biggest frustration, velcro collars and multiple level of collars.
Seems like the collar has become jewelry more then what it really is, or at lest should be which is a real solid commitment.
I'm curious about why you are frustrated with multiple levels of collars. I know it isn't a common practice, but it has come into play in our dynamic and seems to fit the bill nicely, at least at this point.
When I was formally collared, it was just that. No collar of consideration, etc. However, my owner has not reached a point where he chooses to *own* anyone else. As such, he decided to use the multiple collar levels for anyone coming into the relationship. I am not sure how happy he is with it in practice, but it does seem to serve a purpose to some extent. Gives time to see if they are the right fit for this family, etc.
At any rate...I have mixed feelings on it, but also see a place for it. Am interested in discussion on this...both pro and con.
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