curiouspet55
Posts: 133
Joined: 10/13/2006 From: Indiana Status: offline
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Hello all- I have a question, and hopefully I won't sound too stupid...I'm still relatively new to the 'lifestyle'. Up to this point, I have identified myself as a submissive, because I enjoy surrendering control, being owned, belonging to my Master, pleasing him. In non-sexual areas, though, it becomes a bit blurry. I like to be in control at school and work, of my situation and what is going on. I like to plan things, and know what is happening and when. I don't want to Dom my Master, so to speak, because I wouldn't want to be in control sexually, but I do want to have vanilla sex sometimes, and to have some equalities outside of the bedroom. I mean, I'd know he had my heart, soul, and body, but he wouldn't get ultimate say with my friends/family/school/work. I guess my question is, is a switch someone who enjoys being in control and surrendering control, depending on the person, but all in a sexual manner? Or is a switch someone who enjoys being in control outside of sex but is submissive in sexual areas? For the latter, not necessarily in control of the person, just of situations. I'm trying to figure out what classification I fall under, and its a tad bit complicated. Thanks for any input. cp55
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