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RE: A site teaching the Sub/slave Menstrual Servitude~ - 3/10/2005 2:10:36 PM   
MadameDahlia


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Oh dear... I must be in a strange mood. All I could hear in my head after reading that was "Come fly the friendly skies!"

How odd.

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RE: A site teaching the Sub/slave Menstrual Servitude~ - 3/10/2005 10:20:34 PM   
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MadameDahlia
Thank You!

I was just letting Mistresses/Slaves who did not know
what type of services where involved in this type of play,
That this information was available~

Even if I was interested in this type
of play? {Thankfully I'm not}
I was once again just letting people know it was available for them~

quote:

"Your talk is Great, But Your walk is Funny"!


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RE: A site teaching the Sub/slave Menstrual Servitude~ - 3/10/2005 11:24:41 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: knees2you
Even if I was interested in this type
of play? {Thankfully I'm not}

Oh You tease! , this reply will make Malepleases happy; Damn! M


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RE: A site teaching the Sub/slave Menstrual Servitude~ - 3/11/2005 9:59:25 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Jasmyn

You know after following a number of your anti-posts (*eye roll* trust Me its the only way I can describe them) I really do wonder about your ability to *please* anyone...let alone what you think of the adage risk aware consensual kink, let alone the good ole SSC. Given you have a huge aversion to a lot of fetish topics posted on these boards.

I have noticed you quite regularly play attack dog and run down a number of very real fetishes. Blood sports in regards to the female menstral cycle is very common and the fact that you find the female menstrual cycle so abhorrent ...well lets not even comment on that.

In the mid 1800s a renown medical academic ...male..go figure... susgested women not be educated because having to think draws energy away from our reproduction organs. In a counter response to this, a very couragous woman for her time, suggested that the female menstrual cycle not be treated by physicans as a medical condition..rather that the female demand and get sex during her cycle rather then being locked away or hide her 'condition' from her partner.

When someone squicks at the menstrual cycle...I often wonder what on earth do they think cum is? A female or male ejaculation, sharing bodily fluids, mouth, vaginal, penis, anus ... why is one fluid ok ... and not another. The only answer is social conditioning.

& man you have some very real social conditioning issues.

Yes you are entitled to your opinion. But speak to Me in the manner you spoke to Mistress Dahlia on this thread and I'll be making a formal complaint to the site owners.

An opinion is one thing...being an opinionated arsehole is another.

Mistress Jasmyn



If I may, I always was under the impression that it was my duty as a slave to do as I'm told! I've earned my redwings, and am not keen on menstrual service, but I'd not refuse either if told to. Having said that, Mstrs Jasmyn makes a good point on conditioning, and the contents of bodily fluids! I know if a person is healthy, and doesn't have any comunicable viruses, or deseases it's cool. It's a matter of desire to please.

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RE: A site teaching the Sub/slave Menstrual Servitude~ - 3/11/2005 10:11:18 PM   
knees2you


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One person said,

It is a breading ground for Bacteria~

quote:

Having him/her wear discarded sanitary items - Ehh... not all that keen on that idea.
Sucking on/gagged with discarded sanitary items - Hee hee... And you think I'd kiss that mouth? Forget it!

I understand that this is a kink that some people might enjoy. And if that's what oils their gears then I say Go For It! But I can't see myself bonding any deeper with someone just because he/she puts filthy things in his/her mouth. I want pampering - not something that will probably make me ill.



Be safe all~

Sincerely, ant

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RE: A site teaching the Sub/slave Menstrual Servitude~ - 3/11/2005 11:34:04 PM   
MadameDahlia


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Hee hee... Breeding ground.

And I was referring to tampons and pads. If those are not changed regularly they can be. And sometimes people are too lazy or too uneducated to know to change them frequently.

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RE: A site teaching the Sub/slave Menstrual Servitude~ - 3/11/2005 11:39:53 PM   
BlkTallFullfig


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quote:

ORIGINAL: knees2you
One person said,
It is a breading ground for Bacteria~
Sincerely, ant

Knees,
You had this reply "it's a breeding ground for bacteria" for a man named proSCATman!!! I don't think he's worried about bacteria, lol.M

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RE: A site teaching the Sub/slave Menstrual Servitude~ - 3/12/2005 12:34:25 AM   
ProScatman


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quote:

ORIGINAL: knees2you

One person said,

It is a breading ground for Bacteria~

quote:

Having him/her wear discarded sanitary items - Ehh... not all that keen on that idea.
Sucking on/gagged with discarded sanitary items - Hee hee... And you think I'd kiss that mouth? Forget it!

I understand that this is a kink that some people might enjoy. And if that's what oils their gears then I say Go For It! But I can't see myself bonding any deeper with someone just because he/she puts filthy things in his/her mouth. I want pampering - not something that will probably make me ill.



Be safe all~

Sincerely, ant

By all means! I was referring to fresh body fluids, not those that have been around "ageing", outside the body exposed to the air etc.

< Message edited by ProScatman -- 3/12/2005 1:10:01 AM >


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RE: A site teaching the Sub/slave Menstrual Servitude~ - 3/12/2005 12:57:18 AM   
ProScatman


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

quote:

ORIGINAL: knees2you
One person said,
It is a breading ground for Bacteria~
Sincerely, ant

Knees,
You had this reply "it's a breeding ground for bacteria" for a man named proSCATman!!! I don't think he's worried about bacteria, lol.M

Quite to the contrary! I am very concerned about bacteria! And since I take it you are refering to my scat fetish, I'd like to say for the record that I have been into scat long before I became elegable to join the Marines. It was born into me, and I have practiced it all my life with healthy partners, and I never once got sick! In fact the opposite, I feel great! It never got programed into my head that it was filthy. My parents, both WW2 Marine Vets felt it best to teach me what I should know about life--to be clean, but not to be paranoid about what comes out of me and everyone else. I don't remember talking about bloody crackers? I respect everyone's personal wonts, and desires, and try to contribute to what is being discussed, rather than casting someone in a bad light! Live, and let live, with respect.

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Have a good day, Mike

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RE: A site teaching the Sub/slave Menstrual Servitude~ - 3/13/2005 7:09:50 AM   
knees2you


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Each person on this earth
has different DNA, etc.
What affects me in a bad way,
might just pass thru someone else
with no problems?
I heard about a man Who smoked everyday till he was
98 years old. My body wouldn't be able take that!

It just depends on what the Slave is willing to give,
Whether or not it might make him sick, or very I'll~

Sincerely, ant

quote:

"Your talk is Great, But Your walk is Funny!"

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RE: A site teaching the Sub/slave Menstrual Servitude~ - 3/13/2005 1:07:10 PM   
ProScatman


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quote:

ORIGINAL: knees2you

Each person on this earth
has different DNA, etc.
What affects me in a bad way,
might just pass thru someone else
with no problems?
I heard about a man Who smoked everyday till he was
98 years old. My body wouldn't be able take that!

It just depends on what the Slave is willing to give,
Whether or not it might make him sick, or very I'll~

Sincerely, ant

quote:

"Your talk is Great, But Your walk is Funny!"


Thank you Knees2you: It is a Psychological/Common sense thing! I was told everything is psychological by a Psychiatrist! But I also know I have to use common sense as well! There are ways to do things as safely as possible, or one can cast safety to the side and take their chances. I can't just cast away safety! First off, it would be a great dis--service to the Mitrs I was serving at the time, and secondly to myself. I'll bet a lot of folks don't even give it a thought when they are giving a good long, and detailed Rim Job? I have provided Menstrual Service, and enjoyed it, I believe mostly because the woman did, and made it known to me. Truthfully, I believe sucking on an old tampon would have me bent over! ~

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RE: A site teaching the Sub/slave Menstrual Servitude~ - 3/13/2005 1:54:35 PM   
BlkTallFullfig


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ProScatman
quote:

ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig
Knees,
You had this reply "it's a breeding ground for bacteria" for a man named proSCATman!!! I don't think he's worried about bacteria, lol.M

I'd like to say for the record that I have been into scat long before I became elegable to join the Marines. It was born into me, and I have practiced it all my life with healthy partners, and I never once got sick! In casting someone in a bad light! Live, and let live, with respect.

Did I cast you in a bad light ? I'm not sure how, but I do apologize if you took offense to my post, since I meant it to be more funny than sarcastic, I did not mean to offend you.

I do hope you're not telling me that scat doesn't have bacteria though... Within a person, Dead or alive, I've never read a science book or spoken to a doctor that didn't refer to feces as waste which carries bacteria, and no one has ever referred to colon/anus as clean/STERILE EVER.
I wasn't suggesting you're going to catch anything deadly from ingesting scat, and certainly don't think you're dirty for doing it; why would I since it doesn't kill me when it's in me, why would it kill you going into you directly (granting immune systems are different)?

I definitely did not intend to say your fetish is bad... As a matter of fact you won't find a single thread where I've said someone else's fetish is bad (with only exceptions being if you call playing with underage folks or cheating as a fetish). In fact my argument on this thread is menstrual service is perfectly cool if you're into it. Not the opposite of dirty/bad and anyone who does it is gross. M


< Message edited by BlkTallFullfig -- 3/13/2005 5:17:22 PM >


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RE: A site teaching the Sub/slave Menstrual Servitude~ - 3/13/2005 10:15:33 PM   
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Serving sexualy during a woman's cycle is grose to me. I am sure there are other ways to serve during those times that are just as pleasing to the Dominate. I suppose this is more a case of to each his own and i have heard of one Master who liked to take his girl during those times so she knew she was never safe from him sexually. In that Masters case I think he would even do His slaves corpse if he could. Again digusting but that is mearly an opinion.

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RE: A site teaching the Sub/slave Menstrual Servitude~ - 3/13/2005 11:49:36 PM   
mantis65


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quote:

In that Masters case I think he would even do His slaves corpse if he could.


I guess I have strong stomach! This never bothered me not something I had a fetish for I was just told to do it.

Not a corpse damn…… that’s a long way from her monthly! Yikes!
mantis

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RE: A site teaching the Sub/slave Menstrual Servitude~ - 3/14/2005 1:55:04 AM   
malepleases4ever


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quote:

Jasmyn

Yes you are entitled to your opinion. But speak to Me in the manner you spoke to Mistress Dahlia on this thread and I'll be making a formal complaint to the site owners.




Wha??!? Now, who the fudge are you?

lady - those eyerolls... that's what I'm going for. Have you not been paying attention? Let me get you up to speed - I am a troll you're not to feed.

SO why don't you run along and tell the site owner that the nasty troll was mean to you. (yeesh)

Christ almighty! - you people make it easy for me.

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RE: A site teaching the Sub/slave Menstrual Servitude~ - 3/22/2005 12:26:56 AM   
FireWalker


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-=smiles and winks to knees2you=-

I want to say thank you to knees for finding this and sharing it with all those who had a read. I for One was pleasantly surprised by some of what I read... I would like to encourage whomever to read this site and see that there are wonderful ways to serve during this time every month and the opportunity to enrich your D/s experience, add new rituals that can be and are really wonderful... I know I for one will enjoy some of this in the months I have remaining. Kind of makes Me wish it would last a little longer...lol

I really enjoyed the section on Duties of the menstrual slave and I can see how ANYONE could work this into their D/s life. I mean if I had a dollar for every time I ran out of pads... I would have a few more pairs of shoes, boots, and leather pants!

Quote from the page

What does a menstrual slave do? Hmmm... just about anything you can think of for him to do! Some ideas (season to taste):

1. The slave will (after consulting with Mistress as to her personal preferences) purchase all pads, tampons, Midol, wet-wipes, douches, etc., that are required to care for Mistress during her period.

2a. The slave is responsible for attending to Mistress's personal hygiene during the duration of her period. This includes following Mistress (on hands and knees) into the bathroom when she uses it and will kneel before her as she uses the toilet. The menstrual slave will check, by sight and by questioning whether she feels the need to have her pads or tampons changed, how she desires to be cleaned (tongue, wash cloth, wet-wipes, douche, etc.), and checking to see if she needs new panties.

2b. If Mistress and her slave are in public (restaurant, theatre, etc.) when she uses the bathroom, the slave will follow her to the door of the bathroom, kissing Mistress's hand as a sign of respect, before she enters the bathroom. The slave will wait at the door of the restroom, until Mistress emerges, where he will greet her with another kiss of her hand. (Or substitute any other appropriate show of devotion.)

3. Mistress's panties, if soiled with blood, are to be hand-laundered by the slave.

4. The slave is to pay extra-special attention to Mistress's breasts and abdomen, and will tend to any discomfort she may be experiencing. The slave may suggest gentle massage, heating pads, ibuprofen, soothing drinks, etc. for Mistress's comfort.

5. If Mistress keeps track of her period on a calendar or planner, it is the slave's duty to record the start date, end date, and make any daily notes regarding amount of flow, special pain or sensitivity Mistress feels, swelling or bloating, body temperature, menstrual headaches, moods, sexual energy, or any other special charting Mistress wishes to have recorded for medical or fertility purposes. (More great ideas for documenting your period here!!! http://coolgold.com.au/~imacleod/keeptrack.html)

6. If Mistress uses the birth control pill, she may require her slave to feed it to her daily at an appointed time.

7. The slave will create a menstrual kit to be carried when away from home. The kit may include items such as pads, tampons, disposable douches, Wet Wipes, panties, K-Y or Astroglide and food dye (see #8 in Privileges/punishments section), red nail polish, a red ribbon or string, a red marker, Midol or ibuprofen, latex gloves if applicable, spare birth control (hormonal supplements) if applicable, spare hand towel, etc. This can be packed in a small duffel bag, diaper bag, or another bag with compartments. (A red bag would be fun!)

8. The slave will keep his own special "period panties" to be worn during the duration of Mistress's period, out of respect for this special time.

9. The slave will conduct online research into the menstrual cycle, to gain a better understanding of Mistress's health and menstrual experience. (See "Resources" for some URL's to get him started).

10. Sheets and bedding will be cleaned by the slave. If Mistress enjoys blood play during her period, a rubber sheet may be used to keep the mattress from staining during sex and sleep.


sounds pretty good to Me!! -=wonders how many more periods I will have before I stop=- I was looking forward to Menopause... maybe I won't be rushing now...lol Like most things, it is all about what Y/you personally need/want/enjoy taking something and making it work for you... None of those duties involve anything that I see as distaseful (no pun intended, well maybe a little one, lol) in fact I see those as being a really wonderful way to show a deeper level of personal servitude.

-=winks=- Great topic knees! thank you.

Fire Walker

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RE: A site teaching the Sub/slave Menstrual Servitude~ - 6/21/2005 9:32:40 AM   
wetsatin


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I have done this once 'bout 3 yrs. ago,but rather have g/s & golden cocktail!!

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RE: A site teaching the Sub/slave Menstrual Servitude~ - 6/21/2005 1:49:55 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: outlawrider

vinny barbarino in welcome back kotter;
"i'm so confused"

my vanilla side says you have to be out of your mind!

my slave side says, "if it pleases Mistress, i am willing to do anything within reason"

i am split on this one.
and i think...the slave side would win.
outlaw




my
quote:

vinny barbarino in welcome back kotter;
"i'm so confused"

my vanilla side says you have to be out of your mind!

my slave side says, "if it pleases Mistress, i am willing to do anything within reason"

i am split on this one.
and i think...the slave side would win.
outlaw



my gawd another one of my old posts. but it is still true today.
i am still split decision on it.


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RE: A site teaching the Sub/slave Menstrual Servitude~ - 6/25/2005 12:45:36 AM   
MistressEva


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Hep C can be transmitted thru mentrual blood; I would assume HIV as well. Not considered safe.

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RE: A site teaching the Sub/slave Menstrual Servitude~ - 2/25/2006 2:11:59 PM   
skud


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hmm sounds like very intimate, i'd be a sub to try it...(or not?) of course, this is limited to someone very trusted and close to me.

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