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RE: Flatulence and bowl insecurity after anal play. - 4/13/2007 11:24:08 PM

FelinePersuasion

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Because our play's not planned, he'll be fingering me I got a toy going in me and I am like hey, lets try it. We've tried to plan, be like ok we'll have a bath we won't eat such an such and we'll try to be all pooped out litterally, and the mood's just never come up lol. always a suprise, and it just seems to work best, like once he almost got his penis in my butt, and I would of let him to it was comfy, but try to recreate that and noooooooooooooooooooooo it didn't work to good.

He likes to make me laugh about farting, he says there she goes again showing me she loves me, because if I didn't love him I wouldn't be comfy to be myself and fart about him.

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ORIGINAL: Domspaintoy

Why not just ask your Dom to give you an enema before-hand and incorporate it in the play/scene?

Relax it was probably because you were anxious.

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RE: Flatulence and bowl insecurity after anal play. - 4/17/2007 8:15:26 PM

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Some fairly decent books on the subject:

Trust: The Hand Book - A Guide to the Sensual and Spiritual Art of Handballing by Bert Herrman

While primarily targeted towards gay men, this book gives a great deal of advice about diet, enemas, the problems with using drugs, relaxation techniques, possible problems, etc. Can farts be spiritual? If you're flying high enough after a good session of anal sex, who knows?
Anal Pleasure and Health by Jack Morin, Phd

Probably an excellent reference to have on hand whether one is interested in anal play or not. You may learn enough about the reactions of your gastro-intestinal tract that you can relax about them.
The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Woman by Tristan Taormino

Generally considered one of the experts on the subject, if Taormino can't make you feel better about your anal sex farts, perhaps nobody can.

I hope that some of these help! I know that I'm a lot more relaxed about farting with someone who I've been intimate with regarding anal play several times. My main problem is relaxation. I seem to be quite literally anal-retentive.

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Eh... I'd say don't worry about it but sit on a towel anyway. It will ease your mind and if anything does happen, make clean-up easier.

I agree. A towel, industrial strength undies or Depends if going out later -- whatever eases your mind. Gas and fecal matter are a part of anal play. It's best to get used to it. If you've got a major phobia, you may want to contact a sex-positive counselor.

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RE: Flatulence and bowl insecurity after anal play. - 4/17/2007 8:34:46 PM

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OMG, FelinePersuasion....you have hit on my biggest hang-up and nightmare.

While I love anal, I do NOT like anything to do with the "bodily functions" including poofing, of that area. And as I am not big into humiliation, except for in certain areas of play, this is a really hard subject for me. According to my mother, I have disliked the whole process since I was a child.

Yes, accidents happen, but when they do, I don't want to know about it and I don't want to see it. I just pretend it never happened....laugh.

And I am big on keeping the area clean and gentle enemas. And since we are constantly expelling gas even when we are not aware of it, I would say that if you are feeling the need to poof, it may be air "backing up" and therefore causing that uncomfortable feeling.

By the way, there is a hilarious website someone pointed me to called "the poop report" whose goal is to turn everyone into "shameless s***ters. Turns out, I am a "shameful" one.

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RE: Flatulence and bowl insecurity after anal play. - 4/17/2007 9:02:27 PM

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I will hunt down those books!

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RE: Flatulence and bowl insecurity after anal play. - 4/17/2007 9:24:15 PM

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...i was terrified the first time i had anal! but after talking with a great sub friend, she sweetly smiled & said.."s**t happends & thats what soap & water are for". it has been my experiance, that any man worth his weight, understands that it comes with the "territory" & it can be great for humilation play or for good clean fun in the shower. as a matter of fact, anal in the shower is awesome...

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