prettichinadoll -> "a submissive should know her place"...what is a submissive's place? (2/3/2007 7:46:43 PM)
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Well, I read that sentence a lot in profiles. Many doms say "a submissive should know her place!" and I ask, what is a submissive's place? at your feet right from the beginning even before they know you, even before you earn their respect, even before you earn the right to have them willingly kneel at your feet? I would presume a profile is for people who doesn't know me, is a place to introduce myself. Unless a profile is specifically written for someone, it should be respectful to the general readers. So even as a submissive, I don't appreciate the words such as "I demand respect!" or "You should know your place, slut!" or "a submissive should always kneel..." and such. Before a submissive make her decision to submit, she is just as much as a person as any dom (i think even a submissive submit to a dom, she's still as much as a human being as her dom or any dom, but i know some people don't agree with me on that). So i think, a submissive's place in front of a dom, whom she hasn't made the decision to submit, should be equal. She should be respected the same way the dom respect any other person, submissive or not. Want to know how you guys think about this.
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