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cloudboy -> A Dominant's Erotic Ear (2/28/2007 4:17:04 PM)
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Dear Dominants,
The subject is dirty talk or its close cousin, erotic language. What phrases, when uttered by a sub, strike you as erotic?
For instance, with my own Mistress, she likes to hear something along the lines of, "Oh, please not an enema....." which imbues her with a feeling of power and the fact that I cannot refuse her commands.
If possible, try to be as specific (as opposed to generic) as possible in your replies, i.e. try to remember something unique that washed over you when the sub uttered a particular phrase. Feel free to describe the setting and context of your experience.***
***A specific example from me is: My Mistress, at any time, may txt msg me the instruction to insert a butt plug from a start time to an end time. I cannot refuse, and I always have to do it. One time I was out, and could not insert it until forty minutes after the time she requested. I texted her about this, and her reply was, "Don't worry, you will make up for that lost time up in another manner."
(This is the eroticism of unforeseen and unknown consequences. It is very sexy, and it is very understated.)
Footnote: I ask this question b/c I think most of the erotic language of BDSM is attributable to Dominants and their language of commands, sadism, and power. Yielding and submission, on the other hand, being reactive, don't quite get the same erotic standing. So, I am fishing for the other side.
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Switches,
For you, what phrases spark your dominant mood? What turns your switch dominant?
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