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sensualmagirl -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 9:37:27 PM)
Male Lesbians are especially welcome I would think FT... [:D]

FukinTroll -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 9:43:12 PM)
[sm=mrpuffy.gif]YAY!!

FelinePersuasion -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 9:48:58 PM)
Wrinkling my nose at you, because I personally feel liver is gross, tastes bad looks bad smells bad, however not as bad as fish does lol[&:] quote: ORIGINAL: agirl [ Liver lover is a gorgeous word combination, by the way. agirl

azzmaster -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 10:24:43 PM)
sexual orientation is about what turns you on, not who u have sex with. people have a million reasons for fuckin someone that might not be about desire. howeva alot of men r not as real about bein bi as azzmaster. its insecurity. i m as manly as they get but i like fuckin men as well as women, no need to lie about it

defiantbadgirl -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 10:53:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia all i can say is that, any male that does it (or wants to be "forced" to do it) ARE bisexual. it's us straight guys that would fight tooth and nail to prevent such things from happening. I agree that they are bisexual, and so would most of mainstream society. The point I'm trying to make is, anyone who says they are straight on their profile, but has engaged in bisexual acts should specify that to prevent any misunderstanding. Some of the coolest people I've ever met are of a different sexual orientation. The people I know don't apply a definition they know will be misunderstood, deceive their potential partners, then tell them after they are involved......."Oh by the way, I have engaged in sexual acts with my own gender." Then when their partner is freaking out......."Why are you so upset? I never lied to you. I was honest according to technical definition."

kc692 -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 10:59:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl No, I don't hate you. I don't hate anyone for their sexual orientation.......straight, bi, or gay. I just think potential partners have a right to know if someone has engaged in bisexual acts before sleeping with them. You have a dom anyway. If for some reason you and your dom split and you are seeking, telling new potential doms that you're bisexual would actually benefit you. Most men are turned on by bisexual women. Ask these same men if they like watching two males get it on and they're like no thanks. That's why I'm surprised TopCat was so mean. Straight male doms normally don't like to think about two men getting it on. They also don't normally chaterize others that do though, and since when did this thread digress to watching and or thinking about two "other" men getting it on???? WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOT( I am assumimg you were not putting topcat in the actual pile, course I could be wrong about your intention there) We are not mainstream, and although there is nothing wrong with it, it seems you are looking for vanilla with a swirl thrown in now and then. There is nothing wrong with that, but there is no reason to put others down, or think they are misrepresenting themselves to you. As far as others who supposedly are as in the dark as you, that is exactly what these forums are for, and any other research materials available worldwide. If one does not choose to utilize them, they cannot whine about the fact they are naive or ignorant, they need to research as I would hope they do when possible involving a maqjority of new experiences in their life.

juliaoceania -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 10:59:34 PM)
quote: The point I'm trying to make is, anyone who says they are straight on their profile, but has engaged in bisexual acts should specify that to prevent any misunderstanding. I think you should take a little responsibility and list on your profile that bisexual acts of any sort past present or future are your hard limit...

FukinTroll -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 11:03:12 PM)
In my best Rod Serling Picture a man... setting down at his PC to catch up on some reading... he finds this thread... and crosses over into the trainwreck zone. Now a really scary thought.... what if she is the woman Polyamorous is going to breed with.

stef -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 11:04:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania I think you should take a little responsibility and list on your profile that bisexual acts of any sort past present or future are your hard limit... If she's not going to take responsibility for turning her ex gay, why woukd she take responsibility for anything else? Princess is into denial, not defiance. ~stef

juliaoceania -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 11:08:12 PM)
quote: Princess is into denial, not defiance. You can lead a princess to the frogs, but you can't make her pick the straight one to kiss.

cjenny -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 11:13:16 PM)
dbg, this is my last post here. Instead of altering your profile just drop it. You are in no place to be seeking what you think you need. All you want is safety and at your terms, hon that just won't work. Go out, be with vanilla folks. You say over n over that you are mostly mainstream, so WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING HERE? You refuse help from us, you refuse any version of the world that doesnt fit into your catagories. Yes it is harsh of me. Maybe harsh will make you see. Yet I dont think it will. I dont think you will see because it is so much easier to blame others than to alter your view of the world.

FukinTroll -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 11:19:34 PM)
Hey cj!!!!

stef -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 11:21:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: Princess is into denial, not defiance. You can lead a princess to the frogs, but you can't make her pick the straight one to kiss. God forbid she picks one of the species of frogs that can change it's sex. She would probably stroke out from having to deal with that. ~stef

FukinTroll -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 11:23:17 PM)
LMAO!!!!!!

FelinePersuasion -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 11:23:52 PM)
make that just about never and is constantly whineing an ya got yourself an accurate discription lol. quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail Everybody likes Mike, he just don't get out of the house-----much....... Ron

FelinePersuasion -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 11:32:26 PM)
It's called a dildo, or a strap on. quote: ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl Ok. How could a straight man have sex with another man to please his mistress? Wouldn't he develop a temporary case of erectile dysfunction?

Vendaval -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 11:33:38 PM)
Damn! There went the ice water all over the computer screen! [sm=biggrin.gif]

defiantbadgirl -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 11:39:25 PM)
Anyone who has hard limits is wanting safety at their terms. Does that mean anyone with hard limits should drop their profile? Or does that only apply to those who seek a partner who has never engaged in bisexual acts? I'm on here because I enjoy bdsm. I know you mean well, but everyone is unique in their own way. Imagine how boring this world would be if everyone shared the same likes and dislikes.. If everyone deleted their profiles because of their differences, this site wouldn't exist.

defiantbadgirl -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 11:50:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stef quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania I think you should take a little responsibility and list on your profile that bisexual acts of any sort past present or future are your hard limit... If she's not going to take responsibility for turning her ex gay, why woukd she take responsibility for anything else? Princess is into denial, not defiance. ~stef How in the hell did I turn my ex gay when he had a gay lover before I even met him?

juliaoceania -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 11:55:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl Anyone who has hard limits is wanting safety at their terms. Does that mean anyone with hard limits should drop their profile? No, but you should list YOUR hard limits on YOUR profile instead of trying to police everyone else's profiles... one is a futile endeavor, the other might be fruitful quote: Or does that only apply to those who seek a partner who has never engaged in bisexual acts? I'm on here because I enjoy bdsm. I know you mean well, but everyone is unique in their own way. Imagine how boring this world would be if everyone shared the same likes and dislikes.. If everyone deleted their profiles because of their differences, this site wouldn't exist. Your profile is very short, it might be beneficial for you to put some thought into it. I am not about to tell you what you are or what you are not... but to me you sound like BDSM is more of a recreational activity for you. You enjoy topping and bottoming. That is fine! But there is a big difference between this and subbing and domming. Now I cannot tell people what they are, just letting you know that you may be giving people the wrong impression of what you are offering. For example if I were a dom and a sub told me that she was only interested in subbing in the bedroom that would mean something completely different than owning a submissive. I think people should do what makes them happy, and if your definitions for WIITWD work for you, great! If your definition for bisexuality works for you, Great! But what I see you doing is setting up a situation that leads only to frustration because you are out of step with most of the people you are interacting with... and that has got to be frustrating.

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