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DiannaVesta -> RE: Help !!! (2/22/2007 11:46:38 AM)
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ORIGINAL: RWAble
First off, let me give You an idea of what I received in my messagebox just last week. I received 62 messages. 14 of those were from friends I talk to. 2 were from those Russian spammers, the rest were pro-dommes.
An example of one pro-dommes message:
(Got on your knees you f***ing pig and open your wallet, you are MINE now.) That was the whole message.
I may be submissive, but I am not a f***ing pig and she has no right to address me as such.
My profile doesn't indicate anything about wanting pro-dommes and I do not write any Dommes on here, unless they write me first. It is not my way to approach anybody without good reason.
Perhaps I was a bit out of sorts and behaved improperly. For that I appologize to everyone. I am not a bitter submissive, just one that is here to perhaps meet someone; enjoy the forums and make friends.
Not be verbally abused by people such as pro-dommes. This site is a free site and if pro-dommes want to solicit for money, then they should get their own site and pay for it.
Anyways, sorry if I offended anyone.
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ORIGINAL: AAkasha
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ORIGINAL: thetammyjo
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ORIGINAL: RWAble
I do understand it is not what You all want. I just get a bad flavor when my message box is full of simple notes like (send me a tribute). I realize there are alot of true to their calling Dommes around, just the wanabees and players make it bad for everybody.
Are you first writing to them or are they contacting you first?
If they are contacting you first, could there be something in your profile that suggests you are interested in prodoms?
If you are contacting them first, what attracts you to these people? Is there a common trait that might also be more common to prodoms than to others?
I'm just trying to say that when all we seem to attract are those types of people we really don't want, the best place to make changes is in ourself. We can't change others but we can adjust what we do and who we contact.
Tammyjo makes good points. A lot of the times, men browse the site and contact the women that are "too good to be true" (read: hot photo, sexy fetish gear, and a profile that lists all the kinks in great detail --a dream come true, she is into ANYTHING!). If it seems too good to be true, it probably is. Those are pros, or they are men who use fake profiles to get cash from unsuspecting horny guys.
Akasha
You really get that much spam from people? Damn I'm lucky I guess. I am sure there are plenty of women that do scam and use any venue possible to pull clients, however I also think there are a lot of women here that are not looking to rape your wallet & truly interested in a relationship. At the same time you need to keep it all in prespective and know that to each his own. If its not for you then move on but don't trash the way someone esle does something. have an opinion, ok but don't generalize.
Dianna Vesta
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