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MasterFireMaam -> RE: What gives???? (2/7/2007 6:24:06 PM)

Three things:
1) Guys, subs and doms, are visually stimulated. It's your third photo. As beautiful as it is...my guess is that's what's drawing their attention. Take it down and give it a month and see if your responses drop, too. Then you'll know for sure.
2) Keep in mind that magazines like Maxim and whatnot actually tell their readers to find a Dominant woman to get a hot woman in bed.
3) Dominant men don't want their fem subs to do them in the butt because they don't see how that can be, in any way, Domly behavior. So, they find you...using reason #1.

Master Fire



DianeB269 -> RE: What gives???? (2/7/2007 6:31:07 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

Three things:
1) Guys, subs and doms, are visually stimulated. It's your third photo. As beautiful as it is...my guess is that's what's drawing their attention. Take it down and give it a month and see if your responses drop, too. Then you'll know for sure.
2) Keep in mind that magazines like Maxim and whatnot actually tell their readers to find a Dominant woman to get a hot woman in bed.
3) Dominant men don't want their fem subs to do them in the butt because they don't see how that can be, in any way, Domly behavior. So, they find you...using reason #1.

Master Fire



Thanks

You really think it has something to do with that pic?

No dom will ever make bow to them or get me in bed.

Diane



porthuronsub -> RE: What gives???? (2/7/2007 6:31:42 PM)

I think that they feel they can get close to you if they say they want to do it, then if you were to agree to do it with them they would try to turn the tables and dom you.  Just a guess, you are a very attractive woman and I could see someone playing that game to get close to you.



asubmissiveheart -> RE: What gives???? (2/7/2007 6:35:17 PM)

I think Doms are contacting you because they want strap on play.  Plain and simple as that.
It has little to do with the picture, they don't want to ask a submissive woman so they ask a Dominant woman.
If they did not want it, why are they asking for it and asking to be in your video's?
MasterFireMaam? no offense but the Dom's want it in the butt, plain and simple. 



DianeB269 -> RE: What gives???? (2/7/2007 6:39:43 PM)

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ORIGINAL: porthuronsub

I think that they feel they can get close to you if they say they want to do it, then if you were to agree to do it with them they would try to turn the tables and dom you.  Just a guess, you are a very attractive woman and I could see someone playing that game to get close to you.


Thanks

After about 10 emails, one of the doms wanted me to help him train a female slave.
He got very pissed off when I told him no I do not play with doms or couples with
a dom.

Diane



KaramelGoddess -> RE: What gives???? (2/7/2007 6:40:27 PM)

I'd chalk it up to them being HNG's.
 
With kind regard,
~Kara



DianeB269 -> RE: What gives???? (2/7/2007 6:45:52 PM)

I just thought it was funny cuz, I've been getting so many messages from male doms in last month.


Diane



KarbonCopy -> RE: What gives???? (2/7/2007 11:20:50 PM)

as soon as you post a pic of yoruself that shows you in a sexual nature, guys will think you'll jump in bed with any sub.

Because dressing up obviously means that you're easy. *rolls eyes* now you see why i'm so bitter with the whole community.



MstrssScarlet -> RE: What gives???? (2/7/2007 11:54:59 PM)

Helloooo?  Has anyone checked out the link she has posted at the bottom of her complaints?  If you do, you will quickly find out what the problem is.  Not that it explains the Doms wanting it, but I think pretty much all the female dommes on this site run into that at one time or another.
Mistress Scarlet 



joyinslavery -> RE: What gives???? (2/8/2007 1:37:37 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

I'm getting more emails from dominant males then sub males on the
otherside.[sm=confused.gif]

Most are asking if I would be interested in training them with my strapons.


Let me know if you'd like me to assist in evening things out. 

Call me.



steviemichael -> RE: What gives???? (2/8/2007 2:10:43 AM)

I am not sure on this but a strapon is made for mainly woman to use on other woman  since they dont have a cock and since most woman are known to be Mistress i ponder the thought it is possible that a  Mistress does another Mistress 



UtopianRanger -> RE: What gives???? (2/8/2007 3:48:16 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269

I'm getting more emails from dominant males then sub males on the
otherside.[sm=confused.gif]

Most are asking if I would be interested in training them with my strapons.


Hi Diane....


I'd say that if they are writing you with a request to have a piece of plastic shoved up their ass with you controlling it on the other end.....and they want to remain incognito with their ''dominant'' profile, I'd personally reccommend that you charge them each five-hundred bucks a pop just for being balless.



 - R



Lashra -> RE: What gives???? (2/8/2007 4:27:44 AM)

Most Dom males want only their own pleasure while the male sub works for his Mistress pleasure. Its pretty much like a Male Dom/fem sub relationship, only in my relationship I am the one in charge.

~Lashra



sting516 -> RE: What gives???? (2/8/2007 4:30:53 AM)

if i had to guess, i'd say that maybe the sub men see in your profile that you aren't seeking...and are respecting that...but the Dom males, much like gay men who think we're all basically gay, tend to think that the potential to be a partner for them is locked within you, if you'd only let it out.



LadyIce -> RE: What gives???? (2/8/2007 4:35:47 AM)

I am not surprised at all, I get a fair number of emails from male Dom's that want me to play with them also.
I have also had a few that mention strap-on play.



dawntreader -> RE: What gives???? (2/8/2007 4:42:25 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MzTlaz


However.......sometimes the stigma of being called a "switch" makes some label themselves "Dom" to be accepted....then again, needing to be accepted isn't very Domly.  Oh well....it's all a tangled mess.


Is there a "stigma" about being a switch? i wasn't aware... what is it?



subrob1967 -> RE: What gives???? (2/8/2007 4:44:47 AM)

It just might have something to do with the statement in your profile saying you "live for" strap on's.
It might have something to do with most male doms are just looking to get laid, and use bdsm as a means to an end.

What you need to do is ask them http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GdgfqdUfc9k  then tell them to piss off.



Mustardseed -> RE: What gives???? (2/8/2007 4:51:08 AM)

I remain confused about the stigma against men getting prostate stimulation. Isn't that similar to scoffing at a woman for enjoying G-Spot stimulation?  As to dominant men not really being dominant because they know what they like and request it, what sense does that make?  Wouldn't it make them less dominant if they denied themselves the sort of sex they wanted simply for fear of what others would think of them?

I've actually serviced a dominant's ass while playing the submissive role.  Believe me, it's possible.  If I can service a dominant via oral sex and not go all power-mad, I can do so with a strap-on; it comes just shy of service topping.  "Hrm.  My knees hurt ... but I think I'll wait a while until I ask permission to adjust the position.  He seems pretty happy with this."

Now, a dominant man contacting a dominant woman about strap-on play?  That's new to me as well, but then again -- how many women here not only list themselves as experts with strap-ons, but have visual evidence that they know what they're doing?  I suspect the answer is "not many."  It could be worth it to a dominant man to negotiate with a sister dominant as equals.

Short of changing your profile -- either your photos or your references to strap-on play or just deleting your profile altogether -- I'm not sure of what to tell you.  Then again, it doesn't sound like as much of a problem as your original post suggested as much as an amusing puzzle.



DianeB269 -> RE: What gives???? (2/8/2007 5:04:48 PM)

Fast Reply....

I only posted this question cuz, I thought you all would get a kick out of it.
I know posting names here is a NO, NO but, if I could there would be a lot of
pissed off doms.

Thanks for all your replies....

Diane



MzMia -> RE: What gives???? (2/8/2007 6:09:41 PM)

Thanks for posting this Diane, you opened my eyes a lot and confirmed a lot of my feelings.
Believe me even though you did not name names, the smile is on my face. [:D]



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