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ORIGINAL: Noah


And finally, the next time you want to take a potshot at some individual who is having a hard time, I suggest you just put it in an e-mail ... and delete it unsent

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ORIGINAL: twicehappy

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ORIGINAL: spankmepink11

After reading both mrs merc and twice happy's posts, i'm wondering if whether living with their Dominant/Master makes the occurence of sub drop less likely?

I think perhaps it has more to do (like i said in my previous post) with a sense of security in both the relationship and yourself. And after reading a few of the posts here i am inclined to stick with my original opinion.

Whether or not this is more likely to be the case with a live in situation i do not know, but it might. But if so it is only on the basis that living with one's owner may make one feel more secure.

I know of couples who live together who are very insecure in their relationship as well as couples who do not live together who are extremely secure in theirs.

you may be onto something here. before we lived together, i had experienced a low-ish attitude after scenes. Now we live together and i experience the "high" as well, but thats only after about 15 mins of staring off into space with a BLANK mind [the best part!!!]