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chainedfarida -> RE: WHAT BINDS YOU THE MOST?We all know that subs/slaves have a driving force within them (2/11/2007 8:16:57 AM)

what bound me to my Master was my love, not a collar or band or ring, but my unconditional love for him. i was chained by my heart

oneday again

far




sleazybutterfly -> RE: WHAT BINDS YOU THE MOST?We all know that subs/slaves have a driving force within them (2/11/2007 9:02:41 AM)

I was chained by my love for him... his caring, his kindness, and all of the many things he brings into my life.  I do wear his collar, and we did the whole contract thing, but he captured my heart without all of the fluff attached.  That will be there if the contract is burned and the collar breaks.




slaveheart1951 -> RE: WHAT BINDS YOU THE MOST?We all know that subs/slaves have a driving force within them (2/11/2007 9:10:09 AM)

Neither a collar or contract bind me, there are merely symbols.  A Master & His submissive are bound well before a collar is placed upon her neck and well before they pen a legal contract.




DiurnalVampire -> RE: WHAT BINDS YOU THE MOST?We all know that subs/slaves have a driving force within them (2/11/2007 9:13:42 AM)

My boy has been bound to me well before he got his collar. He is bound by his need to be accepted by me, his love for me and his addiction to my attention.
When I first got him, he left becasue he wasnt sure he could be part of the lifestyle at all. He came back shortly afterwards, saying that life with me is a scary concept, giving everything up. However, living without me was even scarier.

DV




completenz -> RE: WHAT BINDS YOU THE MOST?We all know that subs/slaves have a driving force within them (2/11/2007 9:58:43 AM)

the love we feel for each other.
C & c




valeca -> RE: WHAT BINDS YOU THE MOST?We all know that subs/slaves have a driving force within them (2/11/2007 10:01:20 AM)

What binds me the most?

Me.

I am responsible for my commitment to Him; to serve Him.

I am responsible for the way I respond to Him.  He may illicit those responses, but I am responsible for them, good and bad. 

I don't take those responsibilities lightly.  That is my bond.

That I think He's Da Bomb helps, too.  Heh. 









agirl -> RE: WHAT BINDS YOU THE MOST?We all know that subs/slaves have a driving force within them (2/11/2007 11:17:21 AM)

I'm bound by respect.

That's what led me here and that's what everything I have and feel hinges on.

I haven't a *driving force to serve*.

agirl












MaryT -> RE: WHAT BINDS YOU THE MOST?We all know that subs/slaves have a driving force within them (2/11/2007 1:38:52 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressSophia

What binds you to me? your collar or a contract?


Neither.




viperess -> RE: WHAT BINDS YOU THE MOST?We all know that subs/slaves have a driving force within them (2/11/2007 3:03:03 PM)

Greetings,

Part of what binds me is the desire i feel to do so, that and the fire He causes to burn inside me at all times. As for a collar or contract...those can be tarnished or burned as they are only outside things but the collar He has placed around my heart, mind, body and soul keep me bound to Him in ways nothing else could.

viperess slave of CTDOM4sub




Areflectionofyou -> RE: WHAT BINDS YOU THE MOST?We all know that subs/slaves have a driving force within them (2/12/2007 3:00:12 AM)

Im not collared as of yet...My love for him binds my heart to him. I truelly ache to serve him. A collar would be great...but it is just a object...im allready owned he has captured my deepest essence.




sweetnurseBBW -> RE: WHAT BINDS YOU THE MOST?We all know that subs/slaves have a driving force within them (2/12/2007 6:56:45 AM)

The collar he gave me is just a symbol of our comittiment to each other.  The mutual love , devotion and respect we have for each other binds me to him. The way I want to constantly feel his presence binds me to him.  He is the first thing I think about when I awake and the last thing I think about before I sleep.




Celeste43 -> RE: WHAT BINDS YOU THE MOST?We all know that subs/slaves have a driving force within them (2/12/2007 7:17:22 AM)

The love and trust between us is what binds us together. It's a power exchange, not a one way street. Contracts aren't worth the paper they're written on and a collar is just a fashion accessory. The truth for us lies in our hearts and our commitment to each other.




LVpet -> RE: WHAT BINDS YOU THE MOST?We all know that subs/slaves have a driving force within them (2/12/2007 9:06:37 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressSophia

What binds you to me? your collar or a contract?


I am not collared, nor do I have a contract.  The original, and most powerful, bind to Him is my mind.  That still holds true after over a year. 




newlife69 -> RE: WHAT BINDS YOU THE MOST?We all know that subs/slaves have a driving force within them (3/9/2007 5:01:11 AM)

I'd say that love and trust is the strongest binding force. When communication breaks down and love for each other doesn't get expressed, then the desire to want to serve becomes weaker.




boobacuda -> RE: WHAT BINDS YOU THE MOST?We all know that subs/slaves have a driving force within them (3/9/2007 8:44:27 AM)

I met Sir six years ago and knew from the moment I met Him He would change my life.  During all of our ups and downs and in and out of friendships W/we grew closer and He meant more to me everytime it ended than when it began.  Today W/we are trying to take this relationship to a new level and in that I have found that He is the one for me, the one I want to serve and the only one I will ever want to serve.  It fulfils me daily to see His smile and to hear His voice.  I want nothing more than to see Him happy.  I couldn't imagine my life without Him in it, I don't want to imagine it with out Him in it.




lonlyrossInNeed -> RE: WHAT BINDS YOU THE MOST?We all know that subs/slaves have a driving force within them (3/9/2007 10:07:08 AM)

I am not owned collared yet
but i know what will bind me to my Owner is
the fack that i will love and cherish my Owner if i cant love My owner then i cant cherish My Owner so i know Love Cherish and devotion .

ross.g




littleone35 -> RE: WHAT BINDS YOU THE MOST?We all know that subs/slaves have a driving force within them (3/9/2007 10:26:52 AM)

I do have a collar and a contract but that is not what binds me to Master.  Are theyimportant to me? Yes.

What binds me to Master though is my deep abiding love and devotion to him.  The collar he put around my heart and mind is much strong they anything he could put around my neck.

Matt's littleone




babyboyk -> RE: WHAT BINDS YOU THE MOST?We all know that subs/slaves have a driving force within them (3/9/2007 10:49:36 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressSophia

We all know that subs/slaves have a driving force within them,to server, to have that power exchange. So if the question was posed by their Mistress/Master. What binds you to me? your collar or a contract? love and devotion. but those are not the quesation. Lets hear from males as well as female slaves.
This should be interesting.


this is actually a hard question to answer. i do wear a collar when i a, in Mistresses pressence, but its much more than that. i know when, and how to to keep my Mistress happy, but on the same token, i am reassured that i will be protected by Her, this happens in real life, and Mistress keeps a close eye on mewhen i am not in seesion with Her, so i am closely bound to Mistress in everything i do, and i keep nothing from Her




raevnn -> RE: WHAT BINDS YOU THE MOST?We all know that subs/slaves have a driving force within them (3/9/2007 3:52:06 PM)

I was already his possession before he placed a collar on me.

What binds me to him, is 'him'. He owns me, completely. He is and has been breaking me free of the liberties I once took for granted and freeing me of control. I have none. I own nothing. Anything I wear, belongs to him. Anything I eat, belongs to him. Every function I perform, including going to the nine to five job, belongs to him. Every minute of my life, belongs to him. I have no doubt of this and need no physical reminders of it. It's been well enforced and I'm so utterly happy and peaceful to be so honestly bound this way; mind and body and spirit.

For instance: when I was collared in the past and 'belonged' to someone, I did what I thought I was supposed to do to be submissive. My 'owners' accepted it because they didn't really want the responsibility of actually owning anyone. I didn't give up anything and my life never changed much. I was sort of theirs behind closed doors.

Now, I no longer have to pretend. I move and live and dress and eat and work and sleep and love as my owner wishes. I am safe and loved and controlled.




nissa -> RE: WHAT BINDS YOU THE MOST?We all know that subs/slaves have a driving force within them (3/10/2007 4:30:10 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressSophia

We all know that subs/slaves have a driving force within them,to server, to have that power exchange. So if the question was posed by their Mistress/Master. What binds you to me? your collar or a contract? love and devotion. but those are not the quesation. Lets hear from males as well as female slaves.
This should be interesting.

Contracts and collars mean very little to me. For myself, they are nothing more than extras that come from a successful relationship ( and sometimes not so successful ). What would bind me to the person who I surrendered to would be my absolute devotion and love for that person. Nothing else would or could ever be as strong.




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