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nephandi -> RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's (2/13/2007 7:33:37 PM)
i have seen a few Mommy Dominants at the site. Now what type are you looking for, there are many Dominants, both male and female that take the nurturer approtch to being a Dom, they being like a caretaker or second parent for the sub, and it is not nessesary any age play involved. This is not so unusual among female Dominants, they i dont thinkt he term Mommy Dom is so common. But for both sexses relationships where the D/s takes the form of Parent/child (and i do not mean age play here, more conseptual child) instead of Master/slave and so on is not uncommon at all. The second type i have seen are those into age play, where the sub pretend to be a young child, i dont know of common this fetish is as i have no intrest in in personaly and therefore have read very little aboute it. But read around a bit, ery few Dominats realy put on a label, i am Dom class so and so, you ahve to get to know them before you learnwhat they are into.

findmedaddy -> RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's (2/13/2007 7:36:49 PM)
VM-- I can't tell if your question is academic or if you are looking for this kind of relationship. If the former, I haven't seen threads about Mommy Doms here and don't knwo exactly where to find any. If the latter, there is a site called Guardian Island that includes places where adult little girls and boys can look for daddies and mommies. Not all are adult babies, and not all of the site involves platonic-only relationships. The mods there do a good job of providing places for people to be, whatever their orientation within this genre. Some act like babies or small children, others are clearly behaving as adults looking for nurture for inner children, others are looking for more frankly sexual interaction with daddy or mommy figures. Hope this helps.

VeryMercurial -> RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's (2/13/2007 7:42:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: findmedaddy VM-- I can't tell if your question is academic or if you are looking for this kind of relationship. If the former, I haven't seen threads about Mommy Doms here and don't knwo exactly where to find any. If the latter, there is a site called Guardian Island that includes places where adult little girls and boys can look for daddies and mommies. Not all are adult babies, and not all of the site involves platonic-only relationships. The mods there do a good job of providing places for people to be, whatever their orientation within this genre. Some act like babies or small children, others are clearly behaving as adults looking for nurture for inner children, others are looking for more frankly sexual interaction with daddy or mommy figures. Hope this helps. This question is out of total curiosity. I posted the question to this community because there are people here with a variety of knowledge and experiences. It is really a question. I am a Female Dominant and I read thread after thread about Daddy Dom's and I have yet to see threads on Mommy Dom's. So I just wonder if they exist, it is obvious they are not as popular as the Daddy Doms. I don't think there is a Mommy Dom community. Thank you, your post is helpful.

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's (2/13/2007 7:49:24 PM)
You might be right, there isnt a Mommy Domme community. That doesnt mean there cant be individuals who are. I personaly dont care to belong necessarily to a Comunity of Mommy Dommes. Feels a bit to alternative PTAish for me. If you have any specific questions, your more than welcome to ask me in private. DV

VeryMercurial -> RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's (2/13/2007 7:54:17 PM)
Thank you DV, the Mommy Domina's and the Daddy Doms could have meetings to discuss the children.

michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's (2/13/2007 8:41:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsSarahMaam Dommes who enjoy the amount of work involved in having an AB are rare. If you are looking for one, you have a better chance joining a group that is specific to the AB lifestyle rather than one that is more general-BDSM based. of course, not all subs seeking such a Dom(me) are into the AB thing...some prefer ageplaying to be a bit older than that.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's (2/13/2007 8:50:51 PM)
Thanks :) While I have motherly tendencies, I don't identify with it enough to consider myself a "mommy dom"

FukinTroll -> RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's (2/13/2007 8:51:45 PM)
Hmmm.... got milk?

kc692 -> RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's (2/13/2007 8:58:49 PM)
lol, there is that phrase again!!!!

DominaSmartass -> RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's (2/13/2007 9:57:42 PM)
Some will find it odd, but I identify as "Daddy" (within a certain relationship) as well as maintaining my female identity. I have a masculine and parental energy with my partner, whose energy is more feminine and childlike. Mommy doesn't do it for me, doesn't reflect what I feel, while Daddy does. But it's similar in a way.

twicehappy -> RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's (2/14/2007 5:21:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VeryMercurial Where are the Mommy Dom's? Perhaps the are so few because the majority of women who have raised clones, much as they love them, never ever want to do that again. I for one was very glad when the diapers, breast feeding and crying was over and cannot imagine voluntarily doing that for all the tea in China.

MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's (2/14/2007 5:33:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: twicehappy quote: ORIGINAL: VeryMercurial Where are the Mommy Dom's? Perhaps the are so few because the majority of women who have raised clones, much as they love them, never ever want to do that again. I for one was very glad when the diapers, breast feeding and crying was over and cannot imagine voluntarily doing that for all the tea in China. LOL Heck, I didn't even have to go through that the first time to know I didn't want to voluntarily do it again.

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's (2/14/2007 5:36:39 AM)
Then again some of us have a very private Motherly relationship with our little ones. I would never want to get together with a group of other Parental types and discuss my sub. It doesnt seem to hold ay interest for me to pretend to be a parent. Theres a difference between being Angel's Mommy, and being a parent. My obligations stop with him. I am not involed in outside things for him, it is just how he and I interact. I have had similiar interactions with other subs/slaves, but I would not necessarily want to have a group of Mommys and Daddys all together, letting the littles play while we met over coffee or whatnot. A munch maybe, but not something as restricted as Age Play partners only. Just my take on it. DV

VeryMercurial -> RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's (2/14/2007 7:03:42 AM)
The responses have been interesting to read. When did being a Mummy Domme automatically mean the male submissive is an adult baby. I never assumed that Daddy Doms are changing diapers. Are the female submissives that serve Daddy Doms wearing diapers? My opinion on this subject has not changed. Daddy Doms can have female submissives, but if a woman is a MummyDomme then many people assume that she is taking care of an adult baby. A MummyDomina can treat the submissive in a childlike manner, but people wrongly often assume that it involves infantilism or crossdressing. But this is not automatically assumed with Male Doms. Interesting.

VeryMercurial -> RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's (2/14/2007 7:04:52 AM)
Thank you for the link Caitriona, very interesting thread.

dawntreader -> RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's (2/14/2007 7:28:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kc692 lol, there is that phrase again!!!! LMAO!!! It will be a while before I can see this phrase and NOT think about polyamorous suckling a lesbian tit to prolong his life!

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's (2/14/2007 7:49:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: twicehappy Perhaps the are so few because the majority of women who have raised clones, much as they love them, never ever want to do that again. Hmm very good point. Was watching this weeks Wife Swap last night and one of the families was very "traditional" in that the wife stayed at home and did the care giving while the husband went to work and provided the income. Funny how it was the father who kept pushing for more children- when they don't bear the brunt of most of the responsibilities.

asubmissiveheart -> RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's (2/14/2007 8:33:29 AM)
Most submissive men are not looking for a MommyDom. It seems to be the females that have a need and desire for this type of authority figure.

MsKatHouston -> RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's (2/14/2007 8:39:38 AM)
I was in that type of relationship for awhile and while it was fun for that particular person, it was not what I ultimately wanted. I do know a few mommy doms here, though so while it is not quite as common as the daddy dom dynamic, it does exist.

hereyesruponyou -> RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's (2/14/2007 9:03:38 AM)
This has me wondering if someof this is a matter of phrasing. I never thought of myself as a MommyDom even though I am looking for a nurturing relationship. I have described my desired relationhip more as having a cherished pet. Maybe that is because of the duties traditionally assigned to the real mommies out here. I know my role with my daughter is much different than that with my animals even though i give them all as much as i can and treat them all well (spoiled but not rotten). I think that after raising one child my biggest comment when meeting anyone bdsm/vanilla/whatever is that i don't want/need another child, especially an adult one with or without age play. I have been approached by sub males who specifically want a Mother figure without age play. They have generally wanted a stern disciplinarian with lots of OTK spankings. Does nothing for me, so i have respectfully declined while wishing them well.

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