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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 2/14/2007 9:11:26 AM   
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When did being a Mummy Domme automatically mean the male submissive is an adult baby.  I never assumed that Daddy Doms are changing diapers.  Are the female submissives that serve Daddy Doms wearing diapers? 


The majority of those i've run across seeking mommy dommes seem to have desired the infantilism aspect, but for those that are not i'll rephrase.
 
Having raised my clones i have no desire to experience with them the terrible twos, playing GI Joe, or puberty again.
 
As to the female subbies with Daddy Doms wearing diapers, it would depend on what area of age play they engaged in.
 
LA i think you have a point, women are still usually the parent most involved with raising the clones while the men are not. This may have something to do with a higher number of Daddy versus Mommy style dominants.

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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 2/14/2007 9:17:29 AM   
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Many of My clients request this type of session, all male, and as I have never had to raise My own 'clones', it is not something I have a problem with providing.  It is ALWAYS in a non-sexual context.

In My lifestyle activities, I regularly play with one submissive girl who needs diaper play, and I indulge her, though I don't seek it out Myself.  I like the Mommy/daughter dynamic I have going on with My 24/7 girl though, it is exactly the type that can be seen in many of the Daddy dom relationships.  This is not by design of course, simply how we have always related to each other.  She is younger than I am, and I first met her through an adult education programme as her teacher.  Needless to say, nothing happened between U/us until the formal teacher/student relationship had ended.

I guess that makes Me the kind of 'Mommy Domme' that the OP seems to be seeking, though I have never referred to Myself as such.

So, OP, what do you want?!

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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 2/14/2007 12:26:17 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyMaeve

Many of My clients request this type of session, all male, and as I have never had to raise My own 'clones', it is not something I have a problem with providing.  It is ALWAYS in a non-sexual context.

In My lifestyle activities, I regularly play with one submissive girl who needs diaper play, and I indulge her, though I don't seek it out Myself.  I like the Mommy/daughter dynamic I have going on with My 24/7 girl though, it is exactly the type that can be seen in many of the Daddy dom relationships.  This is not by design of course, simply how we have always related to each other.  She is younger than I am, and I first met her through an adult education programme as her teacher.  Needless to say, nothing happened between U/us until the formal teacher/student relationship had ended.

I guess that makes Me the kind of 'Mommy Domme' that the OP seems to be seeking, though I have never referred to Myself as such.

So, OP, what do you want?!


Thank you so much Lady Maeve.

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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 2/14/2007 12:27:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: twicehappy

quote:

ORIGINAL: VeryMercurial

When did being a Mummy Domme automatically mean the male submissive is an adult baby.  I never assumed that Daddy Doms are changing diapers.  Are the female submissives that serve Daddy Doms wearing diapers? 


The majority of those i've run across seeking mommy dommes seem to have desired the infantilism aspect, but for those that are not i'll rephrase.
 
Having raised my clones i have no desire to experience with them the terrible twos, playing GI Joe, or puberty again.
 
As to the female subbies with Daddy Doms wearing diapers, it would depend on what area of age play they engaged in.
 
LA i think you have a point, women are still usually the parent most involved with raising the clones while the men are not. This may have something to do with a higher number of Daddy versus Mommy style dominants.


I agree I think a lot of this has to do with not growing up with a daddy around, and very few of us grow up
with no mother around.
I think if the tables were turned and we were all raised by men, we would seek a MommyDomme.

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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 2/14/2007 12:31:10 PM   
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Threshold in Los Angeles has some Mommy Dommes.
LADS meets there, (LA Dommes and Subs) along with
a gay men's group and the regular members of Threshold.
 
http://www.threshold.org

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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 2/14/2007 1:12:20 PM   
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saw a commercial on the LOGO channel, an admittedly "out-of-the-closet" channel promoting a show with gay and lesbian comedians.  one of the jokes made by one of the male comedians was "What a coincidence, my father and my first boyfriend had the same name---Daddy!" and everyone laughed in amused acceptance.
 
perhaps, in terms of the imbalance of social acceptance of sexuality strictly relating to GENDER, it makes perfect sense--in that our "society" at large has more's that aren't interchangeable with regards to gender:  two girls kissing arent necessarily lesbian, they are just girls kissing for the attention of guys, but two guys kissing would be considered homosexual by the same crowd.**
 
**source:  unofficial sampling of college-age individuals, not identifying with WIITWD

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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 2/14/2007 1:17:48 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

saw a commercial on the LOGO channel, an admittedly "out-of-the-closet" channel promoting a show with gay and lesbian comedians.  one of the jokes made by one of the male comedians was "What a coincidence, my father and my first boyfriend had the same name---Daddy!" and everyone laughed in amused acceptance.
 
perhaps, in terms of the imbalance of social acceptance of sexuality strictly relating to GENDER, it makes perfect sense--in that our "society" at large has more's that aren't interchangeable with regards to gender:  two girls kissing arent necessarily lesbian, they are just girls kissing for the attention of guys, but two guys kissing would be considered homosexual by the same crowd.**
 
**source:  unofficial sampling of college-age individuals, not identifying with WIITWD


That's funny, do you think the crowd would have laughed if they had used the name---Mommy?
Maybe so

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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 2/14/2007 2:51:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: VeryMercurial

I just wanted to ask where the Mommy Dom's are?
Are there any around? Or is this just some Male Dom/female submissive thing?
I don't know of any women that want to be called "Mommy" by their submissive.
It is just a bit weird to me.
Not meaning to offend, just trying to understand why it is only female submissives and gay males
that are seeking Daddy's.


While my two past relationships were with younger women and one even occasionally called me mere (mother), there was not any age play involved and the very idea of diapers on an adult just makes me say "hell no!". I would say it has a certain element of that mothering nurturing dynamic for me.

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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 2/14/2007 4:31:11 PM   
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I had one potential submissive call my mommy one time.  I told him I was uncomfortable and not to call me that.
I do not want anyone other than children, calling my mommy.  I would also be uncomfortable calling a Dom male daddy.
I have parents and I am not calling anyone else, mommy or daddy.

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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 2/14/2007 6:02:05 PM   
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yeah, i find it really interesting that the first association that came to so many folk's minds when presended with "Mommy domme" was AB stuff. I don't associate Daddy/boy or Daddy/girl relationships with AB at all, or at least it's far from the first thing i think of, so why is that the only thing that comes to mind with Mommy/girl or Mommy/boy?

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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 2/14/2007 6:54:12 PM   
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Male subs seeking the loving nurturing type of fem dom do exist, but may not be vociferous about it for fear of being seen as even weaker than the average male sub; so for that reason, I imagine it's not something they want to be out here volunteering.
There is a distinction in mommy doms in that most of us nurturing types are not into baby/diaper play situations, so that in order to talk about this kink, one has to be specific about what one actually wishes to practice with one's boy.   M

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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 2/15/2007 7:24:25 AM   
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Many male subs are not seeking a Mommy Domme.  It seems that most males seeking this kind of Domme would
be adult babies.

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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 2/15/2007 10:49:53 AM   
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i could be a mommy domme but i would not do a babby sub as in a nappy and babygrow i could mother someone but i would find the whole dressin as a baby distastefull

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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 2/15/2007 11:08:01 AM   
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Again, as it has been said throughout this thread.  Why do people assume a Mommy Domme is for adult babies?
Are Daddy Dom's for adult babies?
I don't understand why being a Mommy Domme means you have an infantilism fetish.

I admit I don't fully understand the Daddy Dom thing, but I don't associate that with infantilism.

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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 2/15/2007 12:13:35 PM   
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all i actually sadi was it is not appealing to me not that that was all about i just said i did not find it appealing i could be a mommy domme as im a switch i have a daddy dom and i do not dress in nappies or baby grows

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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 2/15/2007 12:17:58 PM   
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I wonder that too. Maybe it is because the female has long been seen as the nurturer/mother?

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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 2/15/2007 12:35:31 PM   
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I think so jenny, I certainly think so.  Can anyone tell me what nappies are?

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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 2/15/2007 12:36:14 PM   
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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 2/15/2007 12:47:29 PM   
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LMGDAO

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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 2/15/2007 10:22:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: VeryMercurial

The responses have been interesting to read.  When did being a Mummy Domme automatically mean the male submissive is an adult baby.  I never assumed that Daddy Doms are changing diapers.  Are the female submissives that serve Daddy Doms wearing diapers? 
My opinion on this subject has not changed.  Daddy Doms can have female submissives, but if a woman is a MummyDomme then many people assume that she is taking care of an adult baby.
A MummyDomina can treat the submissive in a childlike manner, but people wrongly often assume that it involves infantilism or crossdressing.  But this is not automatically assumed with Male Doms.
Interesting.


It's been my experience that guys into Mommy fantasies are not necessarily always into the adult baby fantasy nor do they always have a fetish for diapers.  

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