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nothing -> sex with a personal slave and/or sex slaves (3/11/2005 12:35:13 AM)
This is something i'd like to get the opinions of the Dommes here -- i'd like to ask what their views are on having sex with a personal slave, Is such an act putting the slave on an "equal" footing with You? What are Your feelings on having a sex slave -- how are they treated differently? respectfully, nothing

LadyAngelika -> RE: sex with a personal slave and/or sex slaves (3/11/2005 4:25:51 AM)
I personally don't see having sex with a submissive as putting them on equal footing. Domination is in the dynamics and not about actions. You might be interested in the thread entitled Dommes & penetration - LA

Sundew02 -> RE: sex with a personal slave and/or sex slaves (3/11/2005 10:44:56 AM)
nothing, This question has been asked in a hundred different ways. Each has their own view as to what d/s entails, what the mind set is in using a slave/submissive in what some consider a vanilla activity. All I can say is why have a male/female any type of relationship and not access every part of that dynamic? Myself I see no use in partial use of any male or female that submits to be owned. That means, for me, limited use is a waste of time. I hunt a sub/slave for total use, not just to spend my energy on watching them twist with ectasy and/or pain, but having them care for me and my house. Smile, all purpose submissive. Would you buy a car, but not use the radio because you bought it for transportation not for entertainment? Stay safe, Sundew

SweetDommes -> RE: sex with a personal slave and/or sex slaves (3/11/2005 11:12:40 AM)
We have sex with our boys - it's something that I enjoy, so why in the hell would I deny myself? Of course, there is also the fact that we don't have slaves, we have pets ... And we do see them as our equals - but that is another topic entirely, and I've already posted on it LOL

mantis65 -> RE: sex with a personal slave and/or sex slaves (3/11/2005 11:20:11 AM)
If she wants to use the sub/slave for sex I don’t see it as equal footing. I don’t think personally penetration is an act of violence either as some subs see it. She could herniate a disc in her spine penetrating a sub with a strap-on also. That’s violent and painful. The sub has to remember they are not in control of the sex act it’s all directed by her. If you are scared of hurting her remember it’s like in the circus the relationship with the Ring Mistress and her tigers. The tigers are large beasts capable of violence on an unspeakable scale but they obey one woman with a whip. (well in most cases the Siegfried & Roy incident sort of makes this a bad example in some ways lol) If the Domme herself doesn’t want penetrative sex that another story ..but sex isn’t going to make you her equal. mantis

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: sex with a personal slave and/or sex slaves (3/11/2005 1:43:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: nothing Is such an act putting the slave on an "equal" footing with You? What are Your feelings on having a sex slave - My feeling is that I get to use my slave however I see fit, and if he is saying "I shall only be used as A/B/C", than he ought to reconsider his label. Truth is that a lot of Dominas don't use their slaves for sex, so if you're not interested in sex, find one who thinks that way. M

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