LadyShoshin -> RE: Safe word - With a ball gag?? (3/12/2005 2:06:02 PM)
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ORIGINAL: socalguy91387 This sounds weird I know but as newbies, my partner and I are wondering: How does someone use a safe word if she (or he) has a ball gag in place??? M Rather than a ball, which can be missed in a noisy venue, I prefer a handfull of chain or a hand sized bell that will be heard if dropped. I have also asked bottoms on a bench to raise their right hand for yellow and left for red, I tend to focus on body language, so a well raised hand will definately get my attention. As far as dropping it in space, it is my own personal experience that I command my hand to hold the chains tightly no matter what. I go deeply into space, becoming limp, but will not let go of the chain.
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