kiki blue
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Joined: 1/16/2004 From: Brisbane, Australia Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: EStrict Is it cheating if you mastrubate alone but thinking of say, Mel Gibson? Or if you imagine him while having sex? What about if you DO tell your partner that you are cybering, and as long as that's all it is, they don't mind? For me, fantastising during masturbation is normal. I'm the sort of girl who happily shares fantasies with my partner, whether it's stuff we share during sex together, or something I did by myself. If the peopel in the relationship agreed cyber 'wham bam thank you ma'am" was ok (with no emotional connectection) and they told each other about it, then I guess that'd be okay for them. But for me, it's cheating. I'm there to be the fucktoy, cumslut, to have and to use as the fulfillment of fantasies. quote:
I am just curious to how *firm* your thoughts are on this kind of thing. I can't stand cyber, but wouldn't care if Master did it any more than I would mind if he played with another RL. Of course the second is more likely as he doesn't like cyber either... I don't cyber anymore. It's more frustrating than anything else, and my current desk and chair don't make it easy. If I want to masturbate, I will. If I'm involved with someone, I'm quite willing to experiment, to explore and to enact fantasies. I see no need for it, when I'm in a relationship, with sex on tap. Playing, as in S&M stuff, is not sexual to me. It's just fun. But the big point I have with all this, is whether it's an activity you feel you have to hide from your partner. If your relationships has it as being an open thing, all fine and dandy. But if you're doing someing that you know will hurt your partner if they find out (which my ex did), then it's cheating, and not acceptable to me. I intensely disklike being lied to.
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