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RE: 'Real doms' - 3/2/2007 8:04:26 AM

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Talk about contradicting yourself, you state that you arent defending yourself but merely seeking opinions, yet when the flaw in that argument is shown to you, you then state, well ok I have to defend myself to get a range of opinions. Tell you what, hows about I pass a hat around for you, or better yet why not go out and beg for some change. Ive heard that professional beggers make decent money and if that is what you're after I say go for it. And yes azzmaster I do find her profile extremely annoying. Not to mention the fact that no mention is made anywhere in it that she is merely after cash. Sweetheart if you dont like people being down on you, then dont stick your chin out so far cos it is just begging to be hit. Oh wait a sec, thats right maybe my "opinion" isnt the type you are after.

Oh and p.s, I would love to hear from anyone who has actually seen this person live on cam, cos the whole thing reeks of fake assed money making scam to me. Tell you what greed, i'll send you five bucks if you go live on cam for anyone here. (ten if you show em your boobs)

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RE: 'Real doms' - 3/3/2007 3:36:18 AM

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Talk about contradicting yourself, you state that you arent defending yourself but merely seeking opinions, yet when the flaw in that argument is shown to you, you then state, well ok I have to defend myself to get a range of opinions. Tell you what, hows about I pass a hat around for you, or better yet why not go out and beg for some change. Ive heard that professional beggers make decent money and if that is what you're after I say go for it. And yes azzmaster I do find her profile extremely annoying. Not to mention the fact that no mention is made anywhere in it that she is merely after cash. Sweetheart if you dont like people being down on you, then dont stick your chin out so far cos it is just begging to be hit. Oh wait a sec, thats right maybe my "opinion" isnt the type you are after.

Oh and p.s, I would love to hear from anyone who has actually seen this person live on cam, cos the whole thing reeks of fake assed money making scam to me. Tell you what greed, i'll send you five bucks if you go live on cam for anyone here. (ten if you show em your boobs)

In an earlier post I said I feel no need to defend myself ( for what I do) as I dont feel what I do is wrong, I will defend myself against personal insults as I feel there is no need for such pointless attacks, 'Sweetheart' (!) I have no problem with people being down on me, what I have a problem with is the people that cant express an opinion towards what I do without throwing in insults and name calling! And yes Id gladly turn my cam on for anyone.... and Ill tell ya what, you keep your 5 bucks, you obviously need it more than me :-)
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RE: 'Real doms' - 3/3/2007 3:48:34 AM

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Firstly I'd like to say, in my opinion financial doms ARE 'real doms'...

Guess you'd be screwed finding a DOM if the world stock markets collapse... or an event of world wide catasophy.... Wonder how many stock brokers from Wall Street and others spoiled silly in the power of money, will know the first thing about what to do next! lol

Ummm wonder if your opinion will somehow be altered to redneck hunters being 'real doms, and the financial doms just a bunch of 'sissy boys' pulling out guns shooting themselves in the head because they lost control...

If the world goes to Hell in a Hand basket, you'll be looking for Mad Maxx and dollar bills to use for toilet paper...

Just a little food to feed the gremlins inside the brain!!!

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RE: 'Real doms' - 3/3/2007 7:41:29 AM

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Whiplash,

our economy is extremely specialized today. If these systems collapsed, the individuals who achieve power in the future, will be those who adapt to future specializations. People with survival skills, today, make nearly nothing for those skills; hunters, fishermen, etc. Most people wouldn't know what to do with a live pig, even if they were starving.

Yet, until that economic collapse comes about, the men who have money will continue to be men who wield power. Very few men today make any sort of living as a simple farmer, hunter, or fisherman.

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RE: 'Real doms' - 3/9/2007 4:43:10 AM

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i'd just like to say that i have seen Goddess Greed live on cam, and She certainly isn't a fake

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RE: 'Real doms' - 3/9/2007 10:35:22 AM

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Annoying personalities aside, I think labeling sex workers as immoral or somehow inferior people is wrong. Especially in a forum where we celebrate deviant sexuality. I think if sex workers got the respect they deserve we'd be living in a better world.

Money is such an interesting factor in our society, for some people more important and private than sex. I tend towards a more buddhist point of view and see money as just another "thing" and something I chose not to focus on..... Of course it is easier if you have lowered your expectations and raised your income to at least meet.

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RE: 'Real doms' - 3/9/2007 10:38:58 AM

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i'd just like to say that i have seen Goddess Greed live on cam, and She certainly isn't a fake

who are you??!!

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RE: 'Real doms' - 3/9/2007 12:00:15 PM

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Annoying personalities aside, I think labeling sex workers as immoral or somehow inferior people is wrong. Especially in a forum where we celebrate deviant sexuality. I think if sex workers got the respect they deserve we'd be living in a better world.

I agree with this entirely. I told my eldest unmentionable in a discussion about the sex industry that the ones who are generally ostracized, insulted, put down, or considered lacking in moral stature or ethics are those who work
in the industry.

Whereas their market is frequently referred to as gullible, socially inept, lonely, and various other "poor baby" sorts of sentiments.

We are all adults here. People can do what they consensually agree to do, even if I personally find their behavior
something that would personally squick me out.

Cant we all just get along?

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RE: 'Real doms' - 3/9/2007 12:48:16 PM

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This is just my point of view and 2cents worth,
In this ever-expanding world of BDSM, D/s, everyone tries to shove people under the same umbrella, Some individuals have fetishes which cannot be comprehended by other people, There are things that people do that we’d just as soon not be able to grasp the reality of.
A “Dom” gives, for instance, a spanking, a torture or a task. A “submissive” takes that spanking, a torture, a task, in the end, both of happy with the end result. This end result is a combination of giving and taking. Being a piggy/financial slave is the same. A submissive takes pleasure in treating the Dominant well and the Dominant likes being treated well.
Maybe I have just gone over grounds that have already been traveled but who are we to judge anyone just because one’s kinks/fetishes are not “widely accepted”
This, from my point of view is exactly what it is…a fetish, a kink, a give and take.

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RE: 'Real doms' - 3/9/2007 5:22:39 PM

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sorry guys, but Im gonna bring up the big financial arguement again! I realise its been done here over and over, but I just had to have another rant about it lol
I have just recieved mail from a sub...
GET Lost Im looking for a real Domm and not some fool looking for money!!! You may be nice looking but thats it. I would say to ya go out and get of your arse and get a job like every one else and stop using Subs and slaves

If you're a pro domme, then call yourself a pro domme and let that be one of your jobs. But you're never going to stop getting told off in these emails if you approach subs and start demanding money. Paying for it is not for everyone. It's

A pro domme provides a service for money. Those who say they are looking for a real Dom mean they want to make a connection with someone who is seeking what he or she is offering personally, emotionally, mentally and physically. They don't want something that just anyone can pay for.

And, I'm positive it has nothing to do with the men being jealous that they can't get women to pay them. The Dom I serve instructed me to purchase Him a very expensive book that I couldn't afford. I bought it and have been brown bagging my lunch since to make up the money. I was glad to be able to serve Him in this way and He actually thanked me warmly for the book. He said He would always remember the spirit in which He received the book every time he looked at it. THAT'S what's missing from your "pay me for my time" policy. (Not that it's in any way wrong). That's what people mean by a "real Dom" in case you really wanted to know.

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RE: 'Real doms' - 3/10/2007 1:43:12 AM

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Personaly I dont like words: real dom or real sub. There is so many fetishies and preferencies in BDSM world and nobody can say who is real and who isnt. Some people says real dom for person who fit to them , and no reals are who dont fit. In my opinion its childish

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RE: 'Real doms' - 3/10/2007 6:31:02 AM

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Personaly I dont like words: real dom or real sub. There is so many fetishies and preferencies in BDSM world and nobody can say who is real and who isnt. Some people says real dom for person who fit to them , and no reals are who dont fit. In my opinion its childish

You could always try "Weal or Twue Dom or weah or twue sub."

Sinewgy

p.s. If google made a english to fudd translator program, it cannot be childish.

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