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Physical Chastisement - 2/19/2007 5:54:37 AM

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Do You derive satisfaction from beating a slave/sub? If so, how would You characterise that satisfaction? Is it simply a sexual satisfaction, an adrenaline rush or a much more complex emotional fulfillment?

What (if anything) can the sub/slave to make the experience most satisfying for You? i appreciate that this will vary between individuals.

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RE: Physical Chastisement - 2/19/2007 6:24:14 AM

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ORIGINAL: womanworshipper

Do You derive satisfaction from beating a slave/sub? If so, how would You characterise that satisfaction? Is it simply a sexual satisfaction, an adrenaline rush or a much more complex emotional fulfillment?

What (if anything) can the sub/slave to make the experience most satisfying for You? i appreciate that this will vary between individuals.

paul

I have to say it's both sexual and a adrenaline rush for me. Just depends on my mood
at the time.

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RE: Physical Chastisement - 2/19/2007 8:20:22 AM

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Do You derive satisfaction from beating a slave/sub?

Yes.

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If so, how would You characterise that satisfaction? Is it simply a sexual satisfaction, an adrenaline rush or a much more complex emotional fulfillment?

Simply beating isn't sexual gratifying as it doesn't come to an orgasm for me. But, it does turn me on...a lot. Usually, it's a much more complex emotional/spiritual thing for me if I'm connected to the sub. If I'm not, it's either an adrenaline thing or a spiritual thing.

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What (if anything) can the sub/slave to make the experience most satisfying for You? i appreciate that this will vary between individuals.

Reactions. I don't like beating someone who is stoic.

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RE: Physical Chastisement - 2/19/2007 9:56:36 AM

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Master Fire

Thank you for that bit of information. I am a stoic type personality myself and just grin and bear it. You are saying that you would prefer to hear screams or moans, correct? I bet my Mistress would like that better too. I never really thought about it before.

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RE: Physical Chastisement - 2/19/2007 10:23:49 AM

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Yep. I enjoy beating a sub/slave. For me, it's the adrenaline rush, plus a power/energy thing. Sexually, it turns me on quite a bit, but more in the mental sense than the physical, if you get my drift. I'd say 95% mental and 5% physical overall.

I'm with Master Fire on this one....Reaction. I would grow terribly bored with a bottom/sub/slave that never did or said anything during a beating. That body language and verbalization is a very important part of the energy exchange for me.

As always, YMMV...
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RE: Physical Chastisement - 2/19/2007 2:12:42 PM

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AHAH!!!!!!!!! OOOOF! GEEEEZZZ. The possibility of this for me is verrrryyyy verrrryy small, sad to say!

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RE: Physical Chastisement - 2/19/2007 2:57:03 PM

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Thanks to All Respondents.

If i may be permitted to ask a supplementary question, do You derive Your principal (or indeed any) satisfaction from the amount of pain a sub/slave is prepared to take for You? i am assuming that You want a reaction to know that he or She is feeling pain.

i see my desire to be beaten by my Mistress as an intense physical expression of my submission to Her. If She does not enjoy beating me, the act has no meaning for me. Would You say the inverse is true for You, i.e. the beating is an expression of Your domination and You want the slave to willingly suffer to please You?

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RE: Physical Chastisement - 2/19/2007 3:02:24 PM

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womanworshiper:

How long have you been involved in this lifestyle? Curious minds would like to know.

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RE: Physical Chastisement - 2/19/2007 3:05:27 PM

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I recieve my satisfaction through the act itself, not through the fact that the bottom is willingly suffering to please me, or not.

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RE: Physical Chastisement - 2/19/2007 4:25:20 PM

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In reply to SCDommie: Ma'am,

my r/t bdsm experience, just 6 months; acknowledged my submissive nature, around 10 years; a male submissive, 45 years.

Is there only one lifestyle represented on CollarMe? There seem to me to be many perspectives and i am interested to hear many different views. i apologise if my questions sound naive, but i strive to overcome my naivete by asking questions.

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RE: Physical Chastisement - 2/20/2007 12:24:44 PM

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Master Fire

Thank you for that bit of information. I am a stoic type personality myself and just grin and bear it. You are saying that you would prefer to hear screams or moans, correct? I bet my Mistress would like that better too. I never really thought about it before.

If it mattered to your Dominant, they'd have told you. Some people like the sub to suffer in silence. But if you have any question if you're pleasing your Dominant to the best of your ability at any given time, ask them. As always, communication is key.

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RE: Physical Chastisement - 2/20/2007 12:34:11 PM

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For me, mother nature has short circuited the boundary between pain cries and erotic cries. Screams, shrieks, whimpers, moans, crying and such physically arouse me. Because of this, I'm with Fire on needing response to my work on the sub. Since I was discovered to have sadistic tendencies as a child and "fixed," for me to truly get off on some one's suffering it has to be consensual and they need to enjoy it, on some level, also. I can achieve orgasm by beating a masochist who can take a high level of pain, vocally enjoy it, express how much it hurts, and beg for more. While the mental rush of having someone take as much for me as they can because they love me or wish to serve me is awesome, without the erotic component I'd not bother with the more extreme play.

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