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flavius -> food for thought (2/16/2007 5:20:44 PM)
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Accepting a collar,
you need...
* A Mistress you can trust
* A Mistress you can talk to about your concerns
* A Mistress who wants to help you be happy and healthy
* A relationship that makes you feel secure and safe
* A relationship that’s geared toward our mutual health and happiness
Serve as she requires, not as you believe you 'should', take your cues from her, keep the lines of communication open, don't whine or rant, be invisible in your service, anticipate her needs, learn of her - who she is, what she wants, how she expects things to be - make sure that you can be what she requires because it's 'within' you to be that and not because you have to force yourself to be that, begin to set aside your own expectations as you allow her to color your world with her own palette, keep her entertained and amused but don't forget to laugh yourself, have fun with your slavery, revel in it, enjoy it.
A Master takes away his slave's free use of time. Her time no longer belongs to her. She rises in the morning when instructed, and her use of time is at Master's will. She will work at what Master orders when he tells her. If she works outside the home, she is expected back at a certain time, her time belongs to him. When she eats, sleeps, perhaps uses the bathroom, when she does her chores, and when and if she has leisure is not for her to decide. Her time is not her own. If Master calls her to his side, she goes, no matter what she was doing. Her time is not her own, it belongs to Master. When you take away a woman's free use of her time, it no longer belongs to her, but becomes Master's time. I think there is no more powerful psychological experience than that of not owning your own time
Just some great quotes to help us along
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