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RE: Sex in sessions - 5/18/2004 3:34:57 PM

January

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ORIGINAL: sub4hire

<snip>Soem male dude called in proclaiming himself a pro Dominant.
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Although the dude did know what a safe call was. Even a safe word. His was some rather ODD word. Not the "RED" we all would know in a heartbeat if new. All of the pro's I have ever met in life always usually use red. Its basic and simple. Anyone use any different word if you're pro?<snip>

sub4hire,

Do you remember what his safe word was? Could it have been, "Stop and I'll pay you double!" ?

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RE: Sex in sessions - 5/19/2004 4:17:03 AM

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Hello,

Thank you for defending me, I was simply sharing what the guy was saying to Mark and Brian. If it was something important I would research it to verify, but as I suspect I wont ever require the services of a pro Dominant, I was only partially interested.

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microwaved a box of crayolas -(shaking head)- God save us from the hands of amatuers - glad you were there topcat to straighten them out

I have to ask: why? (Always interested to learn new kinks)

Was not aware that wax had enough water molecules in it to heat up in a microwave. Learn something new every day.

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RE: Sex in sessions - 5/19/2004 8:01:02 AM

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I have to ask: why?

to quote from topcats post;

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fortunaly, most of the burns were first degree, and they hadn't got to the pink parts yet.

nothing wrong with some nice wax play, you just, as with any other aspect of play in this lifestyle, have to know what you are doing - I've said it before, I'll probably say it again - practice practice practice - I also advocate that before you use something on a sub/slave, you first use it on yourself so that you know exactly how it feels - the only exception I make to this is insertables ( I am male and can never know what it feels like to have something put into a vagina

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RE: Sex in sessions - 5/19/2004 8:40:05 AM

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I am a married Master and my wife is a Mistress. We are not pro-but after having sesioned for nearly 27 years in the lifestyle - we can honestly say that sex, of any kind - has never been introduced into our sessions. I suppose it depends on what limitations and guidelines you have prior to the scene, and to what degree your personal discipline holds out.

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RE: Sex in sessions - 5/19/2004 8:44:41 AM

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I am, sorta, a ProDom.
"you do, you know, THAT STUFF, Right?"

lol, I've been there done that! And they say it just like that! With those pauses and slight hesitations. I've never accepted monetary gratuity for my services, but I've gotten some interesting "gifts" in return over the years. Not to mention being in some interesting situations and having some very interesting experiences. Nothing quite as edgy as the crayons in the microwave, but I had a male approach me once regarding "food play" in his relationship. As a result of my interaction (instruction) with him and his play partner over the course of several months, my property was landscaped and maintained until I moved.

As for Pro male Doms, I did know of one in Reno Nevada back in the 70's, he was S/m and his clientele was male.

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RE: Sex in sessions - 5/19/2004 3:20:55 PM

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Hookers with whips do

For once MizSuz I don't need permission to borrow your turn of a phrase.

Good phrase though!

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RE: Sex in sessions - 5/20/2004 8:05:12 PM

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For once MizSuz I don't need permission to borrow your turn of a phrase. Good phrase though!

hahaha I'm quite sure I picked it up somewhere. Wouldn't dream of laying claim to the origins of that one!

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RE: Sex in sessions - 5/21/2004 4:11:34 AM

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The problem with heating up wax in the microwave is you have uneven heat dispersal in the substance, so you end up with pockets of extremely hot mixed in with cooler. This is why it is recommended you let food sit for a few minutes after you take it out of the microwave. You might want to consider buying a warming / crock pot which will heat the wax up to the temperature you deem good (even using double boiling to keep the heat down) for what you use it for.

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