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Termyn8or -> RE: There is nothing wrong with being a bit overweight not everyone wants to be or is skinny. (2/1/2007 8:26:36 PM)
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There are different comfortasble weights for different people. And there are different preferences. My buddy Jim liked large Women. Just the way he was. And when he hooked up with Bubbles (he really did call her this, affectionatley though) nobody hardly ever mentioned weight. Sometimes he would cook up something and she might say "You want me to get fat ?". He would say something like "More cushion for the pushin".
I am right now, 20-30 lbs over. I am comfortable, I used to be heavier. I feel better now, it is easier to bend down, stand up, sit, lay, walk, just about everything. But I lost the poundage for health reasons, not for aesthetics.
Fat girls can be sweet and cute too, and even be good in bed. Although alot of guys will pass then over. But here's the kicker, some of the guys are fatter !
I think for one, the general idea is that it is OK fior a guy to have a beer belly. But why is that ?
I have a theory. In the times when Mankind was 'evolving' out of a nomadic existence, and became farmers and such, nature dictated that Women take care of the children. Nature did this by putting breasts on the Woman. Can you picture trying to breastfeed while plowing a field ?
As the generations went by, males became stronger because of the greater physical demand on them. Not that her work was easy, but it did not require a great deal of physical strength, or at least to the same degree.
Whether by adaptation or natural selection, it seemed males grew bigger.
So, by instinct, the Woman sees the Man, and when he is larger, that is seen as an asset, because there were problems, times of strife in war or other dangers. The Man naturally became the protector.
Now when a short guy gets fat, OK, so what, but when a tall guy gets fat he looks like a house. Women would see that as an asset, as he would make a better defender of home and hearth, and there might also be the innate component that she knows he can get food. Without it, there would be no spare tire on him.
Men on the other hand, were mainly attratced by beauty, fat Women were not considered desirable. Strange as it is, I am a Man and I can't explain it.
Thing is, 'they' have put this desire to be skinny and good looking into everything. Think back "Mirror mirror on the wall, who is fairest of them all". Miss Texas, Miss Tenesee, Miss Ohio. The certainly do keep it coming.
I work on TVs, biguns, but still TVs and sometime they have to test play. So they are on the local Fox NTSC channel. On this channel is the Tyra Banks show. Now all we need is a clean signal, so that is the channel, but the other day it caught my eye.
I don't think Tyra's all that good looking, and usually I think her content is too mundane, they do makeovers and crap like that. But this one had little girls, pre-teens, who were already obsessed with being skinny. They were showing them pictures of girls who were totally mormal weight wise and alot of times they said "She could lose a few pounds". They were also shown skinny girls, and some of them still saw them as overweight.
What the TV puts out may well be the ideal. But boiling it down, first of all why are so many people so interested in looking at pictures ? when TV was invented, they thought the novelty of it would wear off quickly. Instead it has grown into a monster, a tentacle of the Beast for you Christians. I really believe it has.
Mine is turned off.
T
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