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RE: etiquette in behaviour to submissives - 6/12/2004 5:34:38 PM

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*waves to lawrence from Ithaca*

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RE: etiquette in behaviour to submissives - 6/17/2004 10:23:55 PM

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::winks:: unless you show off some really HOT buns and sign everything *warm-regards* I am betting at least all the women on the boards will know the difference Sir. But then again, as you are both male dominants and people keep confusing a female slave from Nevada who signs her posts Sandy with a bald dominant from CA who has his pic on his posts, I could be wrong...

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RE: etiquette in behaviour to submissives - 6/18/2004 4:34:22 PM

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Whether online or RL, I interact with a submissive as an equal until he or she cedes submission.

That's definately how I behave, also.

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RE: etiquette in behaviour to submissives - 6/18/2004 4:51:32 PM

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ORIGINAL: Interesdom

I don't really understand this thing about having disrespect for subs. Personally I respect subs a great deal.
As a leader, I don't normally ask anyone to do something that I'm not prepared to do it myself.
But submissives, that's different. I'll get my submissive to go through things that I am just not prepared to do. Sure, I respect that.

I think some people just feel that dominance=putting people down. Maybe they've only ever experienced this upon themselves and imagine that those who have put them down are dominant, since they were submissive enough to allow it.

This is said so incredibly well that I simply had to quote it. Definitly one of those "Me too!" moments. I may not always treat everyone as an equal, but I make every effort to treat everyone (with some exceptions) with fairness and respect.

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RE: etiquette in behaviour to submissives - 6/18/2004 10:08:41 PM

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Hello,

There are things I am unwilling to do, period.

However, if I am unwilling to do it (period) then I am not going to demand my partner do it.

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RE: etiquette in behaviour to submissives - 6/19/2004 9:03:49 PM

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ORIGINAL: EStrict

::winks:: unless you show off some really HOT buns and sign everything *warm-regards* I am betting at least all the women on the boards will know the difference Sir.

Huh... I *do* use "Warm regards" ... a great deal. Oh well, perhaps I should look into to a copyright?

Just kidding :)

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RE: etiquette in behaviour to submissives - 6/20/2004 5:57:17 AM

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ORIGINAL: Lawrence111

quote:

ORIGINAL: EStrict

::winks:: unless you show off some really HOT buns and sign everything *warm-regards* I am betting at least all the women on the boards will know the difference Sir.

Huh... I *do* use "Warm regards" ... a great deal. Oh well, perhaps I should look into to a copyright?

Just kidding :)

Lawrence

<smile> Actually, Lawrence's tag is usually "Stay warm"

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RE: etiquette in behaviour to submissives - 6/20/2004 6:32:41 AM

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Actually, Lawrence's tag is usually "Stay warm"

And all you have to do is look at those pics, one gets warm all over...;)

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RE: etiquette in behaviour to submissives - 6/20/2004 12:23:11 PM

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ORIGINAL: sadistic

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ORIGINAL: SunDom

Whether online or RL, I interact with a submissive as an equal until he or she cedes submission.

That's definately how I behave, also.

Sadistic

Not me. The best lesson I ever learned from my mentor, a Pro Domme, was to assume everyone around me is inferior until proven otherwise. (smirk.) The trick is never let on that you feel that way......

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RE: etiquette in behaviour to submissives - 6/20/2004 12:39:26 PM

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And all you have to do is look at those pics, one gets warm all over...;)
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::laughing:: yep that's it... I was so flustered I misread it. Boy, the things Lawrence does to a girl....

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RE: etiquette in behaviour to submissives - 6/21/2004 3:38:03 PM

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ORIGINAL: EStrict

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And all you have to do is look at those pics, one gets warm all over...;)
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::laughing:: yep that's it... I was so flustered I misread it. Boy, the things Lawrence does to a girl....

ladies please!!!!!! you are getting the thread all wet and sticky

with all this drooling over lawrence's buns (and what were you thinking I meant?

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RE: etiquette in behaviour to submissives - 6/28/2004 7:28:35 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: EStrict

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And all you have to do is look at those pics, one gets warm all over...;)
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::laughing:: yep that's it... I was so flustered I misread it. Boy, the things Lawrence does to a girl....

Can't be talking about me: my buns (I'm told 'not bad') are not in my photo... then again, I have to learn how to add a photo to this section...Got it :)

Lawrence
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RE: etiquette in behaviour to submissives - 6/29/2004 2:19:54 PM

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*smiling* Just to provide the cowboy's point of view....

Good manners are good manners, and I don't care if he or she is Dominant, submissive, switch, has a thing for aliens, or what... I'm going to treat any person I meet in a friendly way, with proper manners, and be as gracious as I know how, until I have reason to behave otherwise.

Apparently, it's a fairly successful way of doing things, as My slave has been known to ask Me, "You've never met a stranger, have you?" *grin*

One's role within this life is not, never has been, and never will be an excuse to behave in a boorish manner... And those that do, are boors. I choose not to associate with such folks....

And that's how it looks, out here at the stock tank....

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