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RE: Is there a difference regarding punishment re: sub... - 2/15/2007 9:39:48 PM   
adaddysgirl


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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania


I agree as far as my relationship... pain is a reward... MMMMMMMM


Right...and as you have stated, you are not a lil girl....so i see what you are saying.
 
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RE: Is there a difference regarding punishment re: sub... - 2/15/2007 9:44:29 PM   
BabyNyla


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Status: offline 		I have a daddy dom and my punishments are not nurturing, nor are they nice.  In fact, I think his punishments lean more towards his sadistic nature then his daddy side.  Although sometimes he does give me *child-like punishments* ... I once had to write a certain phrase 2500 times ... kinda like when I was a kid back in elementary school ... I would have preferred a physical punishment.

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RE: Is there a difference regarding punishment re: sub... - 2/15/2007 9:52:27 PM   
adaddysgirl


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Status: offline 		i know there are some sadistic Daddy Doms out there....none that i have talked with but i have seen others mention them.  i couldn't be sure how the CP works for them but i guess if it accomplishes the goal....then that's what matters.
 
i had to do that damn line writing too one time.  It took me hours.  But he saw it really wasn't effective in the long run so he ditched that idea (thank god!)
 
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RE: Is there a difference regarding punishment re: sub... - 2/15/2007 10:02:45 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		My Daddy does not use CP because his first submissive acted out to get pain. He has his sadistic streak. I know another submissive on here with a sadistic daddy.

And just because I am a grown up does not mean I do not have a Daddy, Daddies do not go away just because a lil girl becomes a woman.. I thought I would state that it is a mindset, not just about age relations.

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RE: Is there a difference regarding punishment re: sub... - 2/15/2007 10:04:56 PM   
adaddysgirl


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Status: offline 		i think that i should mention here that most of my experience with D/g and DD was not BD SM related.  Most of the groups i was involved with were not into the kink.  i always felt a little out of place there because i was also into the BD and (light) SM.  At least here i have found others into both....while understanding that even with that similarity, others still go about it differently.
 
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RE: Is there a difference regarding punishment re: sub... - 2/15/2007 10:15:14 PM   
adaddysgirl


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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

My Daddy does not use CP because his first submissive acted out to get pain. He has his sadistic streak. I know another submissive on here with a sadistic daddy.

And just because I am a grown up does not mean I do not have a Daddy, Daddies do not go away just because a lil girl becomes a woman.. I thought I would state that it is a mindset, not just about age relations.


And i do understand that in your relationship, you are a woman, not a lil girl....and that you are a masochist and Sinergy is a sadist.
 
And as you know, i am talking about a different type of dynamic....Daddy/lil girl...ageplay...whatever people want to call it.  It is different than what you have.
 
i had meant to mention before that i had not seen a dom referred to as Daddy except in D/g until i came here.  It took me a minute to get used to the concept that not all who call their partner Daddy are into the lil girl thing.  But i do understand that now.
 
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RE: Is there a difference regarding punishment re: sub... - 2/16/2007 7:43:18 AM   
CreativeDominant


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Status: offline 		I want to take the time to thank everyone for their answers so far...I hope to get answers from other people on collarme too as I feel the more answers I get, the more viewpoints I can add to my own insight into this.

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RE: Is there a difference regarding punishment re: sub... - 2/16/2007 7:46:55 AM   
BOUNTYHUNTER


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Status: offline 		IT depends on the daddy since many have varied tastes..BH

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RE: Is there a difference regarding punishment re: sub... - 2/16/2007 8:41:15 AM   
Devilslilsister


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Status: offline 		My Daddy is a sadist.  It works for us ::shrugs::  Its like when he bites and i squirm or cry in pain and he finishes.. he hugs me, loves me, and makes it all better.... 

During times when i am in trouble.  He isnt Daddy.  Usually for "scenes" or whatever he is Master.  The "aftercare" depends on what effect he is desiring.  Like - back around summer when i was out - ah, playing with the boys and basically doing as i shouldnt, Master whupped me until i cried.  When i finally broke down and cried, he became Daddy and hugged me and spoke to me.  In that instance he was breaking walls.  There are have been other times when its been a good whupping and its "go to bed" afterwards. 

i see from reading others posts that most Doms can switch between Daddy/Master.  i think that most Doms know how each one affects their girl and at times uses them accordingly to get the effect they want. 


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RE: Is there a difference regarding punishment re: sub... - 2/16/2007 8:45:19 AM   
MasterMataeo


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Status: offline 		"daddy's girls" get off on the age style power used and therefor i think that veiw the punishment very differnt that a Sub,
a Sub in my house once told me ,, and she her self was intot he Dadd Girl thing for a bit ,, but rather enjoyed the freedoms of being a sub and not a "lil girl" and as for me the punishments are very differnt,, i treat a "daddy's girl"  jsut like that ,, a young lil girl , and a sub as just that ,, a woman who is submisive and knows that she does something wrong when she does and therefor is justly punished

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RE: Is there a difference regarding punishment re: sub... - 2/16/2007 6:32:40 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

sorry but with my Daddy, there's no such thing as "weddle" out of any punishment with Him.  He's very firm and strict about that - this is where His Dom side kicks in.
Ahh but you see here..you in a way agreed with me..you stated that with your Daddy you dont weddle out of anything for this is when his "Dom" side kicks in...so hence not Daddy mode but "Dom" mode...Tempting

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RE: Is there a difference regarding punishment re: sub... - 8/14/2007 6:34:44 PM   
FelinePersuasion


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Status: offline 		Umm I am a daddies girl, and actually I do not see myself as submissive. I am a switch, and I am very dominant  in my personality and very demanding. Daddy even says so, he told me one day no you're not a switch your a dominant.


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ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant



***Please note...I know that "daddy's girls" see themselves as submissives.  I am not questioning that.  I accept that they are submissive and the use of the two separate terms is ONLY for distinguishing the differences in dynamics....subtle or great...between a daddy's girl submissive and a submissive that does not identify as a daddy's girl.***




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RE: Is there a difference regarding punishment re: sub... - 8/14/2007 6:56:48 PM   
Aine


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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

My Daddy does not use CP because his first submissive acted out to get pain. He has his sadistic streak. I know another submissive on here with a sadistic daddy.

And just because I am a grown up does not mean I do not have a Daddy, Daddies do not go away just because a lil girl becomes a woman.. I thought I would state that it is a mindset, not just about age relations.


Amen.

JL is two years older than me.  He is my Daddy, and switch partner.  (I'm 24)  He gives me the kind of relationship and stability that I've never had before, freedom and understanding and nurturing that blows me away.

It's only a part of what we are together, but I am a woman first when I am with him. 

I do not ageplay, but I guess I can be what some call a babygirl.  I'm a big kid.  But it has nothing to do with sex.  That's left for other times.

He doesn't use CP with me since I am a masochist.  Heck, he doesn't punish me, he doesn't discipline me.  He helps me sure, but unless absolutely necessary, it's just not something that is needed in our relationship right now.

We're rather relaxed, I guess.

I wouldn't be object to being disciplined.  Heck, I've come up with a few ideas myself and I wouldn't be surprised if I ever had to do any of those things if it ever came to it.

They are things I would do myself, therefore have someone else use if the situation arose.


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RE: Is there a difference regarding punishment re: sub... - 8/14/2007 9:52:33 PM   
Ysabol


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Status: offline 		I have never had to be punished by my Daddy yet, so I'm not sure - but punishment doesn't really seem to be part of ageplay dynamic. Now, realize this IS different than play - Daddy and I are heavily into bondage, etc - but this is NOT punishment.

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RE: Is there a difference regarding punishment re: sub... - 8/14/2007 9:59:27 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		*I* have a Mommy's girl, in Angel. He is a slave, not a submissive, for those of you who believe there is a distinction between the two. I have only punished him once, for mouthing off.  I have not had to do so any other time, and the punishment was specific to him. It had nothing to do with the dymanic we have, it had to do with what I knew would be effective.  Same goes for any of my subs or slaves if and when I keep them. Corporal Punishment isnt effective with all subs or slaves.  For some, its a treat not a punishment. I always tailor the punishments to whatever the sub likes least.

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