indydomme
Posts: 27
Joined: 1/16/2005 From: Columbus, IN Status: offline
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I haven't yet heard I'm too nice to be Domme, but I have heard I'm not harsh enough, from guys who say they aren't masochist. When they ask me what I would do, I tell them, "That entirely depends on you, I don't know what things you do and don't like... which things you dislike more than others. Your punishments are not going to be enjoyable. The nature of punishment is to deter you from unacceptable behavior. So whatever I do, it's going to be something you dislike... immensely..." That's my spiel. And when the persist, I drop them like a bad habit. I don't go into descriptions about scenes or anything online usually, and that irritates some boys. I am sooooo not into online domination, not at all, or any kind of "cybersex" type of thing. And that's what 75% of boys I encounter are after. I am also still fairly new and am doing a great deal of learning about the things I enjoy and do not enjoy. I have encountered many boys who don't like that I don't know EXACTLY what I want right this second. Which, even if I had another five years experience as a domme, I STILL wouldn't know exactly what I wanted, I am a woman, my tastes and my wants and needs change pretty often, as I'm sure most women's do. I don't expect them to know exactly what they want, just that they be open to new experiences. And I don't believe that is too much to ask. :) I don't know how much that had to do with the original post, but I hope it helps, at least a little. Miss Erin
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I'm not a bitch, I just know exactly what I want, and exactly what it takes to get there. Now, Bend Over.
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