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Elorin -> RE: cleaning the pipes (4/18/2007 8:26:07 AM)
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I wonder how many people associating enemas with diahrrea have had enemas.
A fleet enema costs about $.97 and will basically flush the lower rectal cavity of any fecal matter. Having an enema is not ANYTHING like diahrrea. As a submissive, knowing that a cock, finger, or toy shoved in my ass will not come out "fudgy" and covered with fecal matter is, however, a HUGE mental relief. I do not always do an enema before anal play, and I do not recommend daily enemas because of how it flushes out the normal flora and fauna that belon in the rectal cavity. However, if you aren't doing anal play daily, having her do an enema an hour before play or so may relieve her mind greatly.
I wholeheartedly concur on the subject of use a glove or condom. It may relieve her mind to know that the scent or any residue will not remain on you after play.
Another wholehearted hell yea is do NOT freak out. Do NOT jump up and scrub afterwards.
The first time I ever gushed I was appalled and mortified. The reason I came to terms with it so easily is that my lover held me, kissed me, snuggled with me, and gave me aftercare from what had been a very intense sexual session as well as semi-scene. Afterwards we showered together. His simple acceptance of this made it much easier for me to accept.
Sometimes I cum so hard that shit comes out during the orgasm. The first time this happened Sir's reaction was very detrimental to me. It wasn't intentional and he and I have come to terms with it and deal with it much differently now, but at the time time he lost interest, couldn't play, and sent me straight to the bathroom. I was appalled, ashamed, and horrified. Now if that happens Sir will simply cover it up with an edge of a towel, keep doing what we are doing until there is a lull, and then send me to the bathroom to wash up and then come right back. It is much easier to deal with that way.
If she freaks out about any bodily processes I would suggest this. Get naked. Get in the shower together. Ask her to pee on you. She'll probably refuse, but that's fine. Pee on her. Wash up together and talk about it afterwards. Get to where peeing on each other in the shower is ok. It might not turn her on but she will most likely come to accept it as ok. (There is water coming down, the scent shouldn't stay, you are washing with soap afterwards.) When you think she is ready, progress to stripping naked, getting in the bathtub together, no water, and have her pee on you. Vice versa. Be very loving and appreciative of her as she does this. Show her that her bodily processes do not disgust you, that you accept them as simply another part of who she is. When she accepts your piss speak to her "good girl, that's right, I like pissing on you, I'm proud of you for doing this for me, thank you." Praise her and make this a warm and loving experience.
Good hygiene for both of you, loving acceptance w/out flinching for her bodily processes, and exposing her to your bodily processes might be effective. You are the master, only you know how she'll react best.
Good luck!
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