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losttreasure -> RE: Service ranking (2/5/2007 7:48:04 PM)
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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent
Gents, I'm curious about what you deem to be good quality service.
In terms of areas of service, how and why do you rank them in order of priorities (e.g. cleaning, cooking, sex etc).
Ahem. I'm obviously neither a gent or a dominant, however...
Several months ago I began a thread with my own musings On Service... . Although that discussion deliberately steered away from the types of service that you appear to mention, I thought I'd offer my views on those here. Besides... FirmHandKY is busy with work right now and hasn't much time to spend in the forums. [;)]
In my service to FirmHandKY, I have a variety of duties and responsibilities... some of which relate to the here and now, and some which will come into play in the future. Although he has never expressed it in so many words, I will be so bold as to say that my primary service to him at all times is the fealty that I describe in the above referenced thread. And my responsibilities revolve around those services that support him, support our relationship, and support myself.
As we've yet to be located close enough to engage in anything resembling what others might view as D/s, my duties right now might seem limited, but I assure you that I take them most seriously. Of course, these aren't "orders" from him but are more understood expectations. I have a responsibility to take care of me, my health and well-being for him; I also have the duty to wisely manage my affairs... to be financially responsible and to take no actions that might endanger or hinder our goals; I continue to remain vigilant in seeking the opportunity to relocate myself to him; and as much as is possible, I am available to him when he needs me or desires me... to share with him, to learn from him, to allow him to learn of me, to comfort him, to keep him company, to make him laugh, to listen to him, or to simply be there.
When I am finally able to relocate to him (hopefully in the next month or two), those duties will remain and many more added. To be of service to him means to provide for him whatever I am able to fulfill his needs and desires... whether those are ensuring a comfortable home, creating sumptuous meals, providing intellectual stimulation, or being of use for his sexual satisfaction, that will be up to him. It is my job to make every effort to be prepared to accommodate him and to give my all in serving him.
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