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sweetann21 -> what mistress wants (3/1/2007 1:07:17 AM)
hi, wanted to know the difference in requirements of a mistress and a master. are mistress more cruel?

FukinTroll -> RE: what mistress wants (3/1/2007 1:19:17 AM)
That depends on the respective M.

MsCfromMelbourne -> RE: what mistress wants (3/1/2007 2:52:53 AM)
There is a bizarre double standard online that a "real" Master must be a virile, ever-ready sexual magician able to keep a whole stable of femsubs breathlessly satisfied........but a "real" Mistress would never stoop to having sexual intercourse with a male submissive or....egads....a slave. Us Mistresses have to enjoy celibacy (unless we want to bat for the other team.......that's OK then!) Both stereotypes are just ludicrous. Every human being's sexuality is unique, and so are their requirements as a Dominant. You need to ask the individual what floats their boat

Stephann -> RE: what mistress wants (3/1/2007 9:11:13 AM)
Hi there ann. There are a lot of stereotypes in regards to dominant men and women. There are stereotypes of the differences between a 'Dom' and a 'Master' (and slaves verses submissives, and everyone verses switches, etc.) The only statement true 100% of the time, is that the stereotypes are misleading. 'Cruelty' can be expressed in many ways. Some people are emotional sadists, other's physical sadists, and some people are just plain unpleasant. The motivations for that 'cruelty' are important. I am a sadist, in the context that I enjoy mixing physical pleasure and pain. I enjoy practicing objectification and humiliation on a girl as well. On the other hand, I value the emotional elements of my relationship far more than the activity elements. It simply isn't as enjoyable for me to spank or whip a girl who I care nothing about. The focus of your question won't really be answered by gender; men and women are driven by essentially similar feelings and desires. How those feelings and desires are expressed can be confusing, to say the least. If you are bisexual, it's a good bed your own reaction as a submissive or slave will likely be triggered more by how you respond to a particular person, and less by their plumbing. Good luck, Stephan

TeeGO -> RE: what mistress wants (3/1/2007 2:43:01 PM)
I liked the title: "what mistress wants" so I can reply: "Mistress gets!!!"[sm=biggrin.gif]

TeeGO -> RE: what mistress wants (3/1/2007 2:51:29 PM)
On to your question: "hi, wanted to know the difference in requirements of a mistress and a master. are mistress more cruel? " Um, seriously they come in all types. Cruelty, love, compassion, caring. Most people have all these emotions. It sounds like you need a bit of cruelty, no? [:)] A good Master or Mistress will read what you need and give it to you. In your case maybe you should seek out a Dom/Domme couple and enjoy both.

LadySashayy -> RE: what mistress wants (3/2/2007 12:23:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne There is a bizarre double standard online that a "real" Master must be a virile, ever-ready sexual magician able to keep a whole stable of femsubs breathlessly satisfied........but a "real" Mistress would never stoop to having sexual intercourse with a male submissive or....egads....a slave. Us Mistresses have to enjoy celibacy (unless we want to bat for the other team.......that's OK then!) Both stereotypes are just ludicrous. Every human being's sexuality is unique, and so are their requirements as a Dominant. You need to ask the individual what floats their boat applause Well put!! I agree totally. The real problem then is how to overcome a common preconceived notion of many subs that a Mistress who wants actual intercourse with him is a demeaning vanilla activity. Would love to find the person who started that particular ugly meme and beat them black and blue with My paddle!

sweetnurseBBW -> RE: what mistress wants (3/3/2007 5:26:09 PM)
No. Mistresses and Masters can be just as cruel. It is not something that is just a Master or Mistress thing. You have to find the one that suits you.

joyinslavery -> RE: what mistress wants (3/3/2007 5:41:37 PM)
Well, all I can tell you is that in grade school, Sister AnnMarie was the cruelest of all of 'em. Hope that helps.

littlesarbonn -> RE: what mistress wants (3/3/2007 5:43:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne There is a bizarre double standard online that a "real" Master must be a virile, ever-ready sexual magician able to keep a whole stable of femsubs breathlessly satisfied........but a "real" Mistress would never stoop to having sexual intercourse with a male submissive or....egads....a slave. Us Mistresses have to enjoy celibacy (unless we want to bat for the other team.......that's OK then!) Both stereotypes are just ludicrous. Every human being's sexuality is unique, and so are their requirements as a Dominant. You need to ask the individual what floats their boat I served a woman who had sex with me when she desired. What was interesting is that outsiders somehow made this connection that each time she decided to have sex with me, even if it was me tied down and her doing whatever she desired, it somehow made her subservient to me. No matter how many explanations of how this was not the case, people just couldn't see it any other way.

LadyPact -> RE: what mistress wants (3/6/2007 11:42:52 AM)
I agree. Each Mistress is unique in our own way. It is like any other catagory of people. You can't stereotype us all together.

Mysti -> RE: what mistress wants (3/6/2007 11:48:37 AM)
What makes us unique makes us beautiful or something hallmark like that. I know Women who like to inflict pain, and I know Women that are more gentle and :motherly" takes all kinds to make the kinky planet turn. Me personally? I'm a reactionary sadist. Sadist doesnt necessarily mean pain. It means getting a reaction. I like seeing what reactions I can get from someone be it a twich of the muscle from a flick of the flogger, or a smile of happyness after some really great sex. Its really all relative

pantysniffer777 -> RE: what mistress wants (3/14/2007 6:56:01 PM)
i think all thi sdomination stuff is aload of crap all u ladies so caled misstresses are nothing more than divorced pissed off women who are mad beacause ur hubies dumped ur ass and ur so mad u decided to get revenge all u women need is a good kick in the ass and few slaps to set u straight

DiurnalVampire -> RE: what mistress wants (3/14/2007 7:00:03 PM)
And you wonder why you are single?

wildangel3825 -> RE: what mistress wants (3/14/2007 7:14:30 PM)
This girl is not a Mistress, and is very much a sub, but would like to add her 2 cents to what pantysniffer has posted. i am a divorced woman who's husband cheated, but am i angry??? Nope, i was able to find a wonderful Dom...best thing my husband ever did for me was to leave me!!! Most women find out after the husband leaves that they are better off. i do have to agree with one thing you said...i could use a few slaps on the ass to set me straight!!!! (Hopes a certain someone sees that...lol)

DiurnalVampire -> RE: what mistress wants (3/14/2007 7:17:11 PM)
I was a Domme well before I was divorced. I dumped HIS ass, and he stil tries to get me back. And Id love to meet the subbie who is brave enough to try and kick my ass chuckle That might be fun, I havent given a good deserved ass whupping in a while. Grow up, pantysniffer. If you really think that way, you are in the wrong lifestyle.

RWAble -> RE: what mistress wants (3/14/2007 8:04:20 PM)
Ditto, only the wife left and I raised the kids.

drbane -> RE: what mistress wants (5/3/2007 7:01:22 PM)
In my opinion, I think pantysniffer has completly missed the boat. Still I'm left wondering what he's doing here in the first place. Dr. Bane

kajirusilk -> RE: what mistress wants (5/3/2007 8:20:15 PM)
Ms Diurnal, i think he meant to say Kiss Your Ass, not kick! LOL like he would ever be so lucky!

amayos -> RE: What Mistress wants (5/3/2007 8:34:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne There is a bizarre double standard online that a "real" Master must be a virile, ever-ready sexual magician able to keep a whole stable of femsubs breathlessly satisfied........but a "real" Mistress would never stoop to having sexual intercourse with a male submissive or....egads....a slave. Us Mistresses have to enjoy celibacy (unless we want to bat for the other team.......that's OK then!) Both stereotypes are just ludicrous. An observation that touches upon more than just a little truth. Very well put.

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