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RE: Daddys little girl - 6/18/2006 12:09:45 PM

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....My exgirlfriend started calling me daddy, when I was 17 and she was 14..... Mind you, she did this in public, and I gently discouraged it.

I'd say if a femdom like me can accidentally get a girl calling her daddy, surely you shouldn't have much of a problem with it.

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RE: Daddys little girl - 6/19/2006 7:48:33 AM

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I've always called my Dominant Daddy. For some reason "Daddy" comes out more easily than "Master" plus the added bonus of being able to call him by his title in public, as long as we are not somewhere that people know he is not my Daddy. Then I call him "D" which happens to be the name he goes by anyway, so it works out quite nicely. The only thing is when people question us. Daddy has an Irish accent and as I am American, we sound nothing alike. I always respond with either a very cool "Thats not your buisness" or a quick "Well, I was born here" and a smile. No one has ever asked anything beyond that.

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RE: Daddys little girl - 6/19/2006 10:48:11 AM

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....My exgirlfriend started calling me daddy, when I was 17 and she was 14..... Mind you, she did this in public, and I gently discouraged it.

I'd say if a femdom like me can accidentally get a girl calling her daddy, surely you shouldn't have much of a problem with it.

Sure does cast an image of pedophilia if the ex-girlfriend was only 14... if the relationship involved sex, would your being only 17 make it juvenile pedophilia? Interesting point, because it couldn't possibly be incest unless a sister calls a sister Daddy, and then the imaginary roleplay really becomes ficticious and pretend.

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RE: Daddys little girl - 6/20/2006 5:37:39 PM

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That's awesome Ticia! I'm so happy for you. :)

Soquili's little girl

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Right after I wrote that post.. .he sent me an email.. I answered back and said Daddy at the end of it.. .he wrote me back..and said how much he loved that. So I copied/pasted my post to him...and sent it. He sent this response back: That is a lesson to you angel, never feel afraid to tell me anything. I have always thought of you as my little girl!!

*beaming* That was the sweetest thing for me to hear.. I love him so much..and this shows me once again why. So, now I am Daddy's lil' girl...and very happy about it.

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RE: Daddys little girl - 6/20/2006 7:02:38 PM

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....My exgirlfriend started calling me daddy, when I was 17 and she was 14..... Mind you, she did this in public, and I gently discouraged it.

I'd say if a femdom like me can accidentally get a girl calling her daddy, surely you shouldn't have much of a problem with it.

Sure does cast an image of pedophilia if the ex-girlfriend was only 14... if the relationship involved sex, would your being only 17 make it juvenile pedophilia? Interesting point, because it couldn't possibly be incest unless a sister calls a sister Daddy, and then the imaginary roleplay really becomes ficticious and pretend.

You need to look up what pedophilia is, because someone who is past puberty may be off limits because we frown on it culturally, but in other countries she may be a mother of two by 14. Since I am guessing the vast majority of teen girls have passed puberty by 14 it isnt that. And since she was 17 it wouldnt even be considered statutory rape in my state since both were minors.

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RE: Daddys little girl - 6/21/2006 8:12:28 AM

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The book that made me realize that I wanted a Daddy was Carol Queen's novel The Leather Daddy and the Femme. Daddy Darkheart already had a copy of Pat (now Patrick) Califia's short story collection, Doing It For Daddy.

Some of the reasons that I originally hotlisted him in b.com were his feelings on aftercare and his statement about being called "Daddy":

I love the words "Yes Daddy" being whispered in my ear. If it's moaned in my ear, :) I just go pleasantly insane. I love the trust implied, the level of commitment, and the slight dirty thrill of illicet naughtyness that all gets tangled up in those two words.

- also posted on his blog

Once I read that, I knew that I had to meet him. Once he noticed that I hotlisted him during my "okay, what faces are behind these names" frenzy (I'd just gotten on the Wet Spot membership bulletin board, going through a topic on profile links), he made certain to come up and introduce himself the next time he saw me at a party.

Our conversations about Daddy/daughter play happened a few months later. At first I thought I'd broached it to him and that he'd commented that he felt I was too old for it: chronologically, I'm six years his senior. However, later I commented on some funny looks he'd given me when I was acting particularly impish and he had no memory of commenting on my age. Indeed, he assumed that I'd look down on him for even mentioning it. Once we dug ourselves out of that little wreck, we began playing in private and fell into Daddy/girl play (I prefer saying "D/g" but he likes "D/d" -- alas) so easily that it's become our default interraction.

We're starting to take it more public now that he's returning to the club, and I'm a little shy of saying it in front of other people at least in part because it's been a "just us" thing for so long. However, part of Valetine's Day weekend was spent at the mall, using gift cards while failing to act the part of a respectable couple. Indeed, we discovered that Lane Bryant has perfect, overstuffed Daddy-chairs for him to situate himself in while I come out and twirl and show off various outfits. He was thrilled that I let his opinions guide my purchases. hee.

As to my own father, dead and buried since 1989 -- I don't think of him at all when my Daddy and I play. I think that part of it is that I can't remember a time when I called my Dad "Daddy." I've had years to work through any issues I had with him. The only assocation I've ever made between my father and my Daddy is when I really stopped and thought about it, I realized that when my Daddy's eyes twinkle because I've pleased him in some way, it reminds me of the rare looks of approval I got from my own father. But that's only when I really stop and think hard on the connection. Otherwise, I just play and enjoy and feel like the luckiest girl in the world.

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RE: Daddys little girl - 6/21/2006 8:24:28 AM

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I've always called my Dominant Daddy. For some reason "Daddy" comes out more easily than "Master" plus the added bonus of being able to call him by his title in public, as long as we are not somewhere that people know he is not my Daddy. Then I call him "D" which happens to be the name he goes by anyway, so it works out quite nicely. The only thing is when people question us. Daddy has an Irish accent and as I am American, we sound nothing alike. I always respond with either a very cool "Thats not your buisness" or a quick "Well, I was born here" and a smile. No one has ever asked anything beyond that.

lmfao .... ok I have been questioned a few times in public about the whole Daddy calling .. and one time I guess it was due to my foul mood that day anyway .. but some older women made a comment about the way the girl was calling me Daddy in the aisle ... I spun around and responded with ... she's not my daughter . she's my bitch !!! ..... I thought that lil ol lady was gonna have a coronary right there on the spot ...... whoooops guess I won't do that again

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RE: Daddys little girl - 6/21/2006 8:27:05 AM

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ORIGINAL: missalice
....My exgirlfriend started calling me daddy, when I was 17 and she was 14..... Mind you, she did this in public, and I gently discouraged it.

I'd say if a femdom like me can accidentally get a girl calling her daddy, surely you shouldn't have much of a problem with it.

Sure does cast an image of pedophilia if the ex-girlfriend was only 14... if the relationship involved sex, would your being only 17 make it juvenile pedophilia? Interesting point, because it couldn't possibly be incest unless a sister calls a sister Daddy, and then the imaginary roleplay really becomes ficticious and pretend.

You need to look up what pedophilia is, because someone who is past puberty may be off limits because we frown on it culturally, but in other countries she may be a mother of two by 14. Since I am guessing the vast majority of teen girls have passed puberty by 14 it isnt that. And since she was 17 it wouldnt even be considered statutory rape in my state since both were minors.

your absolutely right julia .. and another thing to add ..... just to make your statement a little more accurate . their are girls in this country too having children at VERY young ages ....

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RE: Daddys little girl - 6/21/2006 8:36:44 AM

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It also helps if there is a noted age difference. I'm 22 (23 next month) and Daddy is 52, so we don't get questioned that often.

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RE: Daddys little girl - 6/26/2006 12:54:45 PM

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not to derail the post or anything . but may I ask what it is about us slightly older<cringes> Masters you younger subs/slaves find so enticing ?? .. I have never understood it but I never questioned it either ...... till now

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RE: Daddys little girl - 6/26/2006 2:01:27 PM

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When Master and i first started chatting, before we met, we both had decided that the Daddy/lil girl dynamic was not something we were interested in. However, after we started spending time together it sort of developed on it's own. Now there are times when i love being His little girl and calling Him Daddy. He loves it as well. It was never anything that i had wanted to explore with other Doms, but with Him, it was just a natural thing. i'm very happy that you were able to explore this with your husband.

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RE: Daddys little girl - 6/26/2006 2:18:04 PM

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We find our intimacies in many ways. I like a versatility in relationships that runs at all age levels-not just one. A girl has the opportunity with me to be anything from a helplessly diapered baby-locked into her crib......Up to the most sophisticated of adults.

It's very special to be able to relate to each other in so many different ways-and in so many different personnas. The one overriding consistency is that we share a common vision at the heart of it all-and honor our mutual values and dreams together.

The rest is just icing on the cake.

I am delighted at your new found freedom Bluolady- joy to you and yours!

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RE: Daddys little girl - 6/26/2006 5:54:45 PM

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I think as a Dom, you get the chance to real fit many areas of being looked up to, From Teacher to a Master and ofcourse to being a Daddy. I think one of the added attractions to the Daddy term is the maternal bond it can suggest, which is both beautiful and very deep. I would consider a sub who called me Daddy a gift as much as one person loving another, its that next step I feel.

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RE: Daddys little girl - 6/27/2006 7:18:55 AM

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This is a slightly older post but thank you again for all your support.

Now I MUST anwser Tamer~
Older men have to be the sexiest creatures on earth. They have (hopefully) outgrown the nasty disposition of foolish youth ( youth is wasted on the young). They over more sablity, they are more trustworthy and a younger woman ( such as myself) feels safe and adored in the arms of an older man. Young men seem to just be with as many women as they can get. They think with thier dicks. A "slightly" older man already knows what's out there and can therefore spend his time truely enjoying the girl he is with.
Anyway that's just MHO.

~ Lady

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RE: Daddys little girl - 6/27/2006 8:03:33 AM

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i dont call my Master daddy but i am His babygirl and it makes my heart smile every time He calls me His babygirl. For me, it is a huge turn on when Master does say something like "I adore you babygirl" or "

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RE: Daddys little girl - 6/27/2006 8:59:53 PM

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I have to agree with you on that Piggy nothing is more heart warming than being called baby girl or for me Daddi's girl. Just makes me grin all day when I hear him say it!

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RE: Daddys little girl - 2/27/2007 6:17:40 AM

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not to derail the post or anything . but may I ask what it is about us slightly older<cringes> Masters you younger subs/slaves find so enticing ?? .. I have never understood it but I never questioned it either ...... till now

For me, it's mainly the increase in experience: not necessarily kink experience, but life experience. It's one of the reasons my Daddy and I manage so well -- chronologically I've been on this earth six years longer than he has, but you almost wouldn't know it if you compared our past experience. Holy crap.

As BlouLady mentioned, a younger or less experienced dom setting his sites on me would be slightly flattering, but one with more experience -- especially one I respected -- would simply blow my mind even if we never played.

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RE: Daddys little girl - 2/27/2007 9:07:50 AM

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i could never call Master anything like daddy, papa, papi, etc... however, i am his girl. And in many ways, i can relate the way that my Master takes care of me to the way a father might care for and protect his daughter. So in that sense, he does fill a daddy role. Alot of Doms and Masters most likely do without realizing it. i call him Master, not because i have to, but because that's what he is... the Master of my heart, body and soul. It feels right to call him Master.

If it feels right for you, or anyone else reading this thread, to call your Master, husband... partner daddy, by all means. It's not wrong. Many people may frown on it, but those are the same people who do not understand (and often times are unwilling to even try to understand) the intricate bond that grows between those living within the BDSM community, as well as the D/s lifestyle itself.

So enjoy your Daddy, and enjoy being his girl.

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RE: Daddys little girl - 2/27/2007 9:36:43 AM

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not to derail the post or anything . but may I ask what it is about us slightly older<cringes> Masters you younger subs/slaves find so enticing ?? .. I have never understood it but I never questioned it either ...... till now

Oh oh oh, i can answer this one! Well, for me anyway...

Your age, your experiences, and your knowledge are a huge factor. But it also comes down to the fact that older men tend to know and understand how a girl should be treated. It's not a game to them. It's something they typically have learned over the course of their years.

Sorry guys, i don't mean to throw you into a stereo-type as i know there are exceptions flying all over the place. BUT, younger men are still generally too immature to fill the role that being a Dom or a Master requires to meet my needs.

And, sticking to the theme of this thread, older men do fill that Daddy role, whether they're called daddy or not.

FYI, for those about to hit quote and criticize me on this, my Master is not among the older men. In fact, he is my age. Although when i met him i thought he was much older.

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RE: Daddys little girl - 2/27/2007 10:16:14 AM

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not to derail the post or anything . but may I ask what it is about us slightly older<cringes> Masters you younger subs/slaves find so enticing ?? .. I have never understood it but I never questioned it either ...... till now

Hello. =)

Haha, is 35 too old to reply to this? ;)

Seriously, I've always prefered men around my own age, vanilla or otherwise. My owner will be 42 on March 13, 7 years older then me, and he's on the high end of the age bracket for me.

I'm initially attracted to men I have things in common with. Music, movies, generational influences, things like that. The older men I've dated in the past always hated my tastes in pretty much everything, lol.

Also, the bdsm play I've done in the past were, with creative scruffy vanilla GenXers who were open enough to try new things. =)

If I were a young submissive, right now, I'd probably still look for dominants around the same age. Experience is great, sure, I guess I'd rather have some common cultural ground, if that makes any sense. =)

Cheers,
Stella

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