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chrissyslave -> RE: height differences (3/2/2007 11:46:43 AM)
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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania
It does not bother me, I do not like heels anyways, and I can wear them, but I think I need to clarify. I joked about wearing 6 inch heels to a fetish event. That would make me considerably taller than he... he has not told me never to wear heels ever. In fact I wore a regular pair(I was about the same height as he with them on) to his employee Christmas party.
He does not like the thought of me wearing extreme heels and I was just suggesting it to look like a freak[:D]
I did go on a first-meet date with a Dom, and he was the same height as myself without my 2" heels on (so was a tad taller then him at the time) and he wanted me to learn to walk in 5" heels a lot, so then I had both height issues and foot comfort ones as well. Never found out if it was just that he had a high heel kink, or he liked much taller woman (would have put me at 6'2" with 5" ones on). So for myself those were two negative aspects, but were likely 2 positives for himself. For a variety of reasons besides that we never had another meet again. Personally not into the Amazon Woman thing (again I am 5'9" and + 1/2" on a good day).
A side note on inseams here. For being the same height a woman will typically have a longer inseam than a man, as her back bones stop growing before her leg bones so, thus the common attraction for "long legged woman." Even moderatly tall woman often need longer inseams such as being 5'9-5'11 needing 34" to 35" inseams. Often these woman are "short waisted" as a result. I have a slightly longer torso so have only 31-32" inseam, and regular off the rack misses/juniors sizes fit just fine most of the time in my case.
But back to this main topic here, there are likely many influences that affect our height preference including social pressures growing up, but to recall a bondage play scene, I enjoyed having the 6'6 guy being able to pick me up or turn me without any problem at all, and I really felt very submissive when so easily manhandled. I felt like a kitten in his hands...and puurrrrrrrr did that feel nice!
chrissyslave-kitten
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