Yes, though I would not allow myself to be used as a doormat in that way.
I am far too self-orientated to allow others to take liberties, and to service other's needs without getting release myself, is acting as a doormat.
We each need to relax in our own ways, if I don't switch from one polarity to another in a while, then yes, I find my stress levels going through the roof, though I would not describe it as ennui, but rather Mount St Helen's getting ready to blow.
Matron, sister or nurse wanted,
to administer discipline to unruly patient.