Sinergy -> RE: Incentives (5/17/2004 2:58:06 PM)
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I believe the question was incentives for the submissive to do things for themselves that they found difficult to motivate themselves to do. For example, a submissive needs to prepare a presentation which is due on Friday, but on Tuesday they had not really started and are unable to motivate themselves to do it, do any Dominants on this site have incentives they have used. The submissive is not doing it for me, she is doing it for herself. I agree with those who stated the submissive's service to their Master should be enough to do tasks that were about me, but if I read the question right I would have to say that I have used certain incentives in the past. Positive: Play dates, outings (dates), trips to do things, presents, etc., if the task is completed on time and to my satisfaction. Negative: Withholding play, orgasms, time doing other enjoyable things, etc., until the task is completed to our satisfaction. I found the positive ones tended to work better than the negative ones. Sinergy
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