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RE: Forced in Diapers? - 8/23/2008 7:57:09 PM

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Gets out a box and starts going through the backstock. ;)

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RE: Forced in Diapers? - 8/23/2008 8:53:44 PM

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Thanx wulf. That gives me a better idea about what the sub likes about it. Looks like there's lots of reasons they like it so I guess it might be different for each sub too. I think I'd get lots out of one that wants emotional bonding so I can play Mommy. Public humiliating them could be fun too but I'd only do that with a sub that wanted to try that. Not into traumatizing anyone for life.

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RE: Forced in Diapers? - 8/24/2008 7:59:31 AM

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Thanx wulf. That gives me a better idea about what the sub likes about it. Looks like there's lots of reasons they like it so I guess it might be different for each sub too. I think I'd get lots out of one that wants emotional bonding so I can play Mommy. Public humiliating them could be fun too but I'd only do that with a sub that wanted to try that. Not into traumatizing anyone for life.

Any babies needing Mommy? Come to Momma.

Be careful with that last line there. ABDL's will be all over that offer as not many women understand, nevertheless are into, diapers, ABDL, or infantilism, and indeed, a very large majority of female profiles on CM list diapers as a hard limit.

As for me, I like putting girls in diapers. I used to put my former sub in them, sometimes along with handcuffs and leg irons, and that was really hot, for both her and I. (She'd try to start masteurbateing within the half hour...if the restraints allowed. Or even try if they didn't) But we sometimes had story time, and I had a big box of crayons and a huge coloring book I was gonna suprise her with before she left.

Youtube has a couple videos with ABDL boys and girls, but you have to sort the wheat from the chaff as with anything else on that site. There are several decent picture sites. www.dailydiapers.com is easily among the best of them. abdlvideos.com was really cool, but it went offline, but some decent links remain.

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RE: Forced in Diapers? - 8/24/2008 8:30:28 AM

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Also keep in mind that you need to be careful with some ab's. They seem to be more interested in you being thier caretaker than giving service.

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RE: Forced in Diapers? - 8/24/2008 8:41:37 AM

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Also keep in mind that you need to be careful with some ab's. They seem to be more interested in you being thier caretaker than giving service.

Amen to that!

That is a *Huge* pitfall to this particular side of things.

Some realy do wish to live as a really large adult baby.. and all that connotates 24-7. Damn hard to keep up if you have a job.. or an outside life.

Some get addicted to all of the attention and care. You are Feeding, changing, playing, *everything* with them as if they are a real baby.

Many do not wish to keep thier mundane vannila lives after all of the fantasy kicks in. One ABBY I had quit her job.. and just stayed home and expected me to always care for her.

I had gotten pregnant with my first Um.. and of course *nothing* was supposed to change. I never even received help from her with the um once it was born.. or help with me when I was pregnant.. it was all about her ABBY needs. ( Selfish brat does not even begin to cover it.)

So I had to let her go once I found her a new Mommie.

The brattiness at not catering to every whim I just could not deal with.. and the jealousy over my having an actual one.. and friends.. well that wasnt going to fly.

You have to set up boundries... and rules as to the level of roleplay, for how long.. and what exactly. As I said to some it is addictive.

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RE: Forced in Diapers? - 8/24/2008 9:01:03 AM

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yeah, there is a neat division between people who want to be treated like babies, and those who just want to play a scene out in diapers. loving the humiliation factor of it all, i'm of the latter. i just don't think i could be that dependant on someone, it would just be , well.... creepy to me ;)

kinda ironic right?

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RE: Forced in Diapers? - 8/24/2008 12:01:22 PM

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yeah, there is a neat division between people who want to be treated like babies, and those who just want to play a scene out in diapers. loving the humiliation factor of it all, i'm of the latter. i just don't think i could be that dependant on someone, it would just be , well.... creepy to me ;)

kinda ironic right?

Thats one of the *many* reasons why you make such a good sub for me. We see eye to eye on stuff.

I like people who are thier own people first and foremost.

*smiles and hugs you*

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RE: Forced in Diapers? - 8/24/2008 6:39:38 PM

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Nodding...I can definitely see the positive differences between "the sub I can diaper when it takes my fancy".....

Over the "be my slave daddy" sorts.

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RE: Forced in Diapers? - 8/25/2008 7:29:54 AM

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I have to agree. I don't think I would want a 24/7 situation. To many other things to do that would make it a pain.

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RE: Forced in Diapers? - 8/25/2008 7:31:45 AM

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*gasp* dare ya have a LIFE???

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RE: Forced in Diapers? - 8/25/2008 7:40:42 AM

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yeah, totally. going out one afternoon for some diaper fun is waaaaay different than being treated as a baby 24/7. i just don't think being locked in a crib all day could be fufilling, being locked in plastic panties and a nappy for a trip to the what ever though....

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RE: Forced in Diapers? - 8/25/2008 7:43:57 AM

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The 24/7 thing is hard to imagine. I look forward to seeing myself as an adult man, compelled to wear diapers in public with the potential for humiliation being extremely high. I think 24/7 would get old for both the people.

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RE: Forced in Diapers? - 8/25/2008 7:48:23 AM

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That is one of the cool things about diaper play in that it can be taken out and done discreetly for some added fun. But, a day 24/7 in a crib would be boring.
It is one of those fetishes that you can do so much with if one has a little creativity. Hell, I even have fun dressing up and cleaning and doing a variety of things.
It can add a lot of fun to what most would consider mundane tasks around the house.

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RE: Forced in Diapers? - 8/25/2008 7:54:52 AM

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What I liked about the whole thing with diapers-it was an added level of control-a form of rather intense bondage-that did not incapacitate the sub's ability to still function in a useful manner.

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RE: Forced in Diapers? - 8/25/2008 2:01:45 PM

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What I liked about the whole thing with diapers-it was an added level of control-a form of rather intense bondage-that did not incapacitate the sub's ability to still function in a useful manner.

I like that about it as well. I like being useful.

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RE: Forced in Diapers? - 8/25/2008 2:39:11 PM

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Well stephykate, so you think 24/7 would get old do you? What if your Mistress demanded that of you, would it still get old? I think the idea of 24/7 is a dream for most people, after all most have a real life to get on with, but if the situation for 24/7 came along, even if it were for a short period, say a week or a month, would you pass it up because it would get old?

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RE: Forced in Diapers? - 8/25/2008 4:05:28 PM

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I did 24/7 for years.. I can tell you straight up that shit gets old.

You get burnt out as a Dom/me.. and to be perfectly frank I dont care what the hell the sub thinks of it... 24/7 of high maintnance care like that is just too damn much.

This is why I stress that they must have thier own lives, thier own minds, thier own goals in life.. and hobbies.

And why would a Dom/me telling them they want 24/7 make it any less boring day in and day out.. or any more appealing.

The Dom/me-sub dynamic is (in my mind) one of partnership.. and communication. I think the Dom/me would need a nappy and a nap time if they stomped thier foot and demanded something the sub was not kosher with. Nudging them gently into the direction you wish them to grow is good.. they are growing.. and testing thier limits.. however emotional blackmail that I see a good deal of them do to get thier way~ is never acceptable.. and is a huge sign of a weak person.

Hopefuly on a taboo topic like this they would come to an agreement. I have done diaper fun weekend with play dates with other abbys for my baby.. that is fun.. and a nice break from reality. But they thought it was a great ( and kinda scary) thought.. but they were hip to it.

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RE: Forced in Diapers? - 8/25/2008 5:43:54 PM

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Well stephykate, so you think 24/7 would get old do you? What if your Mistress demanded that of you, would it still get old? I think the idea of 24/7 is a dream for most people, after all most have a real life to get on with, but if the situation for 24/7 came along, even if it were for a short period, say a week or a month, would you pass it up because it would get old?

If Mistress demands me to wear diapers 24/7, for a shorter, but extended time, I do think this changes the dynamic and makes the scene very interesting.

I think I would go through a roller-coaster of feelings -- at first it would seem exciting -- I've fantasized about being "forced" by my Mistress to wear diapers. (But how forced is it really, when you've been wanting her to have you put diapers on to begin with?)

After a a day, I think the excitement of being "forced" will get old.

-- Everytime you use the diaper, you need to get a new one, put it on, dispose of the old.

-- If you go out, you need to make sure you take diapers with you

-- If you are out, you need to find discrete places to change

But once the excitement wears off, a different emotion probably kicks-in -- I'm no longer wearing the diapers because I secretly want to, and it's convenient, I'm now wearing diapers because I really am forced. So the experience has transitioned from one that where the excitement has worn off and I'm truly submitting to Mistress's wishes.

I think what's interesting about this is that it truly moves the power to my Mistress. While for the first hours, I'm in diapers because I want to be (almost like "topping from the bottom"), after that I'm in them because Mistress wants me in them. It moves the focus of the scene from the diapers, to the power of my Mistress -- that is an intriguing trip for me.

In a controlled situation, I would definitely accept the opportunity to wear 24/7 to please my Mistress.

But because of the challenge you mention -- the real world -- I've worn diapers over night, but never to work. While I would love to say I would wear diapers 24/7 for a week or a month, it would be difficult for me to be in diapers 24/7 over this amount of time because I wouldn't want to impact the lives of other people around me, or my career. .

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RE: Forced in Diapers? - 8/25/2008 6:39:39 PM

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I've done things with girls where I would cycle them in an out of diapers. Basically at my whim-they would never know when that would be. A girl might act up at the mall, and find herself back in the car-getting changed into whatever was in the diaper bag-then taken back inside. I did it in ways no one could see-I used velcro contours and snap on plastic pants.

A wrap skirt with elastic waist and velcro up one side was a nice touch as well. Especially if the waist had a grab strap. In a combo with a tight fitting polo shirt-that was hemmed just a bit over the diaper top. In the middle of the mall-and knowing I could very easily reach out and rip that skirt off with very little effort. >:)) And knowing I am twisted enough to MAYBE do just that.

Or we might keep her in them 24 7 over a weekend. It was never a continuous thing.

Funny thing is,after a while of "unpotty training"-you get this strong urge to pee right after the plastic panties are in place.

The conditioning aspects are rather intriguing.

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RE: Forced in Diapers? - 8/25/2008 7:33:46 PM

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What I liked about the whole thing with diapers-it was an added level of control-a form of rather intense bondage-that did not incapacitate the sub's ability to still function in a useful manner.

I like that about it as well. I like being useful.

Hey! Long time, no see! Did you get those cloth diapers you were thinking about?

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