches gave pregnant subs / slaves (while the sub or slave is pregnant)
2) what pregnant mistresses had their subs do to please them (if u feel like sharing)
3) what type of punishments where given by masters / doms to their pregnant subs / slaves
4)your time in the lifestyle while pregnant


1) the normal ones.  i'm only 5 months pregnant so i can still handle the majority of things. 

3) Em, this past weekend i was put in the corner for about 2 hours because i was acting like an ass.  Other then that, he is not up for punishing me.

4) not sure what you are asking.  But he makes ALOT more allowances for me because i'm pregnant.  He does his best to make sure i'm doing "ok".  Calls me several times through out the day to check in to make sure i AM doing ok.  But then my first few months of pregnancy were really fricken hard and i wasnt doing okay.  He's just plainly alot more lenient and doesnt expect as much as he used to from me.  Generally he is happy if i am feeling physically fine, emotionally fine, and can do some chores through out the day.  Yet if one of those waivers (like i sleep all day) he doesnt make a fuss about it.  i have "small" rules and even if those waiver he doesnt make a fuss about it unless to mention it and then as i blubber about why it waivered he just "hmmm hms" me.  After about 30 or so "hmmmm hm's" i cant help but crack up laughing. 

All he pretty much cares about is that i am doing good.  Everything else comes in second. 

He even let me weed his lawn this weekend while i know he thought i was completely nuts for doing so. 



Thanks for the points 1 & 3 .. what i was asking for point 4 was more of the memories (and the little things) so thank you for the points Devilslilsister

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RE: the lifestyle while pregnant - 1/25/2007 3:11:33 AM   
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ORIGINAL: RumpusParable

quote:



1) what tasks did masters / doms & switches gave pregnant subs / slaves (while the sub or slave is pregnant)


This would depend so very much on the pregnancy and how the female was taking it.  Some have no issues and do aerobic classes up til labor begins, others are on bed-rest from 4 months on and all other variations of lesser sorts.  Assuming a fairly average pregnancy as most my friends have had, the majority of her duties would be the same... fetching, carrying (load weight adjusted), cleaning, sitting and kneeling as I felt fit and worked for the shape her body was in, etc. 

If anything, *additional* rules and tasks would be given... such as adherence to an optimally healthy diet, getting a specific amount of fitting exercise daily, reading literature and attending classes for a variety of info on pregnancy, childbirth options, and childcare, etc. that would benefit her health, mental welfare and the potential health of her child.

quote:


2) what pregnant mistresses had their subs do to please them (if u feel like sharing)


This will never apply to me, but I'll play along with what-ifs.  Foot and back rubs would be more emphasized.  Maintaining a pillow to my liking of fullness to help me in later months to rest on my side comfortably at night to sleep.  Setting out my vitamins and escorting me to what classes I wished to attend.  Learning child CPR along with me.  Those are a few...

quote:


3) what type of punishments where given by masters / doms to their pregnant subs / slaves


Sitting, kneeling or standing in ways that would be a stress of boredom or discomfort (without risk of actual harm).  Eating healthy foods that they do not enjoy at all.  Listening to music that annoys them terribly.  Whatever would be fitting for their personality and wouldn't risk the pregnancy.


Thank you for replying Rumpus
         I enjoyed the information in point 1 about the healthy diet and the "listening to music that annoys them terribly" . Also thanks for filling in point 2 as a what if...

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