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baddestca -> liers and fakes think for a sec (5/16/2004 1:29:50 PM)
Recientley i met a person on here and have become close with them and they matter to me greately at this time . I d onot wish to loose them from my life and wil do all i can to preserve that simple fact ok . They as have many looked for a thing and found something else far greater in their life. They ahd as do many by ommission or dodging left this vacent and emptty holes that caused great stress for me in the not knowing and them in the not wishing to cause other grief . I wonder how many of those here have said enough of the shit im out of here and not had the generousity to find the truth . my first day here was their first reply to me andit has been several mounths now . They are for me a gift from the gods and that is a fact . because of the fact i used patiance and understanding and all the other things a human being should have instead of running at the first challange to my self i hve in my life a person who matters . I read a post about the pool and types of people . I have been bitched at and gripe about it and the fact otehs are rude and should not be cause it is as easy to say go away or not relpy as to say FUCK OFF orthe equivelant After all i ahev readhere and been throught like many before and after me the bigest thing i have noticed here is intolerance of others for any flaw they can find . Genera lalck of knowlage to the simplest of BDSM lifestyle terms other then those starting with letters . The lack of understanding by many that 24/7/365 is not based in real time as much but instead in a comittment to each other and that relates to the cuffes and collar aspect to it there are several here i have heard from who are real in what they claime ther are many i have foundto be fakes looking to serve their own aganda . I am courious though abot the lack of tollerance and understanding from many into the situations of others and their fears . Let me say one thing this lifestyle is about carein understand ing and acceptance of others . I was pointed out to me who could anyone expect another to trust one who could not speel correctley now can anyone trust and this is my question a person who does not have the desire in this lifestyle for those that wish to serve it unconmditionaly reguardles of age race or physical charestice . This lifestyle is about master and slave and make no mistake of it you can add what you wish to it but it does not make it any dfferant The slave is to serve and the master to teach and guide those are the only requirements to it nothing else just that . One is born either slave or master it is genetic simple fact Now there is no tolerance of differance and all seek specific things build hight weight hair and the rest all of which do not make a master or a slave it is a dating service and as such there atre many who are wishing this life style being chased away in a hale of bullshit scared to sa ythe truth for fear of ridicule on that and nothing to do with the lifestye l Bottom line this person and i are a lot closer cause the ywere able to see based on my past that i did notr care about other things but their desire to serve THe ability for those to be predijuce is their right t opick and choose for their life and desires . It is not their right to do so in rude negative hatefull treatment based on their own personal ghoices . theat is not exerciseing ones right to choose it is discrimination and hate nothing more choice is choice and whne it isused to hurt another it is not choice . Choice is to walk away

inyouagain -> RE: liers and fakes think for a sec (5/16/2004 5:55:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: baddestca Recientley i met a person on here and have become close with them and they matter to me greately at this time . I d onot wish to loose them from my life and wil do all i can to preserve that simple fact ok . ... (snipped) ... my first day here was their first reply to me andit has been several mounths now . They are for me a gift from the gods and that is a fact . because of the fact i used patiance and understanding and all the other things a human being should have instead of running at the first challange to my self i hve in my life a person who matters . ... (snipped) ... Perhaps I'm confused? Is the god's gift woman you mentioned meeting and corresponding with since your first day here actually a sub or slave? In the other thread, you stated you've received 75 rude replys here since you joined, telling you "Ewwww your too old", and even showed the board your message you send out to prospective slaves. In this thread, you state you met someone your first day here, and that she is a gift from god, and you have formed a special relationship with her over these past several months, because you used patience and understanding with her. It certainly makes it appear like you've been doing several things at once... building a god's gift special relationship with understanding and patience... and at the same time soliciting others (apparently patiently, with having recieved 75 rude replys). How is the god's gift relationship so special? She better be poly is all I can say, or has the topic of your at least 75 simultaneous seeking of others since meeting her been brought up with her yet? This aspect would fall under the understanding category, and not the patience category, correct? How many slaves do you want? You have spent much time here complaining about the virtues of people here at collarme, putting them down (80% of us anyway). In the same token now you say you have had a bird in hand, but apparently still enjoy playing the field, and don't like the results? I thought this whole thing was about English being your 2nd, 3rd, or 4th language and a broken $10 keyboard you have not replaced yet. At this juncture, it would seem to be a lot more complicated than you've cared to express. Does the god's gift woman you met the first day here (several months ago) know of your frustrations and the 75 rude responses you received since meeting her? I don't think you mass mailed off 75+ messages your first day here, so you've got lots of irons in the fire apparently? My recommendation after seeing this thread would be to appreciate what you have found and apparently built with the god's gift woman you spoke of in this thread... and forget about the rudeness of non-god's gift women you apparently keep writing to. If you come back now and say this god's gift woman is just a friend... another aspect that was overlooked by board readers, I'd have to surmise that you are playing with the message board's membership. If this woman is a god's gift, why then the at least 75 other continued solicitations after meeting her? As I said, perhaps I'm confused and it makes perfectly good sense to anyone else. Inyouagain

baddestca -> RE: liers and fakes think for a sec (5/16/2004 7:24:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: inyouagain quote: ORIGINAL: baddestca Recientley i met a person on here and have become close with them and they matter to me greately at this time . I d onot wish to loose them from my life and wil do all i can to preserve that simple fact ok . ... (snipped) ... my first day here was their first reply to me andit has been several mounths now . They are for me a gift from the gods and that is a fact . because of the fact i used patiance and understanding and all the other things a human being should have instead of running at the first challange to my self i hve in my life a person who matters . ... (snipped) ... Perhaps I'm confused? Is the god's gift woman you mentioned meeting and corresponding with since your first day here actually a sub or slave? In the other thread, you stated you've received 75 rude replys here since you joined, telling you "Ewwww your too old", and even showed the board your message you send out to prospective slaves. In this thread, you state you met someone your first day here, and that she is a gift from god, and you have formed a special relationship with her over these past several months, because you used patience and understanding with her. It certainly makes it appear like you've been doing several things at once... building a god's gift special relationship with understanding and patience... and at the same time soliciting others (apparently patiently, with having recieved 75 rude replys). How is the god's gift relationship so special? She better be poly is all I can say, or has the topic of your at least 75 simultaneous seeking of others since meeting her been brought up with her yet? This aspect would fall under the understanding category, and not the patience category, correct? How many slaves do you want? You have spent much time here complaining about the virtues of people here at collarme, putting them down (80% of us anyway). In the same token now you say you have had a bird in hand, but apparently still enjoy playing the field, and don't like the results? I thought this whole thing was about English being your 2nd, 3rd, or 4th language and a broken $10 keyboard you have not replaced yet. At this juncture, it would seem to be a lot more complicated than you've cared to express. Does the god's gift woman you met the first day here (several months ago) know of your frustrations and the 75 rude responses you received since meeting her? I don't think you mass mailed off 75+ messages your first day here, so you've got lots of irons in the fire apparently? My recommendation after seeing this thread would be to appreciate what you have found and apparently built with the god's gift woman you spoke of in this thread... and forget about the rudeness of non-god's gift women you apparently keep writing to. If you come back now and say this god's gift woman is just a friend... another aspect that was overlooked by board readers, I'd have to surmise that you are playing with the message board's membership. If this woman is a god's gift, why then the at least 75 other continued solicitations after meeting her? As I said, perhaps I'm confused and it makes perfectly good sense to anyone else. Inyouagain boviousley not all replies occured at the same time although many were sent out at that time malke sence and some of the replies were based on profile so i should dleete that as well so all will now ther is no longer a search going on

Estring -> RE: liers and fakes think for a sec (5/16/2004 10:16:04 PM)
Something good happened on this thread, but I'm damned if I know what it is. Congrats baddest ( I think ). [:D]

Sinergy -> RE: liers and fakes think for a sec (5/16/2004 10:39:33 PM)
quote: One is born either slave or master it is genetic simple fact Now there is no tolerance of differance These two statements contradict each other. Some are X and become Y, some are Y and become X, some are both X and Y, but the first statement shows a level of intolerance for differences in people. I personally think people's sexuality exists on a broad spectrum, rather than a black/white dichotomy. Sinergy

poeticsurrender -> RE: liers and fakes think for a sec (5/16/2004 11:25:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sinergy quote: One is born either slave or master it is genetic simple fact Now there is no tolerance of differance These two statements contradict each other. Some are X and become Y, some are Y and become X, some are both X and Y, but the first statement shows a level of intolerance for differences in people. I personally think people's sexuality exists on a broad spectrum, rather than a black/white dichotomy. Sinergy i agree wholeheartedly... this is not a lifestyle of labeling or close-minded expectations. it took me a year to find where i fit in this lifestyle (and i'm still not sure where i'm going). But in reference to fakes and liars... how many present themselves with complete honesty? One has to expect to haul out the hip boots online especially.... part of the fantasy is being able to be whoever the person wants to be... just get real or give it up.

MistressDREAD -> RE: liers and fakes think for a sec (5/17/2004 9:21:20 AM)
1. OK 2. OK and so? 3. 9/10th of those online are here to learn and discover and to play out their fantasies on line with out commitment. 4. I am happy for You 5. yes but online NO ONE pays for their wrong words or feelings hurt. 6. Dont worry Brother I am edumacating dem on tolerance of differances ~smiles~ 7. if You were to go to a nother forum say on politics you would get the same amount of folks whom speak with out knowing and are arrogant intollerable hurtfull beings every bunch has their bad apples and no human is perfect all tho Im close I have this problem with spelling......... 8. I agree 9. those whom seek sumone whom spells correctly are looking for perfection. I know I dont fit that bill and Im sure that You dont either Brother but We fit the bill for many others and those others are all that matter really. 10. This is where I must disagree if it were only about Master and slave it would be called M.s. NOT BDSM. 11.Actually this is not totally correct either. Sum are born with Dominant tendancies and sum with suplicant tendancies but ALL can be taught either ither. 12.I state facts to Alternate Lifestyle living daily here and to the shigrin of most but it does not stop Me nor will it stop You from stating Your beleifs and facts as You live them. Remember to be careful when You tempt to Judge others actions even if they are negitive to what You beleive You then become the Judge and are conter Dicking what You are preachin about. 12. I am happy for You and Yours 13. I agree here Hate is Hate and bigotry is bigotry however anyone has the right to say what They feel its called freedom of speach and the constitution and I will defend that right to MY death if need ,even if it is for them to call Me names of which I have been called many providing they do not tempt to physically harm or force Me to do what I do not desire then Im cool with what people state as I am here to state My facts when faulsehoods roll around and so are You Brother... ~smiles~ and kirtsies and goes on down the message board trail.......

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