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RE: a Master - 3/5/2007 1:31:13 AM

mons

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greeting carla

i would not let anyone rush me he is moving to fast a month is a second in time and you must know this dom more go from the kinky stuff and move on to knowing who he is what is is really about if he does not want to go the other way anfd just talk he is not for you but that is my opion i would not want you do gave up on someone who may be for you but then work on having him talk more of other thing and not be so demanding there is a post a woman has meant a done online he is what your dom may need to do to meet your comfort level it is on the boards of general bdsm

warm wishe and i do wish you luck
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RE: a Master - 3/5/2007 6:47:55 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: carlaa

it is NOT vanilla. whatever the icon might say. it very kinky. Thank You.

It puts the lotion in the basket?

I've been in a couple of situations where the speed of things made me feel a bit crazy. What works best for me is to sit down and decide - I'm either in (and therefore speed is simply a complement), out (in which case I get to stand still), or I don't have enough information to make the call. If that's the case, I either get myself comfortably informed, or make it as clear as humanly possible (especially to myself, mind you) that I am weighing things.
The important bit being that it's not very sound or emotionally healthy to commit/submit/surrender until you can happily decide that you're in. Regardless of how much you may *want* to (and especially regardless of whether you think you're likely to get what you want somewhere else. oi.). ;)

i like parentheses.

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RE: a Master - 3/6/2007 4:52:26 PM

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It?

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RE: a Master - 3/8/2007 3:53:08 PM

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quote:

The important bit being that it's not very sound or emotionally healthy to commit/submit/surrender until you can happily decide that you're in.

Very good logic as i too was recently faced with beginning an unusual relationship, which some may consider full of obstacles and challenges; however, after personally reaching the conclusion "i'm in", the worry of going too fast or too slow became a moot point.

Now, I go with the flow and not one day of worry of the speed of the relationship under His direction.

Good advice to follow from the previous responses...

Respectfully,
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