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DiurnalVampire -> RE: New here and finding it frustrating (2/17/2007 8:24:14 AM)
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I am not new here and I run across the same problem. One thing you do have to realize is that the majority of female subs really DO get as much mail as they complain about. They are inundated by incoming mail, some useful mostly not, and they do have to pick and choose what they respond to and what they dont bother with. A one line email in response to your first contact might not be so bad. Try leading a few questions in a second mail, and see if you get a more useful response.
Sometimes, a first email response, a one liner or more, is just a fishing trip to see if you are actualy interested in communication or if you were sending to them as one of a mass of outgoing emails. If you get a response, take it from there, and they shold warm up in later emails. If not, then thats when you know they arent goingto be worth the effort.
Good luck, and be patient. It takes a long while to find someone good, but it is definately worth it in the end.
DV
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